Please help! My mind wonders during sex?!


Question: Please help! My mind wonders during sex!?
Sorry for all the TMI but its true!. I'll be really into sex with my boyfriend and then my mind just wonders into random things!. I'll start thinking about things that I read that day or something that I saw on television or even a previous conversation!. It really seems as if I analyze the situation so much that I start connecting it to various parts of my life and the next thing I know I am no longer concentrated on the intimacy with my boyfriend!. I read somewhere that women of higher intelligence have the least orgasms because they analyze the situation too much!. If this is the case, how can I keep focused during the sex!? Also, if anyone can help, how do I achieve an orgasm by penetration alone!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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i had the same problom, but when you are letting your mind wander during sex you are not focusing on what is going on inside of you and what your man is trying to do for you, i had the same exzact problom, but try looking at your mans body and yours, its really amazing when you look at the ways that your bods are connecting:) it really helps:) and when your mind wonders it hurts your man, have you ever faked before!? because all i used to do is fake because my mind wondered and it caused me to focus on other things even other people!. its ok though, just turn your mind onto what he is trying to do for you and his body, when i did that with my man it really helped my mind focus on just us:) but i always need clitoral stimulation when my man and i are making love:) its just something that i think that half of the wemon in the world need:) i hope that i helped:) good luck:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

My mind wanders too!.!. I know exctly what you mean!. Sometimes it's hard to just let go of things in your mind and concentrate on the sex!.

Orgasm by penetration alone!? You're probably going to need some clitoral stimulation to get off from that!. It's not as common for women to orgasm without clitoral stimulation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can help you with that!. It is all about keeping you involved changing positions and finding out what you like I cannot give you a step by step set of instructions but I can give you pointers and if you really want to know I can show you, if you would be interested!. Send me an email and lets chat!.

Keeping you involved in the moment will prevent your mind from wandering and make you concentrate on what you are doing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Posting a link is a bit of a cop-out, but this is a really good site that discusses orgasm, arousal and vaginal orgasms!. It fits what you are asking in other words!.

http://www!.the-clitoris!.com/f_html/arous!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe try talking dirty during sex or try role playing!. One of the easiest ways to achieve orgasm is by riding him that way you control how fast to go and how deep he is:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

you should talk about this with your bf!. It just seems that you're not all that into him!. When i'm with my guy i couldn't care less about things around me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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