Why do i tense even though i enjoy the feeling?!
Question: Why do i tense even though i enjoy the feeling!?
My partner really turns me on when he uses his finger in my bum during intercorse, i always seem to have more intense orgasms!. We have tried double (using a small toy in my bum while having sex) and this is great but when we try anal it hurts too much and we have to stop!. I was wondering if anyone had any advise, we have tried lube etc and have no problems with the toys but as soon as he tries to enter me i tense up!.
Oh and please dont judge me if your not into it, everyone likes different things!.
Thanks in advanceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Oh and please dont judge me if your not into it, everyone likes different things!.
Thanks in advanceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The problem is mental!. you are thinking about it too much!. i had this same problem until one time we tried after a couple glasses of wine!. I wasnt thinking about it and it just works!. Try it !.!.!. i hope it helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
you just have to get turned on first and RELAX, there is obviously something on your mind abotu ahveing anal sex, maybe an bad experience something youve seen on tv or something!?
just try and relax and make sure you use LOADS of lube, or it will hurtWww@Answer-Health@Com
just try and relax and make sure you use LOADS of lube, or it will hurtWww@Answer-Health@Com