How can we get it in?!
Question: How can we get it in!?
Ive been with my boyfriend almost a year but we cant enjoy having sex together because I cant stand the pain!. Its like he just wont fit, I think its about 3-4cm thick !.!.is this about average!? No matter how comfortable I fel I just dont seem to stretch enough =/Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i have some advice
it took me and my boyfriend 6 trys before it finally happened for us
have him finger you for a very long time!. so you get really wet and comfortable
then have him put the condom on and put extra lube on the condom and around the opening of your vagina!. then have him put the head of it in!. JUST THE HEAD!. have him move that back and forth!. but dont let him take it completely out!.
keep doing that till it feels good then have him push it in a little further!. and repeat!. keep doing this till its all the way in
that worked for me and my boyfriend=]
also prop your butt up on a pillow it'll angle your vagina just right so his penis will go in easierWww@Answer-Health@Com
i have some advice
it took me and my boyfriend 6 trys before it finally happened for us
have him finger you for a very long time!. so you get really wet and comfortable
then have him put the condom on and put extra lube on the condom and around the opening of your vagina!. then have him put the head of it in!. JUST THE HEAD!. have him move that back and forth!. but dont let him take it completely out!.
keep doing that till it feels good then have him push it in a little further!. and repeat!. keep doing this till its all the way in
that worked for me and my boyfriend=]
also prop your butt up on a pillow it'll angle your vagina just right so his penis will go in easierWww@Answer-Health@Com
Use lube!!!! Sounds like your not wet enough, just forplay for a while until your really ready and then lube up LOTS!! Then just take it really really slowly to start with and dont speed up untill you're ready!.
I also agree with the comment above!- get a pillow under ur butt and try it that way, it makes it easier to get in BUT have him take it slowly in that position, dont let him go in too deep too fast!. You could also try it with him lying down and you sitting on top!. as you can guide it in yourself at your own speed and as much as you want (plus its a nice position cuz he can reach a certain pleasant spot easily!)
Your bf sounds about average, i think the problem is just being relaxed enough! When you are you will enjoy it!!
By the way it took me quite a few times to reeeally enjoy it if you get me, its all down to practise and being totally comfortable, so you're normal dont worry :)
Hope this helped a bit and good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I also agree with the comment above!- get a pillow under ur butt and try it that way, it makes it easier to get in BUT have him take it slowly in that position, dont let him go in too deep too fast!. You could also try it with him lying down and you sitting on top!. as you can guide it in yourself at your own speed and as much as you want (plus its a nice position cuz he can reach a certain pleasant spot easily!)
Your bf sounds about average, i think the problem is just being relaxed enough! When you are you will enjoy it!!
By the way it took me quite a few times to reeeally enjoy it if you get me, its all down to practise and being totally comfortable, so you're normal dont worry :)
Hope this helped a bit and good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are not aroused enough, have not lubricated yourself naturally!. I say get a massage put on the soft music have a glass of wine and relax you should open up!. It is probably a matter of relaxation!. If you have a medical condition then that is another story!.If youare aroused and ready then it should slide in slowly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's a bit bigger than average (about 2!.5-3!.5cm), but it's perfectly normal!.
Make sure you're *really* turned on and wet (use lube if you don't *get* very wet), and have a couple of orgasms during your foreplay before you try putting it in there!.!.!. that'll make your vagina both softer/stretchier and more insistent on *having* something in there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make sure you're *really* turned on and wet (use lube if you don't *get* very wet), and have a couple of orgasms during your foreplay before you try putting it in there!.!.!. that'll make your vagina both softer/stretchier and more insistent on *having* something in there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds as if you may be tense but KY Jelly has a new product that warms the vaginal area and is great for making sex easier and more enjoyable!. There is no friction involved with this and tight fit or not it will be easy and painfree!. I hope you try it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well, i had this problem with my current boyfriend!. have him finger you first!. like 1 finger, 2, 3 !.!.!. or w/e then you can try again!. dont go striaght for 3 fingers tho!. start with one :)
then it should stretch a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
then it should stretch a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to use more lubrication, dont foget you are built to deliver a baby, so you can definately take you man, you just need to try different positions thats less painfull, and lubricate more!. take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
You actually can go to the doctor (gynecologist) and get an incision in your vagina so that it is easier to fit!. My friends have done it before, they say it barely even hurts at all!. Good Luck dear! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
try more foreplay so that your body produces natural lube to help the penis slide in!. also it helps relax your vaginal opening to it can fit better!. if that doesnt work then try ky jelly :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
He is too big or too wide, stop trying before you injure yourself!. Even a lubricant may not help you because he is so wide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
LubricationWww@Answer-Health@Com
Is it your first time having sex!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
try to use lotion or lube to see if it help u and yr boyfriend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lubricate!. That would make sliding in a little bit more easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try the other side!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You just lube it up a bit its all goodWww@Answer-Health@Com
try some lubeWww@Answer-Health@Com
lots of lube!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well its suppose to hurt anywayWww@Answer-Health@Com
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