Is there anything that bothers you so much that you become suicidal?!
Question: Is there anything that bothers you so much that you become suicidal!?
For me it's my yearly well woman visit to the gyn Dr!. I can't think of anything more degrading and dehumanizing that that!.!.!.I'm seriously considering just never going again unless I absolutely have to go because of a problem!.
I have to be so tranquilized to go that I have to have someone drive me (a girlfriend or my daughter,) and push me in the door and come in the room and be a "witness" just in case anything happens!. (I had one gyn molest and fondle me during an exam w/no nurse present and it scarred me for life!.!.!.I've been in therapy for years and still can't get over that nightmare!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have to be so tranquilized to go that I have to have someone drive me (a girlfriend or my daughter,) and push me in the door and come in the room and be a "witness" just in case anything happens!. (I had one gyn molest and fondle me during an exam w/no nurse present and it scarred me for life!.!.!.I've been in therapy for years and still can't get over that nightmare!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I was about to say that there had to be an underlying reason for why the GYN would affect you that much, and then I read the last couple of sentences, and it all makes sense!.
I am sure your therapist has assured you that it isn't the GYN, but the person who violated you!. I think you should definitely go to a female GYN, and keep going to therapy but, maybe with a different therapist since the one you have been going to hasn't helped!.
I was raped when I was 16, but I had never thought of suicide afterwards, dirty, but not to that extent!. I still get a little upset if my husband gets a little too aggressive sexually- I hold it in, because I don't want it to bother him too!. I think most of trauma leads to anxiety and anxiety leads to depression and depression leads to unhealthy thoughts!. Sometimes I wish I did take some anxiety medications- maybe that is an option for you!?
I just hate to think that this horrible person still has a hold on your life in some way!. It is degrading and you never should have been subjected to that!.!.!. just know that there are others who have been in the same situation and understand how you feel!. If you feel that one of your family members be in the exam room with you, so be it!.!.!. that is ok- do what you have to do for yoU!
Good Luck and I hope you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sure your therapist has assured you that it isn't the GYN, but the person who violated you!. I think you should definitely go to a female GYN, and keep going to therapy but, maybe with a different therapist since the one you have been going to hasn't helped!.
I was raped when I was 16, but I had never thought of suicide afterwards, dirty, but not to that extent!. I still get a little upset if my husband gets a little too aggressive sexually- I hold it in, because I don't want it to bother him too!. I think most of trauma leads to anxiety and anxiety leads to depression and depression leads to unhealthy thoughts!. Sometimes I wish I did take some anxiety medications- maybe that is an option for you!?
I just hate to think that this horrible person still has a hold on your life in some way!. It is degrading and you never should have been subjected to that!.!.!. just know that there are others who have been in the same situation and understand how you feel!. If you feel that one of your family members be in the exam room with you, so be it!.!.!. that is ok- do what you have to do for yoU!
Good Luck and I hope you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think u are regarding this check up as evasive and disturbing!. There are woman in third world countries who will never discover this break through in health care!. View this check up as a blessing!. I also suggest that u find someone that u are comfortable with to perform this check up!. It still amazes me that people don't regard exceptional health care as a privilege!.Oops somehow I missed the last part!. Maybe it is best to find a female obgyn expert that can perform your check up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When I kept getting used by my ex bf for sex!.!.!.!.!.!.and he didn't care at all!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and he cheated on me!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I don't know if I have an STD yet!.!.!.!.!.!.and being raped not by him but raped!.!.!.!.!.!.!.or even having a miscarriage by the ex!.!.!.!.But I am happy now!.!.!.because I know that God is still right there and he is guiding us on certain paths for certain reasons!.!.!.!.and will eventually see the greater good and light!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry to hear that happened to you, I can't imagine how that must feel!.
I get these killing stomach aches that make me throw up from pain and it usually lasts a few hours until it's gone, I guess that counts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I get these killing stomach aches that make me throw up from pain and it usually lasts a few hours until it's gone, I guess that counts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry to hear of your circumstances!. I personally have never been through anything so vile in my life!. So I don't really know how you feel!. But I do know that you are to important to yourself and your family to consider suicide!. There are groups of people with similar backgrounds, that meet and help each other to cope!. You could ask your Doctor or Minister for the names of such groups!. You need your female health checkups and you obviously are associating your visits with your bad experiences!. So it is imperative that you resolve this issue for your physical and mental health!. Good luck and please take our advice so that you can be at ease during your medical visits!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry that happened to you, that is terrible and I can understand why you have issues with going!.
Myself, I find it quite the opposite, I feel good about taking control of my health!. I think that is what you are missing, you dont feel like you are in control in the situation, you feel that the doctor has the control!. And I can understand from what has happened in the past that you have a very valid reason to feel this way!.
I think it would be good to just try to find one good doctor that you can establish some raport with so that you can begin to form a trusting relationship with your doctor!. Another part of forming this relationship, would be letting your doctor to know about your anxiety and the things that you have experienced in the past at the hands of that doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Myself, I find it quite the opposite, I feel good about taking control of my health!. I think that is what you are missing, you dont feel like you are in control in the situation, you feel that the doctor has the control!. And I can understand from what has happened in the past that you have a very valid reason to feel this way!.
I think it would be good to just try to find one good doctor that you can establish some raport with so that you can begin to form a trusting relationship with your doctor!. Another part of forming this relationship, would be letting your doctor to know about your anxiety and the things that you have experienced in the past at the hands of that doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com