Serious answers only!!!!!!!!!!?!
Question: Serious answers only!!!!!!!!!!!?
ok well me and my bf have been having sex for awhile, and well he gets >soft< pretty fast, and then we have to stop and try to get it hard again, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt, but wen it does work he is not completly hard and gets soft again, wat is this!?!?!? is this normal o wat!? he is only 18!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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it's normal!. some guys need to "reload" if you will after getting off, and some guys can hard fast again whereas others can't!. try going back to foreplay for a bit when this happens, or tell him to picture things in his head, and then do it!. guys are visually and physically aroused where as girls are pretty much emotionally aroused, and physically aroused!. just try extending foreplay and see what happens!. or do the things you know he really likes!.
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hope this helps :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Probably is that he's too excited/nervous/emotional etc, but its hard for men to recognize those types of problems! Especially in bed where there's pressure to be the man!.
I would suggest just being an awesomely chill girlfriend, if he gets soft just lay beside him content and play with your hands all over his body, show him that its okay that you didn't finish!. You're just having fun anyways so it doesn't matter how hardcore it is!. Be sexy and sensual and when the time is right jump on!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would suggest just being an awesomely chill girlfriend, if he gets soft just lay beside him content and play with your hands all over his body, show him that its okay that you didn't finish!. You're just having fun anyways so it doesn't matter how hardcore it is!. Be sexy and sensual and when the time is right jump on!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you guys should discuss more about your sex life!.!.and how it is going so that he can become more comfortable and confident!.!.!.tell him what you like!.!.!.dont pressure him!.!.!.take it slow!.!.things might change!.!.!.you also have to discover what it is that really turns him on!.!.!.I am sure he is probably under pressure or inexperienced!.!.!.you have to help him grow sexually and you both will benefit have a good sex life!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He may be anxious!. Anxiety can cause a man to go "limp"!. Also, alcohol, marijuana, and some other drugs can cause difficulty in this area!. Perhaps you could try something new to spice things up!? I know a lot of men can get hard again if you switch to oral!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is he on any medications!? Illegal drugs!? Excessive use of alcohol!? If the answer to these questions is no, then it could be his nerves!. Or it could also be a medical problem!. He should be checked out by a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my husband had the same problem and he was only 23!.!.!. we went to walmart and got that over the counter stamina stuff and it really worked wellWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you're doing the same moves!.!.get kinky!.!.that might workWww@Answer-Health@Com