I want to use tampons but cant....im too tight! its effecting my sex life 2!!!?!


Question: I want to use tampons but cant!.!.!.!.im too tight! its effecting my sex life 2!!!!?
Ive tried so many times to use them but i cant =S !.!.!. I find using pads really annoying and would like to try tampons!.

I also have a boyfriend of a year and we both have decided we are both ready for sex although their is no rush what so ever!. We sort-of tried once but i was so tight it just didnt work! We do a lot of sexual stuff and he makes me orgasm a lot via my clit but has never used his finger in me because i just dont open! its a bit embarrasing and im getting fustrated =( (although he is very relaxed about it and says he can wait 4eva and he dsnt mind at all)!. But now im srting 2 mind quite a lot!

Please can ppl give me some advise as it would be really reall apreciated- thanks!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
If you can fit your own baby finger inside you, a slender tampon ("junior", "slim" or whatever) will fit just fine!. If you can't!.!.!. you ought to either stetch it slowly with your finger a little bit every day for a couple of weeks, and if that doesn't work, talk to your mom or your doctor about it ands see if there's anything you can do to make tampons easier for you to use!.

Lube the tip of the tampon with a bit of spit or KY, and make sure to angle the tampon *backwards* as you insert it!.!.!. towards the top of your butt-crack!.!.!. because your vagina doesn't go *up*, it slants way backward as it goes in!. Pushing out just a little bit like you're peeing or pooping will relax the muscles there and make it easier!.

Watching with a hand-mirror between your legs the first couple of times will help you to see if it's going in properly!.
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EDIT: If you can get the tip of your baby finger even 1/4 inch in, you can begin stretching your hymen!. Go very slowly - it might take weeks - and while it *can* be uncomfortable, anything that *hurts* means you're not doing it gently enough!. If you *really* can't do this, you need to talk to your mom or your doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try a small gauge tampon like Tampax lites, they have purple packaging and use a little bit of K-Y or other water based lube before inserting!. K-Y or similar will help with the intercourse issue as well!.

And relax, you could be tensing up and not realizing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

seriously this sounds gross but finger yourself and itll get looser!.

and use the slim kinds of tampons!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Put some lube on it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try the Tampax pearl!. Don't worry I had this issue for years, just keep trying you will get the hang of it!.

With regards to sex (and the tampon) just relax, again I can totally sympathise with you!. I kept trying and everything worked out OK, for both issues!. If it seems like nothing is helping then maybe see your Dr, there are things that can be done as a last resort to narrowing of the vagina!. Also try extra lubrication!. With regards to the tampon, is it a problem inserting it or does it just feel uncomfortable once it's in!? Try using tampons with the applicator at first, also, angle the tampon correctly, don't push up, angle backwards, so kinda push towards your back rather than straight up, actually laying down when inserting will help just until you get used to it!.

It isn't sick at all, just use the tampons with the application, that will be easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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