Im going to the gyno soon and i dont want my mom to know im having sex?!


Question: Im going to the gyno soon and i dont want my mom to know im having sex!?
Im 18 and Im getting a pelvic exam soon and Ive had sex but I dont want my mom to know!. I know she is going with me there but do they just take me away before filling anything out or will she be there when I do!. If they do can I lie and then tell the truth when were alone!. And I started having sex about a year ago, is it bad that I havnt been there yet!? Im really nervous please help me!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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your mom doesn't have to be there, especially since you are 18!. they won't even ask your mom to come, they probably assume you are sexually active anyway!. they also will not tell your mom anything, unless you give them permission!. it's a patient confidentiality!. you're an adult, so legally they can't, now if you were 17 and something comes up in your pap, then they can tell your mom!. they also will have you fill out a form explaining your menustral and sexual info!. they ask you if you have had sex, do you need birth control, and if you've had any problems, and think you need to be check for stds!. if your mom does walk in, they don't have to say you had sex!. when they look down there, they know, but your mom won't!. don't worry about not going to they gyno so soon, most girls never go!. it's just important to go for your health!. as long as you have protected sex, with one or multiple partners, you will be fine!. also, it's good time to ask the doc for birth control, if you have a boyfriend, just in case the condom breaks you want to stay protected!. i'm 21, have had a boyfriend for 5 years, and until recently denied to mother about having sex!. i didn't tell her, she just figured it out!. your mom will know, don't worry about admitting to her, she knows!. but if you want to be more honest then just tell her, but tell her you are taking the proper steps to protect yourself, she feel better knowing that you are being smart!. don't be nervous!. it's good to know if you are ok down there!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Any personal information that you give your doctor is private and confidential, and should not get back to your mom!.
Although you should be able to fill out paperwork in privacy, I know that I have been at offices where paperwork is filled out in the waiting room where your mom will probably be!. My suggestion would be to call before you go and tell the office staff that you would like to fill out your paperwork in private!. They will understand, and you will not have to fill it out in the presence of your mom!.
Any interviewing the doctor will do most definitely should be done in a private room!.
It is the right thing to do to go to the doctor, even though you waited a year!. The best thing you can do for your health is to be completely honest with your doctor!. Good luck, You will be fine!Www@Answer-Health@Com

While they do ask you questions in the exam room, they might give you a form to fill out with your health history, since you are a new patient!. If so, you can either leave the stuff you don't want your mom to know about blank, or fill in what you want her to think, and tell the gyno the truth when you're alone!. You aren't the only teenager to lie on the form, and as long as you make sure the gyno knows the truth, she'll understand!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your gyno will probably not let your mother stay in the room during the questions and pelvic exam!. You do need to tell your gyno you're having sex, but she is legally not allowed to share this information with anyone anyway (HIPPA act protects privacy)!. If your mom is in the room, just say that you don't want her watching the exam, but chances are the doctor will ask her to leave before you have to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should go to the gyno with one year of having sex, and it looks like you did so you have good timing!. Yea, that's what I did when I was your age, I just lied on the sheet, then when you go in tell the nurse!. Don't be nervous, there is nothing to it, its quick and painless, a little bit uncomfortable, but not painfull!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're 18 - you're a legal consenting adult!. You can put whatever you want on the form when filling it out and it's confidential!. They can't tell your mom anything and she can't go back with you without your consent!. Just make sure to be honest with the doctor, though!.

And generally, most parents know their kids are having sex, but never talk about it or are in denial about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are 18, and your doctor cannot tell your mom anything about your examination!. That would break the doctor/paitient confidentiality agreement!.

Just ask your mom to sit out outside because you are embarrased!. Then as your doctor kindly to not tell your mother anything about your exam!. Legally, he can't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Call before your appointment, like a few days, and ask to fill out any pertinent information ahead of time, tell the nurse about not wanting Mom to know about your business, nurses have seen, and heard it all trust me, she'll either tell you to come in a day early and fill out the paper work, or will take you to a private room by yourself to fill it out!.!.!.!.!.Doctor/Patient confidentiality applies to you because you are 18 years of age, and in some states and all of Canada from 16 yrs of age!.-Tripod!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think with teens they ask if it is okay for parents to be in the room, because a lot of people are uncomfortable getting those!. the doc will prob ask, if the doc does just say that you would rather her not be in the room!. if he dosent tell the doc that you are embarassed for anyone else to see!. then say "mom is it ok if you dont see this part, but you can come in when this part is done" it's all good (:Www@Answer-Health@Com

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my mom told me the same thing i didn't listen and ended up Pegginent!.i had an abortion or i would of been thrown out of the house!. just stop having sex wait till your ready for a baby because if your wherein protection or not you still can get Pegginent i had him were one but it broke or riped or whatever but know i wish i would of had IT because now i want 2 know what it was what it looked like!.so wait your not ready for a baby no 17 18 19 year old is!.SO GOOD LUCK DO WHATS RIGHT!. ( the right thing is your choice) Make it happen Emmy!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

she doesnt need to come!. your 18!. they will not let her in the room while they are doing the exam!. if she insists on going with you she may be right there while you are filling out the paperwork!. just lie and when they call you back and you are alone just ask for another set of paperwork and tell them you didnt want your mother to know anything!. also, make sure you do not put her on the paper work as a person for them to shareyour health info toWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are a legal adult!. You can go back by yourself!. Just tell your mom you'll be fine alone ( even if you are nervous) its not bad at all and your doctor will explain what they will do!. They are not allowed to discuss your care with your mother, it is an invasion of your HIPPA rights!. Just don't lie to your doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell your mom on the way up there you are nervous and want to go in by yourself because it is embarrassing to have her there!
Also if you tell the gyno not to tell your mother, she wont!. You're 18, and you're her patient so she isnt allowed to tell your mom if you say not to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

When you go into the office, if they give you a form to fill out, just sit far enough away from your mom so she can't read over your shoulder!. When its time for you to see the Dr!. go in by yourself!. Doctors are not allowed to discuss your situation with any one but you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

laws in the united states prevent your doctor from being able to tell your mother or anyone else if you are sexually active plus your 18 she doesnt even have to with you im 19 and i have 2 daughters maybe my mom should have went with me lol well my first was unplanned so i married my now husband and we just had our 2nd but anyways your mom wont find out unless you tell herWww@Answer-Health@Com

you can lie if your mom is there but most likely they will ask ur mom to step out for this reason!.!.!. there are a lot of teens who are sexually active so they already know!.!.!.
and its not bad!.!.!.!. but it is good ur going now!.!.!.
u should get one every year to check for stds or changes in ur cells!.!.!.
and dont worry it doesnt hurt or anything!.!.
u might just feel weird but its ok!.!.!. jus ask the doc to explain the process to you and ask questions if u have any!.!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

if ur mom doesnt go back with u while u have the exam then u can tell the doc then!. they cant tell ur mom anything because it would be breaking confidentiality!. that would be against the HIPPA policy!. so dont let her go back with u and u will be ok!. good luck and hope this helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its best to just be honest, once you start with one lie then you need lies to cover that lie and even more lies to cover those lies, and its a big mess that in the end isnt worth it

just dont let your mother see you fill it out

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It's good that you're going now!. You can go into the doctor's room by yourself, and if you ask you're doctor not to tell you're mom, they won't!. It's your privacy so they don't have to tell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

let her drive u there and fill everything out by ur self, do not lie about anything they ask u cause u could end up getting messed up, trust me i lied to a doctor and a week later i was spitting blood cause of the wrong prescriptionWww@Answer-Health@Com

She can only be in there with you if you want her to be!. Your 18!. She doesn't have to be there!. You can tell the doctor in private!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if your 18, your practially and adult so you can do anything you want!. It shouldnt matter!. Your mom should be lucky actually, most teens are like having sex between the age of 14 to 16 now a days!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't tell her, you are an adult:!.
there is such thing as Doctor patient confidentiality!.
be safe out there get the pill and make sure all your sexual partners use condoms when they are having sex with you be responsible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can ask to do everything privately!. Just tell your mom that you are uncomfortable and would rather do this by yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are legally an adult, so you have a right to ask if you can keep the questions and such private!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you are supposed to be alone when they question you!. If you're not tell your mom it's private and she should understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your 18 your records are confidential dr!. cant say nothing to your momWww@Answer-Health@Com

do you not wnat her to know for a reason!?!?!?

I'm a little worried answering this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you are too embarrassed to tell your mother you're having sex, then you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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