Why cant i cuumm?!
Question: Why cant i cuumm!?
like during sex!.!. having my thing rubbed so on it all feels really good and yeah i get to the part where i cant stand it anymore and then it just kinda stops!.!.!. whats wrong!?!?!?!? cuz then once were both done i want more so clearly i didnt finish!.!.!. what can i do to get off!? should i have him just keep going even tho i dont want to for a few min!? then will i go!? helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Sounds like you are peaking without having an orgasm!. It's stopping, so either you aren't relaxing and letting go or you thinking about it too much and some how stopping it!.
Most women do not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse!. It happens mostly with manual/oral/toy stimulation to your clitoris!. Some girls have an easier time being on top and reaching their hand between your bodies and helping yourself along!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Most women do not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse!. It happens mostly with manual/oral/toy stimulation to your clitoris!. Some girls have an easier time being on top and reaching their hand between your bodies and helping yourself along!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I used to have the same problem, and here's how I!.!.!.fixed it!.
The boyfriend who gave me my first orgasm was well endowed!. Obviously, that helped with stimulation!. Also, he was really, really into foreplay!. That helped get me hot!. By the time there was actually penetration, I was already close!. Foreplay might've been oral sex, a lot of suggestive rubbing, kissing, massaging, just something to get us both ready!. And even if he was ready to go in ten seconds, he'd still take the time to get ME hot and bothered!.
Oh, and clitoral stimulation during sex!. Try having him hit it from behind and reach his hand around ooor ride him and show him where to put his hands!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The boyfriend who gave me my first orgasm was well endowed!. Obviously, that helped with stimulation!. Also, he was really, really into foreplay!. That helped get me hot!. By the time there was actually penetration, I was already close!. Foreplay might've been oral sex, a lot of suggestive rubbing, kissing, massaging, just something to get us both ready!. And even if he was ready to go in ten seconds, he'd still take the time to get ME hot and bothered!.
Oh, and clitoral stimulation during sex!. Try having him hit it from behind and reach his hand around ooor ride him and show him where to put his hands!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don'y worry, only 17% of women will orgasm from sex alone, because of the size and position of the clitoris, it doesnt receive much stimulation from sex!.
So you certainly aren't alone!. Orgasms are difficult to describe, but easy to recognize when you have one, from its characteristic feeling of sexual release at climax, I do beleive that the shuddering, warming feeling you experienced was the plateau phase, the period of sexual excitement prior to orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So you certainly aren't alone!. Orgasms are difficult to describe, but easy to recognize when you have one, from its characteristic feeling of sexual release at climax, I do beleive that the shuddering, warming feeling you experienced was the plateau phase, the period of sexual excitement prior to orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, first off your question is really confusing but I think I know what you are saying!. I have this same problem!. In fact, it is a statistic that about 85% of women can't acheive orgasm through sexual intercourse!. Most can only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation!. ( This includes me and obviously you too)!. I have found that I can only have an orgasm when my special area is being rubbed (and even that takes a long time)!. This is a problem and can't really be understood by alot of men (they take it too personal) !. Get you a vibrating toy and use it during sex!. This will get you off and still let him get his!. Also, don't throw oral sex out the window and ask ur guy if he is down for it!. (This is a GREAT way to get offWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's all psychological!.
It could be 10 different things, but here's an example;
If you worry you're not with the right man,
If you're insecure about yourself
If your man is insecure
If your relationship is hurting
If you've got work/stress related issues
it could GREATLY contribute to your sexual life!.
Sex heals most life's pains and troubles!. But first life needs to be on track to allow sex to help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It could be 10 different things, but here's an example;
If you worry you're not with the right man,
If you're insecure about yourself
If your man is insecure
If your relationship is hurting
If you've got work/stress related issues
it could GREATLY contribute to your sexual life!.
Sex heals most life's pains and troubles!. But first life needs to be on track to allow sex to help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i find that usually when i cant cumm it is somethinginmy brains stopping me something that i am thinking abooout or bothering meor maybe something that i am self consious about,alsoitcould be that he doesn't realy turn u oon and maybe u need to close your eyes and fantasize about what gets you all hot and botheredWww@Answer-Health@Com
make him keep going untill he whants to stop if he whants to stop b for you make him go on till you whant to stop!. or get a vibrator!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a toy!.!.!.a vibrator to use when you are getting freaky!. It will work wonders!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i agree with the top 2 ppl but i would have him keep going even when u want him 2 stop!! GOOD LUCK!!Www@Answer-Health@Com