Ladies Only - need orgasm answers!!!?!
Question: Ladies Only - need orgasm answers!!!!?
Okay!.!.!. I have had clitoral orgasms, but never a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm!. I've read countless articles online and a ton of books, but they mainly explain what an orgasm is and I want to know what it FEELS like!.
Does a clitoral orgasm feel the same as a vaginal one or what!? And what the hell do I do with my muscles!? Some people say you push out, and some say relax!. I need some major help!
When I'm on top, it feels AmAzInG but then it hits me like a brick - I have to pee! It really sucks to have to stop, but I really have to go pee and as soon as we start again, the feeling of peeing is back and it won't go away!.
I read that it means you're going to ejaculate, but I feel like I'm running up a mountain and suddenly slide back down!. I don't know where to go or what to do when that feeling hits!. I know that I'm close to orgasm, it feels so wonderful and then it builds and builds and I just don't orgasm! What do I do!?!?!?
My husband is stressed because of this 'problem'!. Help!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Does a clitoral orgasm feel the same as a vaginal one or what!? And what the hell do I do with my muscles!? Some people say you push out, and some say relax!. I need some major help!
When I'm on top, it feels AmAzInG but then it hits me like a brick - I have to pee! It really sucks to have to stop, but I really have to go pee and as soon as we start again, the feeling of peeing is back and it won't go away!.
I read that it means you're going to ejaculate, but I feel like I'm running up a mountain and suddenly slide back down!. I don't know where to go or what to do when that feeling hits!. I know that I'm close to orgasm, it feels so wonderful and then it builds and builds and I just don't orgasm! What do I do!?!?!?
My husband is stressed because of this 'problem'!. Help!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The feeling you have needing to pee is the 'oh my gawd your almost there' of the orgasm! I almost choked on my coffee when I read your question, my cousin asked me (years ago) what an orgasm was like, saying she wasn't sure if she'd had one!. I said to her !.!.!.!.it will feel like you need to pee so bad !.!.!.don't stop just keep going!. So that my dear is my advice to you! That is the key !.!.!.don't stop !.!.!.!.!.just keep going and don't over think it all ! I think you are concentrating so hard on making it all happen you have way too much going through your mind when the 'peeing' feeling hits!. Tell your husband to do/say something to take your mind off it ~ I don't mean 'Gee that celing needs a good clean' sort of thing either !.!.!.you know what I mean lol
As for you 'stressed' husband, I think its wonderful that he wants to bring you to an orgasm!. Some men are only interested in satisfying themselves! Best of luck to you both!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for you 'stressed' husband, I think its wonderful that he wants to bring you to an orgasm!. Some men are only interested in satisfying themselves! Best of luck to you both!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, clitoral orgasms do not feel the same as g-spot orgasms!. They're different and in my opinion less intense!. It's getting past the pee feeling that is the hardest part but as long as you push out when that feeling begins then you should orgasm!. It might take a while to figure it out but once you do it's worth it!. Have your husband use his fingers to stimulate your g-spot, that helps a lot too!. Remember, always push out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with Stephanie! You are not going to pee!. Don't stop, even if you think it might hurt!. Keep going!. Grab the edge of a pillow or something and squeeze!. Hold on and just let it come!.
It does feel different!. It's not the same at all, but I can't describe it!. It's deeper and more internal!. Can you describe a clitoral orgasm!? I prefer the clitoral!. It is more satisfying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does feel different!. It's not the same at all, but I can't describe it!. It's deeper and more internal!. Can you describe a clitoral orgasm!? I prefer the clitoral!. It is more satisfying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok 1st of all no its way 2 different orgasms! all u got to do is just relax like everyone tells u!. let ut body do what it wants!. that feeling of u needing to pee!.!.!.!.!. thats what u want!!!! let it go b/c thats going to be ur g=spot orgasms!. dont hold back!. it will get messy though!. so dont use good sheets!.!.!.lol!. dont focus on trying to get that orgasm bc u will never get it!. u have to let ur body take overWww@Answer-Health@Com
OVER 50% OF WOMEN CAN'T ORGASM WITHOUT CLITORAL STIMULATION!. this means having sex in any position just wont get them off!. I'm one of them! Don't stress over it, it is normal!. Sorry! Get a vibrating bullet!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont stop and if you pee oh well some guys like it but usally you dont pee i get that feeling to but never acually peeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Ok pee first!.!.!.!.!.then when you feel like your gonna pee, RELAX!.!.!.!.and let it comeWww@Answer-Health@Com
your g-spot is very close to your bladder so when your husband hits it, it feels amazing and that's what causes you to ejaculate!. some women ( myself included) release alot of fluid where its like youve just pee'd on the person but you havent!. the slang term for this is "squirting" but it perfectly okay!. also if you ever finger yourself and you do that it has a totally different smell because urine is 95% water and 5% urea which the "fluid" is a combonation of sucrose and other things!. that being said when you feel like you have to pee hes doing a good job and dont stop cause i can gurantee that if he hits your gspot you will have that feeling everytimeWww@Answer-Health@Com
well the Australian Bush Flower Essences combo called Sensuality mist in this case will heighten the sexual pleasure!.
spray the area (bed and room) with the mist while in the room!.
Now some people have had sexual trauma in earlier relationships or encounters and then better to take the Drops Sexuality for a few weeks to get the inhibition part of the problems related to tension around sexual intercourse!.
IF this later one is not your problem then the Sensuality mist is great :o))) Better for both partners
"Australian Bush Flower Healing" by Ian White
ISBN-10: 073380
Yahoo email group discussing Australian Bush Flower Essences
http://health!.groups!.yahoo!.com/group/ABF!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
spray the area (bed and room) with the mist while in the room!.
Now some people have had sexual trauma in earlier relationships or encounters and then better to take the Drops Sexuality for a few weeks to get the inhibition part of the problems related to tension around sexual intercourse!.
IF this later one is not your problem then the Sensuality mist is great :o))) Better for both partners
"Australian Bush Flower Healing" by Ian White
ISBN-10: 073380
Yahoo email group discussing Australian Bush Flower Essences
http://health!.groups!.yahoo!.com/group/ABF!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
like the answer above, the needing to pee sensation is normal, but you generally don't actually lose control of your bladder if you ignore it!.
As for having a vaginal orgasm, it's much easier when you've got both going on at once (clitoral and vaginal stimulation)!. This is really difficult during sex, as most men don't care to help in that area!. If you really want to know what it feels like/have one, you should try one of those vibrators that does a swirling motion at the head, that usually hits the spot!. If you haven't got a shop nearby, or don't want to go into one, there are online stores you can use!. I suggest arentwenaughty!.com cheesy name, but it's got decent stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for having a vaginal orgasm, it's much easier when you've got both going on at once (clitoral and vaginal stimulation)!. This is really difficult during sex, as most men don't care to help in that area!. If you really want to know what it feels like/have one, you should try one of those vibrators that does a swirling motion at the head, that usually hits the spot!. If you haven't got a shop nearby, or don't want to go into one, there are online stores you can use!. I suggest arentwenaughty!.com cheesy name, but it's got decent stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com