Please help, please.?!


Question: Please help, please!.!?
hey, i'm feeling a little strange today, don't know what to call myself!. I am 5 foot 9, 120 pounds!. I am 13 years old, and i'm feeling so bad a bout myself, like i am not thin enough, i cannot stop crying! please, advice!? I don't know i just need someone's help right now!. I still eat, i dont throw it up, but i am afraid i might start!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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put on your best oufit look yourself n the mirror and say daaang ima sexxi chicWww@Answer-Health@Com

Believe me girl, I have been there!. The biggest thing for me was to have optimism and to figure out why I was feeling this way!. Trust me, it's not you that is causing you to feel this way, it's other people!. Maybe someone said something to you and you didn't realize it was bothering you until now!. For me, it was some guy friends I use to have (and thankfully don't anymore) who would comment on the weight, size, and shape of other girls my age!. They would laugh, point, and make fun of there girls and it made me wonder if they or other people did the same to me!.

What you should do is constantly flatter yourself!. If you see a guy you think is cute, tell yourself in your head that he likes you (even if you don't know)!. Or, if you see someone you think is beautiful, tell yourself that you are as beautiful as them!. I have been doing that for a while and I'm a healthy 125lbs!. for my 5' 2'' frame!. At your age, you have nothing to worry about and I'm a teen like you!.

Just try to stay active, eat healthy (with some exceptions here and there to keep your sanity) and keep up the optimism!. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

5' 9" and 120 pounds!?
Wow, I'm 5'2" and 125lbs!. And I'm damn proud of it!. :D
Most likely it's not fat but curves (that's what I've got!. I don't look fat!.)

You're beautiful!.

Ignore those anorexic, don't-enjoy-a-single-meal models you see on TV and in ads!.
That's not what you're supposed to look like!.
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Go eat an icecream sundae with friends or something!. :)

Also, in the "old days," women with curves and shape were considered beautiful and really skinny anorexic women were less pretty than curvy women!. I wish we could go back to that time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You r not the only one who has these thoughts! But u need to stop looking at yourself in a negative way!. When you look in a mirror u need to focus on what you love about yourself!. Realize that you may think about yourself in a certain way but many people around you, love you exactly the way you are! I always hated the fact that im short, i felt crazy small and felt everyone taller was superior, cause what can i "little me" do!? but then I thought, that makes me, me! Eventually you begin to accept yourself, you stand because you're different and thats good!! Everyone is different but that makes them special! I am not the thinist chick but Im happy because that does not define the person I am!. Love yourself!!! When you throw up, your hurting yourself and everyone in your life! So please don't go down the path! It is not safe, you'll regret it, and you will not be able to better yourself!. Doing that will not let those -not so good thoughts- about yourself out of your mind! You r to young, be strong for yourself and don't allow these thoughts overcome you!
Take Care n God Bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com

at 5'9" and 120 lbs you are already on the thin side!. Please speak to your parents about this, or another adult that you can trust!. What is feeling bad about yourself today could become a serious eating disorder in short time!. Please, please get help soon!. This is not something that you can handle on your own!. You can get help right away by calling 1-800-931-2237!. Please call now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First off , let me tell you that you are too young to be overly concerened with your weight!. As you get older; in your late teens and twentys, you will feel differently about your appearance!. Do you spend a lot of time inside!? You should take up some type of outdoor activity like swimming in the summer, roller skating is fun and very good for you!. During the winter, if you live in a state where it snows, look for an iceskating rink; some of my fondest memories are when I was skating!. Bike riding is fun and doesn't cost anything!. Walking is very interesting!. You discover so much when you walk instead of sitting in a moving car!. Basically, eat sensibly and stay active!. Talk to your parents about this too!. I remember being 13 and thinking my parents had more concerns than me; WAS I EVER WRONG! Your parents love you more than you will ever know!. You will realize this more when you are an adult!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont do that! your beautifuful the way you are! make something of your life!. do the things you like to do!. do sports!. eat healthy!. eat fruit, veggies, meat, and bread!. theres no need to be that skinny!. if you get any skinnier, you may feel even worse!. surrond your self with friends and family!. talk to your parents!. they love you and will help you!. you have a very bright future ahead oh you, but right now your not heading down a good path!. you need to notice the harm your doing to your body!. your not going to go any where by feeling sorry for yourself!. you need to look in the mirror and say "i accept myself the way i am!. i love myself the way i am!. im no better nor no worse than anybody else!. im equal!" please take my advice! hope you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi there im Winry & im 15 i look odd i have a ong face (not that long but longer than average i guess) im sure u look fine, a song as you have a good personallity u r beautiful! my best friend is ur age & about that weight maybe a little more & shes 1 of the prettiest girls i every met!

if u wanna talk about it Yaho me at winryl@yahoo!.com r look up my myspace which is Ur_RoCkErBaBe@yahoo!.com r my name Winry Lenor r my screen name Tifa HyugaWww@Answer-Health@Com

120 pounds is a perfect weight! especially for you height =] dont feel bad about yourself and especially dont start worrying about your weight!. worry about eating right and taking good care of yourself and that will make you look and feel soo much better!. =]

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at 5'9 and 120lbs ur skinny!. go talk to someone about the way u feel!. u might have a disorder where u see urself as fat even though u arent !.!.and thats a serious thing!. dont let ppl laugh at u or just tell u that u look fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're perfect!. Really tall too(:
I'm abnormally small for my age!.
I'm 14, 78 pounds, and only 5"2!. I would kill to be you(:Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're not fat! You may be a little underweight though, because I'm only 5'4" 1/2 and I weigh 130 pounds!. :\Www@Answer-Health@Com

listen 5'9 120 no no no ur skinny dont worry honest to god u dont want to become sick seriously u need to gain from my perspective check ur body fat %
tht it go by a doctor before doing anything stupid u could possibly die if u throw upWww@Answer-Health@Com

no dont resort to that!!!!
girl, what is wrong with you!!! 5'9 and still 120!!!
dang! how do you manage that!
you must need to gain weight!
you must look good!lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

omg dont cry ur perfect!. dont stress the weight!. im 13 too and im 5 foot 4 and im 112 lbs and im not fat (at least i think!.!.!.) i dont have a belly or butt or anything so ur fine dont worryWww@Answer-Health@Com

hunny, i am 5'7 and 135 pounds and im skinny! i cant imagine how skinny you are!. dont ever think your fat because your not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm i don't know ask Ur mum or the doctor but i think that's called depration or something u sad about somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com

sorry 2 say but ur dumb ur already skinny thats actually under weight alreadyWww@Answer-Health@Com

what the heck is wrong with you!? whatever IM me and i can help! =) i am thirteen 2!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are too skinny if anything, madeline!. Get helpWww@Answer-Health@Com





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