Ugh i can't take my sister?!


Question: Ugh i can't take my sister!?
my sister is only 11 years old and she has had like 3 boyfriends already!. I have no idea what she does with them i am 15 and it freaks me out because i still haven't even had a bf before!. He sent her a text saying "we should kiss"!. And it kinda freaked me out i think understandably!. She tells me not to look at her texts so now shes not talking to me!. I know its her privacy blah blah blah!. But i am her older sister and care about her!. On the other hand she has been a B*tch to me all of my life and i just took her crap!. Any advice!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I think she is much too young to be having serious relationships!. She will end up in serious trouble!. She is still a child and does not know how to handle those harmones of hers!.

If you think she is carrying things too far, you made need to warn your parents!. It is better for her to be angry with you than in trouble!. I do not think she is old enough to have too much privacy where boys are concerned!. Someone needs to be watching her closely for her own sake!.

These emails and text messaging can really get out of hand and the next thing she will be doing things she would not have considered!. The internet has caused children to grow up too fast and learn to much to soon!. Then they want to act on what they are telling each other on the computer!. And the next thing you know, they are in deep trouble!.

You are a good sister for being concerned for her and it does not hurt to read her messages to see just what she is up to!. Like I said, you may be the one who has to help her by letting your parents know she is getting out of control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

When Venus Williams won Wimbleton, she said "formost I am a big sister"
Wheter your sister is not nice to you or not, you are a big sister and it is your responsibility to look out for her and protect her!. She is only eleven and that is a very young age and she can get into a lot of trouble!.
You may need to involve your parents in this situation before she gets herself in a situation she is not prepared for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah eleven year olds should be concentrating on their studies as should you! Why do you' all have cell phones!. That disgusts me!. Parents are so lame these days!. Take initive and tell your parents!. This should not be going on at her age!. How old are these boys!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

same way me and my sis she demands to know every thing about me cuz im younger just normal sister behavior and you know your sis best is she capable of doing anything to cross the lineWww@Answer-Health@Com

Tell your parents!

She's your sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell your parents if ur concerned!.!. u r right to be concerned as she is only 11!.!.!. tell her that if this boy likes her, he will wait until she is ready and tell her not to kiss him as he is only gonna be after one thing!.!. say to her that u dont mean to invade her privacy but u r just protecting her as u know how boys think, the last thing u want her to do is have sex and end up pregnant!.!. that will scare her hopefully and maybe put a stop to it!.!.

boyfriends and girlfriends at that age are all well and good but its a totally different story when they start getting physical!!

ask her if she wants to end up pregnant, looking after a newborn baby before her 12th birthday!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know exactly how you feel, Im 15 as well, my sister is 12!. Yeah so I haven't had a boyfriend either, my sister on the other hand has had 2!. She gets on my nerves very often! I used to just ignore her but it didn't help so I finally just told her that yes it is her life and if she has a boyfriend this soon then that's her fault, but she should just stop rubbing it in my face!. She took it pretty hard at first but then she started being nice to me again!.
yeah i don't know if this helps at all, but yeah this is what happened to me,
Good Luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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