I really really like this girl?!
Question: I really really like this girl!?
I am like really felling this girl we have known each other for a while and lately we have been talking on the phone and having like deep conversations about sex and life and God!. she is attractive and talented and spiritual and she have a ghetto side she is everything i want and more but she has a boyfriend and she is sexualy active im not a virgin but i dont have that much experience but what do you do when you are really in love with a girl like that!. How do i express my fellings im very shyWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Of course this is always a tough one - but there is hope!. Basically remain friends with the girl - it's weird she stays on the phone with you forever talking all that deep stuff, when she has a boyfriend!. I'd say she's getting things from you shes not getting from him -- so you're in the running for a relationship with her!. Hang in there, and be there for her!.!.!.you are showing her what she's missing -- however, don't let her have her cake and eat it to -- you need to let her know guys like you aren't "always gonna be available" so you may want to talk to others girls and kinda let her know that you like her, you like all the conversations, and the vibe you get off of her, but you can't wait for her forever!. Do not pressure her, but mention another girl to her and you will be able to tell how she feels!.!.!.more than likely she'll be jealous -- dont make a game out of it you gotta be honest and basically tell her you think the two of you would make a good couple!.!.!.and that you'd really like to see her happy!.!.!.so you two should hook up!.
Good Luck! (I envy your comittment to going after the girl you are truly into!.!.!.!.that says alot) don't give up, and never let them slip through your fingers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck! (I envy your comittment to going after the girl you are truly into!.!.!.!.that says alot) don't give up, and never let them slip through your fingers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi!. If she has a boyfriend, then leave her alone!. The only way that you should interfere by suggesting that she leave him is if he is abusing her(beating her, etc!.)!. You say that she has good qualities but has a ghetto side!. Why would you want a ghetto side if you are looking for a god-fearing, nice young lady!? Find a lady (possibly from church who you can court), who has only good qualities!. One who has a good head on her shoulders and who is headed into a good direction!. One who preferably is in college or that has a good job!. One who honors and respects herself, her parents and others around her!. One who is faithful and kind!. This decision should probably make you much happier in the long run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She has a boyfriend, hence for her sake and your own you need to keep these feelings to yourself!. Its all well and good that you think you are in love with her but she is already with someone and you've mentioned nothing about her happiness with him!. Presumably she's happy with him and you coming forward will only annoy her as it confuses her relationship!. Its great that you've found a friend who you can talk to this much but while she's with her boyfriend I really don't think making a move will cause anything but trouble and maybe losing her as a friendWww@Answer-Health@Com
All you need to know about having sex is:
1) Talk to the girl about birth control and also std testing so both of you will be able to have sex without risking pregnancy or diseases!.
2) Sex can be weird and awkward, this is normal!. Don't worry!. Relax, have fun, laugh at how silly things are, be yourself!.
3) Feel free to experiment with new ideas, both of you can be creative and try various positions or lubricants or whatever!.
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edit: if she has a bf, stop flirting with her and try to stop thinking about her, keep busy with your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
1) Talk to the girl about birth control and also std testing so both of you will be able to have sex without risking pregnancy or diseases!.
2) Sex can be weird and awkward, this is normal!. Don't worry!. Relax, have fun, laugh at how silly things are, be yourself!.
3) Feel free to experiment with new ideas, both of you can be creative and try various positions or lubricants or whatever!.
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edit: if she has a bf, stop flirting with her and try to stop thinking about her, keep busy with your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
She is a lucky girl to have earned your interest and love!. Yet, it is hard to be in love with a person who is already in a relationship!. The best thing you can do is pray about God's plan for your life!. He already has the details worked out!. Ask him to show you how to handle your feelings and your relationship with this girl!.
Don't be too disappointed if the answer is "let her go!." Sometimes we meet people who teach us about ourselves by bringing out feelings we need to explore!. Spend sometime getting to know yourself better!. What does your body need!? your mind need!? and your spirit need!? One person probably won't be able to fill all your needs!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't be too disappointed if the answer is "let her go!." Sometimes we meet people who teach us about ourselves by bringing out feelings we need to explore!. Spend sometime getting to know yourself better!. What does your body need!? your mind need!? and your spirit need!? One person probably won't be able to fill all your needs!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell her how you feel, If she doesnt feel the same way about you, just dont sweat!. You ca still talk to her!. Its not like it is going to be werid!.
And maybe get to know her more, there may be more things to love!.
And maybe you can tell her you arnt as experienced as her!. She will understand!.
Maybe you could start going to church and learning about god (if you know enough already) Then you could go together sometimes!.
To some things you BOTH like to do together!.
I hope this helps ? kenzie ?Www@Answer-Health@Com
And maybe get to know her more, there may be more things to love!.
And maybe you can tell her you arnt as experienced as her!. She will understand!.
Maybe you could start going to church and learning about god (if you know enough already) Then you could go together sometimes!.
To some things you BOTH like to do together!.
I hope this helps ? kenzie ?Www@Answer-Health@Com
she's definitely missing something in her relationship with her boyfriend!. I think she's just using you to fill what she's missing!. I would stay away from a girl like that!. how would you feel is she was your girl and was chatting with another man!. I say forget about her, she's playing a game with you and you don't need that!.!.!.!. In time you will find the right girl without all this drama!.!.!.!.!.!.good luck!.!. bdWww@Answer-Health@Com
its great that you guys can talk about all that but face it !.!.!. she has a boyfriend!. so, either she a) deosn't like you like that or b) likes you but would you seriously want to date a girl who would do that to her boyfriend!?!
sorry, but i thik that the best way to find out would be to talk to herWww@Answer-Health@Com
sorry, but i thik that the best way to find out would be to talk to herWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to hang out with her in person, because if she has a boyfriend and is only talking to you on the phone, she's just using you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
she has a boyfriend!.!.!.wait till their not going out because if he finds out your feelings and that your talking to his girlfriend, he may give ya a fat lip for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop talking with that girl coz it can cause problem later!.!.!. i think you're not really in love with that girl!.!.!. you just like her because of the positive traits that you know about her!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just ell her how you feel and start walking around with her and make seem like you guys go out then her boyfriend might get jelous and brake up with her then she's all yoursWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!. buy a gun
2!. rape the girl
3!. !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
4!. Profit!Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. rape the girl
3!. !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
4!. Profit!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Write her a poem or letter, tell her how you feel directly!. She will like your courage to do that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i wouldn't say much till she breaks up with the other guy!. But keep talking to her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
DOn't be shy and b yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
juss wait till her and her boy friend breakup and then tell her how u feel say nice things 2 herWww@Answer-Health@Com
for one she has a bf and your in womens health not dating and relationshipsWww@Answer-Health@Com
just pull your wanker out!.!.!. it will swoon her for sure!. lol!.!.!. that would be funnyWww@Answer-Health@Com
sure anot!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok dude im like 14 but i kno a lot on the subject lol so here ya go!. you said she has a boyfriend right,welll you want to b sure she knows you like her but not so much that her boyfriend will think your trying to take her away because thats not so goood lol try to just talk with her and build up a relationship like you have but try to b confident NOT shy confidence is key to this kind of prob!. its GREAT that you both share a relationship with god so there is a good thing does her boyfriend care about god as much as you and her if so thennn im sorry but idk :( !. if not though then keep going to church and christian rock concerts ect!. with her it would give you time alone to talk and sstuff and eventually tell her how you feel she will understand and eathier realy love you back or just like you back if she likes you back keep going on but to a limit dont smuther her with like gifts then she will be creeped out!.!.!.!.not good lol!. still just keep talking and hope she builds a relationship with you and begins too see you diffrently for the good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just tell her how you feeel!.
EXACTLY like how you did here, sayy your all i think about and everything i want!. (not in a stalkerishhh way)
try to make her feel soo important to you- dont hold back!. and shell realize your better than her boyfriendWww@Answer-Health@Com
EXACTLY like how you did here, sayy your all i think about and everything i want!. (not in a stalkerishhh way)
try to make her feel soo important to you- dont hold back!. and shell realize your better than her boyfriendWww@Answer-Health@Com