Having sex 2 early? (i'm not!)?!
Question: Having sex 2 early!? (i'm not!)!?
lately i've been thinking about how my life would change if i had sex in middle school or high school or even got pregaunt!.!.!. what i'm wondering is:
did u have sex in middle school high school!?
do u regreat it!?
did u use protection!?
if u got pregnuaunt (sp!?) how did it change ur life!?
BTW i was j/w i'm only in middle school and i wanted to c how it affected real ppls life
ppl plz get this through your mind i'm no were near mature enough to have sex and i'm not thinking of actually doing it, just this is the 2nd yr!. i took sex ed and i just wanted to hear from real ppl who have gone through this
thanxWww@Answer-Health@Com
did u have sex in middle school high school!?
do u regreat it!?
did u use protection!?
if u got pregnuaunt (sp!?) how did it change ur life!?
BTW i was j/w i'm only in middle school and i wanted to c how it affected real ppls life
ppl plz get this through your mind i'm no were near mature enough to have sex and i'm not thinking of actually doing it, just this is the 2nd yr!. i took sex ed and i just wanted to hear from real ppl who have gone through this
thanxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I made a life changing decision to start having sex when I was 13 years old!. I thought at the time I was mature, smart and was in love!. I justified my choice because I was committed to marrying the BOY I was with!. I was in no way prepared for the emotional feelings that that type of connection with another human being brings on!. Despite thinking I was so smart, in love and mature, I got pregnant at 14 years old and was faced with a decision that a junior high or high school student should not be facing and is not knowledgeable or mature enough to make!. I chose to have an abortion and besides the uncomfortable procedure, the emotional and mental effects I carried with me for so many years were painstaking!. I stayed with that same BOY until I was 20 years old but we never did get married and now looking back I realize what a poor, unprepared, and important decision I made at the time!. No one could tell me at the time but I have found it to be true, that it is best to wait until you truly understand what love is and is not and that takes years of practice for most of us!. Deciding to have sex is not a issue to take lightly!. It is something that will have an effect on us always and that we can not undo once we have made that decision!.
I would suggest getting as much information on the topic as possible from mature adults and reputable books, possibly from the library so you know what you are saying yes or no to and you can make an informed decision for yourself!. I applaude you for seeking information from others before you make such an important and life changing decision!.
I wish you great wisdom and clarity with this topic and decision!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would suggest getting as much information on the topic as possible from mature adults and reputable books, possibly from the library so you know what you are saying yes or no to and you can make an informed decision for yourself!. I applaude you for seeking information from others before you make such an important and life changing decision!.
I wish you great wisdom and clarity with this topic and decision!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex when I was 17, so in high school!. I don't regret it at all!. I was on the pill and he used a condom!. I'm also married to him now!. Haha : )
I have a friend who got pregnant in the middle of her junior year!. She had her baby in November and finished high school on time!. She married the father who is now in the Army!. She is in her first year of college studying to be a nurse!. She loves her baby boy and her husband a lot!. So not every girl who gets pregnant ends up in a bad situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have a friend who got pregnant in the middle of her junior year!. She had her baby in November and finished high school on time!. She married the father who is now in the Army!. She is in her first year of college studying to be a nurse!. She loves her baby boy and her husband a lot!. So not every girl who gets pregnant ends up in a bad situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1) No, I've never had sex in middle/high school and don't plan on it!. Everything has a right time- if you do it now, what's fun in waiting!? It'll get boring!.!. And it doesn't even mean anything yet if you do it now!. And I'm not assuming that you've had sex before either, like in your question description!.
2) I've known people who've gotten pregnant in high school, and they immediately dropped out!. It's pretty sad, it does affect your life DRASTICALLY!. No high school degree=no college degree= no money = homeless OR depending on other people!. Or you kill yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2) I've known people who've gotten pregnant in high school, and they immediately dropped out!. It's pretty sad, it does affect your life DRASTICALLY!. No high school degree=no college degree= no money = homeless OR depending on other people!. Or you kill yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex in 10th grade, and really regret it!. I regret it because I was sort of pressured into it by my then boyfriend and now wish I had had the confidence to say "No, let's wait!."
I also regret it because I wanted my first time to be with someone really special!. I thought he was, but he definitely wasn't!. I should have waited another year for the boyfriend I have now - we've been together for 4 years and I love him to death!. I just wish I had waited for him!.
I guess the moral to my story is to wait until you are SURE!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I also regret it because I wanted my first time to be with someone really special!. I thought he was, but he definitely wasn't!. I should have waited another year for the boyfriend I have now - we've been together for 4 years and I love him to death!. I just wish I had waited for him!.
I guess the moral to my story is to wait until you are SURE!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have never had sex!. i believe that you should only have sex until your ready and save it for someone very special!. if you had sex in high school, then you would probably regret it since your virginity has been wasted!. even if you "think" you love someone in high school, i still don't think you should have sex because you'll probably fall in love with someone in the future and may end up marrying them and you should save yourself for them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I did not have sex in middle school or in high school!. I first had sex when I was 19 years old (a sophomore in college)!. I do not regret it!. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year and are in a monogamous, committed relationship!. We use protection; I'm on BC and we use a condom every time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the first time i had sex, i was 13!. i dont regret it!. i had sex w/ my husband!. we used birth control!. if i had gotten pregnant it would have really changed my life, that is why we used and still use birth control!. i am now 25, and still have only slept with my husband!. my advice, is to wait until you know that is going to be the one that you are going to spend the rest of your days with!. if you find them at age 13 go ahead, or if you have to wait till you are age 25, wait till you are 25 or however long it takes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wooow!
okay, NO!.
spend your life wisely!.
wait until your like, married!.
its by the Bible!.
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p!.s!. i know a girl in my school, has had sex with guys, ppl call her a slut and crap like that!. so, if you are gunna have sex, then make it SECRET!Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay, NO!.
spend your life wisely!.
wait until your like, married!.
its by the Bible!.
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p!.s!. i know a girl in my school, has had sex with guys, ppl call her a slut and crap like that!. so, if you are gunna have sex, then make it SECRET!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i almost gareentee u would regret it once ur married!. once u look at ur husband and think "wow, all those other guys were a waste of my time and the biggest most presious gift i could ever give my husbamd (virginity) is gone!."
so yaaa!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so yaaa!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think whats the point in waiting!. just use protection!. some people say its special but whats really special about it!. once u do it u do it and than u get better at it!.
USE PROTECTION!.
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USE PROTECTION!.
Any questions:
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i did it at 14 it ruined my reputation and guys dooo talk and i wasnt ready i TOTALLYYY regret it save it for that speial someoneWww@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex at 16!. I used protection, and there are no regrets because it was with someone I loved!. That is the key!.!.!.It has to be with the right person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok!.!.!.well i watch the secret life of the american teenager and it deals with this stuff!. if your not sure, you should watch the show!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
youu shoulnt even bee thinking abouut this !.!. youu cant even spell pregnant !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex my freshman year of high school!. I dont regret it!. I didnt get pregnant!. I used protection!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you already asked this question!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont do it till you're out of high school!.!.!. guys are too immature and they WILL run their mouths!. dont trust them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Still in high school!.!.!.but
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well i'm 17 n i honestly plan to wait unitl i'm married!.!.!.!.
i think it's the best thing to do because u save urself from alot of things!.!.!.
some of my friends who have gone through it regret it!.!.!.
i mean they thought they loved that someone n in da end everything just ended up bad!.!.!.
i mean save it for the person u really truly love n will spend da rest of ur life with!.!.!.
respect urself enought to wait like u've been doin!.!.!.
guyz come n go!.!.!.
but ur virginity is something u only get ONCE!.!.!.
once u lose it u'll NEVER get it back!.!.!.!.
something to think about, right!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think it's the best thing to do because u save urself from alot of things!.!.!.
some of my friends who have gone through it regret it!.!.!.
i mean they thought they loved that someone n in da end everything just ended up bad!.!.!.
i mean save it for the person u really truly love n will spend da rest of ur life with!.!.!.
respect urself enought to wait like u've been doin!.!.!.
guyz come n go!.!.!.
but ur virginity is something u only get ONCE!.!.!.
once u lose it u'll NEVER get it back!.!.!.!.
something to think about, right!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i did it at 17 with no protection nor any regrets!.Www@Answer-Health@Com