Please help me. My hubby always wants sex?!


Question: Please help me!. My hubby always wants sex!?
We've been married for 15 years ( we are both 34) and we have had sex atleast once a day in those 15 years!. These past months have been too much!.!. I mean literally everytime my husband sees me he wants to have sex!. When he gets home sex, before bed sex, morning sex ( he even goes to work late sometimes or calls in sick to have sex)
I love him and I love sex and he is very very very very handsome but i'm overwhelmed and tired!. If we are not having sex we are cuddling or doing something intimate!. I would rather go on dates or something than just have 24/7 sex!.
Is it normal for a guy to want sex 4-5 times a day and NEVER get satisfied!. I mean we had sex today at 9 pm and now its just past midnight and my hubby wanted it again!. My body can't handle itWww@Answer-Health@Com


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well you're his wife, isn't that your duty!? it's like in the marriage vows and stuff!.!.!. if you're not sexually compatible maybe get a divorce!? idkWww@Answer-Health@Com

A relationship, especially a marriage, is give and take on both sides!. It's not all about what your husband wants!. You have a say, too!. So tell him that you just can't take it anymore, and you'd rather not have sex ALL the time!. If he loves you he'll understand!.

And the first person that posted is an idiot!. It is not your duty to have sex with your husband constantly!. I feel bad for anyone with that kind of mentality!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

WANNA TRADE!?!?!? lol

My husband is fine with doing it once every 2-3 days, I want it 3-4 times a day!

But seriously, wanna trade!?

Just kidding!

Do you!?

Sorry! Couldn't resist! Funny, because most guys joke that sex is over after marriage!. You're lucky he has such an awesome amount of desire for you!. At least you know he couldn't possibly being going elsewhere for sex!!!

Get him a subscription to Playboy and a bottle of lube!Www@Answer-Health@Com

have you talked to him about what you feel!?
it seems as if he doesnt know, and seeing as you enjoy it, he just thinks "great, we both love it all the time" but im sure if you talked to him and tell him that its wearing you out and you want to do some other things too ^_^!. he will probably understand!.

Talk to him!.

if that doesnt work, i recommend a counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Let him know that it's hurting you by doing it so much!. Give him the Astroglide and some naked pictures of yourself and let him take care of it himself!. My husband wants sex from me a lot too, but if I'm in too much pain he takes our photos and takes care of himself!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with that one girl give him some nude pics of you and let him go to the bathroom and get his thrill to much of it can make a women sore and rol and swollen let him no that you cant handle that and there are other things in life rather then sex all day long Good Luck hun I couldnt imagineWww@Answer-Health@Com

just say no, you're tired and it's too much!.
is it normal!? maybe it is,!.!.!.!. i'm not sure!.!.!.!.
if he needs the satisfaction and you need rest, tell him to help himself occasionally and just ask him to take you out on a date or something,!.!.!. it's perfectly understandableWww@Answer-Health@Com

i dun think that it is normal!.!.!.!.y dn u consult with a doc!?i can totally understand ur situation!.!.!.!.the first answerer is nuts i guess!.!.even though its ur duty!.!.more than 3 times makes our body dead tired!.!.!.maybe ur husband is having some issues!.!.!.mentally or physically!.!.try speaking him without hurting him!.!.!.because u should nt tell him liek u dn like to have sex with him!.!.!.try soring out the problem!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That sounds like an addiction to me!. Wow! I'd definitely draw the line wherever you are comfortable because it's about both you and him!.!.!.!.not just him!. Make sure you are getting what you need as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats all men want is sex!.
tell him u dont wanna!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

In a few years, you will remember these days fondly!. He will have lost his sex drive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to him about it!.!.!.if he understands have sex 4 times a month not 24/7Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd say enjoy it while it lasts!. You'll be singing a different tune when he goes limp, for good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lucky u!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe he's using sex as a way to compromise for something else, like insecurity!? I don't mean insecurity with his body, but maybe with his ability to do anything else with you!?

But having sex every day that many times a day, especially when it's become physically straining on you, seems very draining since it seems like there's no emotional/intellectual connection there!.

I would suggest first confronting him about this!. Maybe he just doesn't know because you've never told him (I don't know if you have, I'm just saying) If he refuses to listen, and just wants to be physical with you all the time, I would suggest seeing a marriage counselor/therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im next in lineWww@Answer-Health@Com





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