Why do I feel this way?!!?!
Question: Why do I feel this way!?!!!?
I always feel so stupid when I go to one of my friends houses in paricular well 2 I guess!.heres the delio!I feel like I don't know what to say , and I keep being so freaking redundant! like whats up, whats up, WHATS UP! And I never know what too say around these people, but lately this has become like all of my friends, well almost!. I don't know what too say, but I want too say something funny like the people sitting across from me!.I always tell myself don't go and try to act something that your not, ( I want to stay true to myself!) but then I'm just sitting on their couch and everyone is laughing at inside jokes and things like that, and I never know what too say, and I get really mad and confused inside(but not letting them see that I feel that way, nah uh no way) and wonder why can't I just say the right thing , why can't I be funny or get everyone talking and luaghingWhy am I feeling this way!?!?! Im not going to dicuss my feelin w/ them!. I am not in this to be a comedian so!.!.idkWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Maybe its just because you want to show them that you can be funny to but sometimes you just have to think to yourself to relax and it will just come to you naturally if you don't try so hard and whats comes will be who you truly are and then it will show!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is not fun to be anxious in a social setting!. It helps to do your homework and think of some intelligent things you could talk about to a couple of people!. That way you aren't sitting there feeling like a total dunce!. Ask people questions about their interests and it takes the pressure off you!. They like to talk about themselves and you can just listen and people will think you are the most brilliant conversationalist there!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well maybe your just shy!. I'm like that too sometimes!. Its only with certain people that you don't know what to say huh!? Well i say just be like 'hey how are you' and then they'll tell you 'oh im fine' or something else then they might ask you and you can tell em instead of saying 'whats up!?'!.!.!.and if you want you can compiment them on something just to talk you know!? well hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop worrying about other people so much, worry about the ones you KNOW care about you, trust me that is all that matters!. I was the same way growing up, its not worth the effort to please every single person you deal with!.
Just be cynical, tell them to shut the hell up, kick over their tv set, spit on them and walk away, you will feel much better about it later in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be cynical, tell them to shut the hell up, kick over their tv set, spit on them and walk away, you will feel much better about it later in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Interesting!. It seems like you are still living in a cave!. Where have you been!? Your friends are wondering where have you been!? You got to do your homework on your friends!. Go ask your other friends about what's going on with your other friend!. Then go over there and talk about that!. Then branch out and talk about this person!. Then go over to this person and talk about that!. Get involved with some investigation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
omgsh i am exactly the same way!! it's like you know you have the capability to be funny and make random jokes like that but!.!.!. idk what it is that's stopping me from doing so!?!? it's like something holding you back right!? idk what is it either but i hatee it!.
maybe it's a confidence issue!.!.!. or maybe u just don't feel comfortable enough around these people!.!.!.
let me know when you find out lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe it's a confidence issue!.!.!. or maybe u just don't feel comfortable enough around these people!.!.!.
let me know when you find out lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just be yourself! After you get to know them more it will come naturally!. Don't try so hard!. Just have fun!. They aren't expecting you to make them laugh!. They probably just like being around you!. So just laugh w/ them and if you think of something to say say it if not don't worry about it!.=)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like your really alone even when your with your friends!. Comedy may not be your thing!. Maybe you have been away from some of your friends and they might have changed a little!. Over the summer I have found it a little harder to feel in sync with my friends convos because we haven't seen each other for a while!. Give it some time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
UH a person is made out of mostly water ok
like the tide a person goes in and out of themselfs
if you constantly try and fight it you will lose out
Just open up, dont be afraid to say things, you are youself if you are thinking those things jeezWww@Answer-Health@Com
like the tide a person goes in and out of themselfs
if you constantly try and fight it you will lose out
Just open up, dont be afraid to say things, you are youself if you are thinking those things jeezWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you need to spend more time with them so you have inside jokes!. You might be jealous that other people are having fun because they had fun before (while you weren't there)!. I don't know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
be confident with yourself, and be politeWww@Answer-Health@Com
just be like hey lets watch tv then be like oh i love this show or suggest doing somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your just a little shy!. There's nothing wrong with that, Plenty of people are that way! :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
UMM WELL I GUESS THEY ARE NOT REALLY UR FRIENDSWww@Answer-Health@Com
You'll be on top form when you're in an environment you are comfortable with!. For example, if you're sporty you will be comfortable playing sports with people and have something to talk with them about after wards!.!.!.!.it could be music, dancing, video games!.!.anything that you genuinely enjoy!.
Do you have any common ground with these 'friends'!? People change as you grow up and relationships and friendships change!.
Make an effort to hang around people you feel you connect with and can flow!.
You can still be friends with your old friends - but you wont feel so desperate to make it work if you have other fun stuff to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you have any common ground with these 'friends'!? People change as you grow up and relationships and friendships change!.
Make an effort to hang around people you feel you connect with and can flow!.
You can still be friends with your old friends - but you wont feel so desperate to make it work if you have other fun stuff to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just relax sounds like you feel some pressure to fit in with the joking!.!.!.!.you can't change who you are!. Some of us are the leader, joking outgoing type, and some of us are more reserved, and followers in the crowd of conversations!. I would not worry about it!. You are not doing yourself any good by beating yourself up inside!. Just be yourself and your pals should love you for exactly what you are!. You will also find that if you relax your true humor and entertaining skills will come out!. Maybe you have a different kind of humor!?!?!? Everyone is different but don't worry yourself, okay!!! :) hope it all works out!Www@Answer-Health@Com