It still hurts when we have sex?!
Question: It still hurts when we have sex!?
We've been having sex for about three months and I was a virgin at the time so I expected it would take some getting used to but everytime we start to have sex it hurts! When he tries to push it in it just hurts till it's in all the way, doesn't matter what condoms we use, how wet I am, or if he goes in fast or slow and its annoying becuase it takes a few minuetes to get it in! Is this normal!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
> Well I don't know what's average but he's
> about 9 inches
"Average" penis length is about 6 inches!. I'm about 7!.5 inches and my GF (we're both nearly 50 years old, so this isn't just a young-people thing you're up against) thought at first that there was no way it would fit!.!.!. but it did, it only hurt a little bit, it only hurt for a few seconds, and it's never hurt since!.
9 inches is pretty damned big - especially with it being your first - and it might take you quite a while before (and he'll have to be really gentle until) you get used to having him inside you!.
The upside is that if you love each other and you stick with him, you *will* get used to it and enjoy it!.!.!. after all, your vagina's made to stretch enough for a baby's head to squeeze through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
> about 9 inches
"Average" penis length is about 6 inches!. I'm about 7!.5 inches and my GF (we're both nearly 50 years old, so this isn't just a young-people thing you're up against) thought at first that there was no way it would fit!.!.!. but it did, it only hurt a little bit, it only hurt for a few seconds, and it's never hurt since!.
9 inches is pretty damned big - especially with it being your first - and it might take you quite a while before (and he'll have to be really gentle until) you get used to having him inside you!.
The upside is that if you love each other and you stick with him, you *will* get used to it and enjoy it!.!.!. after all, your vagina's made to stretch enough for a baby's head to squeeze through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My boyfriend and I have had sex four times!. I was a virgin the first time and it felt like he was riping me open!. He was gentle about it and everything!. The second time was not as painful but there was still enough for me to have him stop for a few seconds!. The last few times it has only hurt when he enters me!. I don't know why that is, but I'd like you to know that your not alone in this!. It always takes a few seconds for the pain to go away!. Maybe our openings are still a little to tight!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you guys have sex too much!.!.!.
ive been having sex for 9 months and it still hurts sometimes cuz we **** so much im like "swollen" sometimes!.!.!.
haha sounds gross
but i thinki know what ur talking about!.!.
have him lean his body into urs do hes aiming down wen he enters you!.!.!.
thats what helps me and it feels amazing
hope i helped hun
havee funnnn!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive been having sex for 9 months and it still hurts sometimes cuz we **** so much im like "swollen" sometimes!.!.!.
haha sounds gross
but i thinki know what ur talking about!.!.
have him lean his body into urs do hes aiming down wen he enters you!.!.!.
thats what helps me and it feels amazing
hope i helped hun
havee funnnn!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
try using vaginal lubricant, the wetness or the condom is not enough, a lubricant will help, you can apply it on the condom and entry is eased!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't worry that is soooooo common! it might take you a long time for it not to hurt, don't worry too much about that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get on top so you can control it and get more lube dont just rely on your bodys lube!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh, it's perfectley normal!. Don't even worry about it!.
I know it may get annoying but at least your not LOOSE
:) i hope everything works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it may get annoying but at least your not LOOSE
:) i hope everything works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't know what age you are but I am guessing you are young!.
Is this guy really "large"!?
If he is average then I suggest you speak with a medical pro!.
Sex shouldn't hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is this guy really "large"!?
If he is average then I suggest you speak with a medical pro!.
Sex shouldn't hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes this is normal
i felt the same way as you
it will take a while to get used to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i felt the same way as you
it will take a while to get used to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nope, your one of a kind better get used to itWww@Answer-Health@Com
lol!.!.!.its naturalWww@Answer-Health@Com
Yep, that happens!. If you get the angle just right it helps a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try using K Y gel!. It's a lubricant!. I know you said that's not necessarily the problem but maybe it is and you don't realize it!. Give it a try!.
Also, maybe you're tense!? If you're tense, there are muscles that tighten up on a woman and almost act like a block to the passage!. Maybe that's your problem!? Are you sure that you WANT to be having sex with this person!? I know nothing about your relationship with him of course but, if you maybe have some other feelings and maybe aren't sure about what you're doing or why, maybe that is working on you and tensing you up!.
By now, otherwise, you should have been OK and there should have been no problems like the ones you're having, in my opinion!. Rethink the reasons you're having sex with this guy!. Maybe you don't really want to be!. Maybe that causes you to be tense and that's the problem!.
When you read about the people in this Answer forum saying that it's normal to hurt and it will continue to hurt -- yadda, yadda, yadda -- that's wrong!. Any doctor will tell you that!. After the first and ever the 2nd time, you shouldn't be having pain with sex!.
Are you at the age where you can see a GYNOCOLOGIST!? I'm sure that if this continues, you should and that he/she would be able to help you in that department!. I know someone who was having the same problem with you!. She went to her GYNO and, I don't know what happened or what he told her or what she did but, she's fine now!. Didn't ask her the personal details!.
I do want to say to all of you who said that it's OK for it to be painful -- NO, it's not!. In fact, sometimes there's actually a problem where maybe your hymen didn't actually "break" when you had sex for the first or subsequent times and sometimes a doctor has to actually do something to fix that and "break" the hymen surgically (in the office - no big deal at all)!. So, if this continues, you should see your GYNO!. If you feel embarrassed, believe me, he/she has seen and heard it all!. You won't be telling them anything new so, don't feel embarrassed or afraid to talk to your doctor, OK>!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, maybe you're tense!? If you're tense, there are muscles that tighten up on a woman and almost act like a block to the passage!. Maybe that's your problem!? Are you sure that you WANT to be having sex with this person!? I know nothing about your relationship with him of course but, if you maybe have some other feelings and maybe aren't sure about what you're doing or why, maybe that is working on you and tensing you up!.
By now, otherwise, you should have been OK and there should have been no problems like the ones you're having, in my opinion!. Rethink the reasons you're having sex with this guy!. Maybe you don't really want to be!. Maybe that causes you to be tense and that's the problem!.
When you read about the people in this Answer forum saying that it's normal to hurt and it will continue to hurt -- yadda, yadda, yadda -- that's wrong!. Any doctor will tell you that!. After the first and ever the 2nd time, you shouldn't be having pain with sex!.
Are you at the age where you can see a GYNOCOLOGIST!? I'm sure that if this continues, you should and that he/she would be able to help you in that department!. I know someone who was having the same problem with you!. She went to her GYNO and, I don't know what happened or what he told her or what she did but, she's fine now!. Didn't ask her the personal details!.
I do want to say to all of you who said that it's OK for it to be painful -- NO, it's not!. In fact, sometimes there's actually a problem where maybe your hymen didn't actually "break" when you had sex for the first or subsequent times and sometimes a doctor has to actually do something to fix that and "break" the hymen surgically (in the office - no big deal at all)!. So, if this continues, you should see your GYNO!. If you feel embarrassed, believe me, he/she has seen and heard it all!. You won't be telling them anything new so, don't feel embarrassed or afraid to talk to your doctor, OK>!?Www@Answer-Health@Com