Having sex 2 young?!


Question: Having sex 2 young!?
lately i've been thinking about how my life would change if i had sex in middle school or high school or even got pregaunt!.!.!. what i'm wondering is:
did u have sex in middle school high school!?
do u regreat it!?
did u use protection!?
if u got pregnuaunt (sp!?) how did it change ur life!?

BTW i was j/w i'm only in middle school and i wanted to c how it affected real ppls life

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Answers:
Curious aren't you!?!?!? Well, I'll tell you my experience just to give you an idea!. You make your own decisions!.

I lost my vaginity when I was 13, at the end of 7th grade!. We were both virgins!.

We used protection at first!. Tried all different stuff but somehow we stopped using protection!. I wasn't too worried because it was his first time too!. Well, we broke up!.

I didn't regret it, but rumors spreaded like wild fire throughtout the entire school!. That was crazy!. But I was like one of the popular type girls, so it didn't bother me that much!. Just made me more popular!.

When I was 14, I got pregnant with my new boyfriend!. I didn't regret it then, even though it wrecked havoc within my family!. My mom kicked me out, I ended up having a miscarriage because my mom went nuts and beat me in the belly, and I went to live with my older brother!. Everything eventually settled down and my mom asked me to move back in with her!. But damn!. !. !.that was some drama!.

But because my mom kicked me out immediately, I didn't even get a chance to go to school to get my stuff or anything!. So basically, I just disappeared!. I moved 1000 miles away!. Basically, my mom just wanted my boyfriend and I to break up!.

Because I just disappeared, I lost all of my friend!. And to this day, my friendship with them are iffy!. Not as close as before!. Makes me sad how I lost all of my friends in a blink of an eye!. But my best friend was always there for me!. We're still best friends today!.

I got pregnant again when I was 16 with another guy!. I didn't want to deal with the drama all over again so I got an abortion and to this day, my family doesn't know about it!.

Doesn't it sound like I'm a slut!?!?!? Well, I'm not!.

I didn't regret losing it until I found my last boyfriend!. We loved each other so much!. Even though neither of us were virgins, I really just wanted to give all of me to him!.

So yeah, I wish I had waited longer to have sex!. Like 17 or 18 would've been better!. I didn't think I would ever regret it, but eventually I kinda did!. It's just that I mature so much faster than everybody!. I started puberty at age 9!.

I'm currently 22!. I'm happy with myself!. But I will always tell girls to wait!. It's better to wait!. I fell into a deep depression after my first pregnancy and had the miscarriage!. I didn't even care about my boyfriend at that time!. I just felt horrible for losing the baby!. And it haunts me to this day!.

So yes!. WAIT!.


Oh and I'm on birth control pills!.


Doesn't my story sound cliche!? But it's true and I hate to admit that I was wrong and to think that I would never regret it!. I kinda do but I kinda don't!. It was hell to go through, but I am who I am now and I'm happy so whatever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah!. I lost it the summer before ninth grade!. It was with this extremely gorgeous kid I met the summer before!. We went out for about a month and a half, but never saw each other so we broke it off!. In October I started Dating this other guy, we had sex for the first time in November!. I don't regret it at all, We hardly ever use protection which probably isn't good, but we are very careful about it!. I don't regret having sex with the first guy, but it makes me sad to think that we didn't last for very long! If I got pregnant, I don't know what I would do!. :/Www@Answer-Health@Com

I had sex in high school!. I can't say that I regret it, but it definitely changed my life!. I did use protection!.!.!. condoms mostly, and eventually I started using birth control pills as well!.

I did not get pregnant!. If you are using birth control and condoms correctly, they are 99% effective and getting pregnant is extremely unlikely!.

Having sex is great!.!.!. bringing a child into the world when you are not ready/able to care for it is stupid/selfish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I had sex when i was 14, a year ago, and i don't regret it a bit!.
My girlfriend and i had been together for ages and we both felt we were ready!. People let the legal age of consent control their sexual life too much when the fact of the matter is if you are both ready then do it, and its kind of awkward the first time but after that its amazing!.
just be safe, really really safe coz if you do get pregnant of course you are going to regret it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

From a girls point of view if you had sex in middle school and high school then I'm guessing your future would be ruined!.
You'd feel bad for giving up the child or an abortion and if you decide to keep it then your losing your education!.
You'd get a bad reputation for being say a "slut!?" for having sex too early!.
And you shouldn't have sex protected or unprotected until your 18!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'm 16 years old, going to be a junior in high school and never had sex before, im one of the few girls who are still a virgin in my school, alot of the girls say they totally reget losing there virginity and wish they waited, most of them say it's totally over rated and it's not what they thought it would be!.!.!.!.waiting for the right guy and when your a little older and understand what you doing is my advice

ps: always use protection theres way tooo much infections out thereWww@Answer-Health@Com

Not trying to sound rude, but if you cannot spell the word Pregnant, you should deffinatly stay away from sex!.

Sex really does complicate things and should be held off until you are able to completely trust someone!.
Always use protection!. Not only to avoid pregnancy, but to avoid STI's(stds) such as HIV!.

If you think you will regret it, then chances are follow your feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i started having sex when i was 15 and got preg when i was 17 its hard!.!.!. the baby's father ran off cause he wasnt ready for the resonsibility!. so there i was 17 pregnant and scared not to mention alone!. the medical bills for having a baby is out of this world!. luckily for me my parents helped out some till i graduated!. but i had to work 2 jobs to pay bills plus stay up all night and take care of the baby!. being a single parent was hard and i dont care how great any boy is when you are that young neither him nor you are ready for a child!. there is alot more to it then changing diapers!. money, food, rent, bills, and what if there are difficulties with the pregnancy!. who will help you!. if you are thinking bout having a kid you should think twince!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

oh pleaase!.!.!.
your a bloody idiot!.!.!.!.
i dont really meant that but seriously>!?

how would getting pregnant impact my life in
middle school like honestly

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rumors, having to get a job, take care of your baby
you dont know what love is,
wait till atleast sometime in high school really you should just go to an all girls school, cuz it looks like your applying for Slut High!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well I had sex for the first time when I was sixteen in highschool protected!. I was scared and not ready but I thought that I loved the guy and I gave him what I held dear to me!. I have had a miscarriage later on in the relationship and now I don't want to have anything to do with him!. But that is just my case!. I regreted it with him!. I should have waited!. I am telling you!. I am begging you to please wait!. It isn't what you see in movies!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are to young, would you like the responsibility of taking care of a baby!. Not to mention all of the activities that you will be missing out on because your at home taking care of a baby and wondering how at 12 or 13 your going to be able to by pampers Save yourself, you are worth it, and that boy is going to say and do whatever he can to change that!. Your precious and pure, stay that way!. If he truly loves you he will wait!. No middle school sex,Www@Answer-Health@Com

I did not have sex in middle school!.
If you do have sex in middle school, unless your area is tramp-filled, you WILL be called a slut!.

Having sex, especially in middle school, is a complete waste of time!.
One of the girls at my middle school actually has herpes&she's only in eighth grade!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Middle school is a HUGE no no!. as far as I go though I decided no sex till I'm legally an adult!. I'm 18 now and NEVER EVER had to deal with the extreme drama my friends did and it made my life much happier!. ( also 3/4 of my friends from high school now have babies on the way in their senior year, and most said they used protection, One was even a lesbian! one guy and POW instant baby)

Good god! people in here are just MEAN! like calling you a skank is going to help you!? Pfft! ignore that, I think it shows maturity that your trying to make an informed decision!. most people your age seem to think they have it all figured out by them selves, Good for you and question asking!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was 17 & did not regret it at the time!. A few weeks later I did though!. He broke up with me!. I later learned that's the only reason he went out with me, (because I was a virgin) he wanted to be the first!.
Did I use protection!? Yes!.
Don't have sex until you're married & ready to raise a family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'm going to be a senior next yr in high sch!. i remember in middle school that everyone though having sex was "cool!." the girls that did hv sex became popular!. but then in highschool, everyone thought of them as sluts and sloppy seconds!. they burned themselves so badly by having sex back in middle school that guys didn't want to date them!. they went from being among the most popular girls at school to being called "nasties" by guys later!. now, guys like the good, clean girls!.!. it just happend!. Don't have sex that young!. in a couple of years you'll realize it's better to wait!. i'm glad i haven'tdone it!. i have a clean rep, and NO-ONE can look down on you or call you a slut for that!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I first had sex when I was in grade 9, at the age of 14!. I think it was a little too young!. I defiantly used protection, as you should as well!.

My girlfriend didn't get pregnant, but I have a few buddies who have "knocked up" their girlfriends, and as bad as it is to say, their kids ruined there life!. I barley ever see them now becuase they are always working or looking after thier kids!. So use protection and defiantly wait till high school!. Middle school is way to young in my opinion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it would DEFINATELY be a mistake to start having sex in middle school!.
high school is another thing, but you have to really WANT to be totally emotionally ready and all that!.
it can screw up peoples lives SOOO badly you can't even imagine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

high school
yes i regretted it as soon as it was over, and especially when I met my husband!.!.!.
I wish I'd waited!.
Yes I used protection
no I didn't get pregnant (but that doesn't mean I couldn't have)

wait until you find the right person!.!.!.it sounds ridiculous until it happens, but you'll know when you find themWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ya I did!. I lost all my friends, and none of my teachers or friends parents had any respect for me!. I think I did it for the same reason you are thinking of doing it!. It seems grown up!. Unless you find the right person, having sex makes you feel empty!. It may seem like a good idea at the time, but trust me, it isn't worth it!. Try and stay a kid as long as you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I had several friends who had sex young and they said they could kick themselves as they got older, because you can't go backwards, once its done its done!. Many of the ones that got pregnant said it ruined their lives!.!.!. So I hope this answers your question as to what decision you should make!. It is MUCH more mature to wait to have sex and children!.!. and being married is even more mature and responsible!Www@Answer-Health@Com

when i turned 15 i lost my virginity and i really really regreted it and i also had a pregnancy scare!.
I wish i would have waited bcuz i realized that i could have made that moment more special when i was older!.
your wayyy to young to worry about that stuff!.
its really a special thing you should wait for!. you'll kno when your ready!.
sex isnt something you should push into having or have someone push u to do!.
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO USE PROTECTION!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i lost my virginity in 8th grade to a boy i was with over a year and a half and we were very much in love, we did use protection (birth control and condoms) and i don't regret it!.!.!.
don't let boys talk you into it though!. your body is your everything and having someone else mess with it is a big deal!.!.!.you're letting someone into your soul and entire being!.!.!.you should wait until you feel it in your heart and make sure that he feels the same way!.!.!.and thats the only way you won't regret doing it!.

i hope this helped you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i did in middle school and high school

i did use protection because i dont want any

babys walking around lol!.!.!.but i dont regret it

because once u start u cant stop!.!.not saying

that i do it every day!.!.but every once in a while

lol!.!.!.!.but all i can say is do you!.!.dont let anyone

make u have sex with them if u dont wannaWww@Answer-Health@Com

yes you will regret it
if you cant spell pregnant you shouldn't be even thinking about getting pregnant!
it will change your life dramatically and it will cause you to get a reputation that is not something to be proud of!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

DONT DO it WAIT it would be the best thing u have ever done i promise!.!.!. U will find out that guys done give a crap about u they are only after 1 thing dont let them fool u!.!.!. and u dont want a baby until u have finished school, got a GOOD job and Have a husband a place of ur own!.!.!. Its HARD!! its NOTHING like babysitting!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I didnt have sex until I finished school!.!.!.I didnt have a regular boyfriend until then either!.!.!.I went to a private all-girls school!.

Young kids these days want to have it all!.!.!.dont be in such a rush to have sex!.!.!.enjoy being young!.!.!.now go and do normal kids stuff!.!.!.movies, music, fun , friends and parties!.!.!.you dont need sex!.!.!.!.!.it wont make any of these things better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do NOT have sex in middle school or even high school!. It is very looked down upon!. Lol!. Anyway, if you have sex you WILL look back on it one day and probably will think you were too young esp!. if you have younger siblings!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I did not have sex until I was 16, yes I used protection!. You are way to young to be thinking about having sex! And there should be no question in your mind about using protection!. A baby would change your life forever!.!.!.no more fun!.!.!.no more being just a kid!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'm a virgin though but sooo many people in my high school have had sex!.!.!.!.its actually kind of common among upper classmen!. but having sex in middle school!.!.!.!.its ridiculous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know people who are my age (14) and are already getting caught by parents in these situations!. I am sure it changes people, and endangers their lives and health!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the fact that you still can't spell says something(your too young)!. I think once you've mastered spelling you will be old enough to move onto having sex!. Until then go and get a dictionary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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