Is somethin wrong with me or is it him??!!?!
Question: Is somethin wrong with me or is it him!?!?!!!?
this is embarrasing to say, but i've been meaning to ask!.!.
what is wrong b/c everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, i dont really get any pleasure out of it, i dont really enjoy it as much as he does, is there somethin wrong with me!? and have anyone else ever been like this too!?!?
im 17 by the way gonna be 18 soon and he was my first too!.!.but i just dont get the pleasure, could it be that my body isnt used to sex yet or wat is it!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
what is wrong b/c everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, i dont really get any pleasure out of it, i dont really enjoy it as much as he does, is there somethin wrong with me!? and have anyone else ever been like this too!?!?
im 17 by the way gonna be 18 soon and he was my first too!.!.but i just dont get the pleasure, could it be that my body isnt used to sex yet or wat is it!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Okay, so I don't think people under 18 should be having sex for legal and emotional maturity reasons!.!.!. however!.!.!.
It doesn't mean anything is wrong with him or you!.!.!.
If you aren't enjoying sex with your boyfriend, it could be that he hasn't brought you to orgasm during sex!. It generally takes longer for women to climax than it does for men!. Which means that the male has to delay his release or be able to keep going after his release until you reach your orgasm!. Many women don't easily orgasm from sexual intercourse!. Often women require stimulation of their clitoris in addition to sexual intercourse or instead of sexual intercourse!.
If you have never orgasmed or you don't know what brings you to orgasm you could figure that out and share that information with your boyfriend!.
Or the problem could be that you are just not physically compatible or emotionally compatible with your boyfriend!. You may fit together well but if you are not emotionally comfortable with him and trusting him completely when you are literally at your most vulnerable, then you will never be able to relax enough to enjoy the physical sensations!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't mean anything is wrong with him or you!.!.!.
If you aren't enjoying sex with your boyfriend, it could be that he hasn't brought you to orgasm during sex!. It generally takes longer for women to climax than it does for men!. Which means that the male has to delay his release or be able to keep going after his release until you reach your orgasm!. Many women don't easily orgasm from sexual intercourse!. Often women require stimulation of their clitoris in addition to sexual intercourse or instead of sexual intercourse!.
If you have never orgasmed or you don't know what brings you to orgasm you could figure that out and share that information with your boyfriend!.
Or the problem could be that you are just not physically compatible or emotionally compatible with your boyfriend!. You may fit together well but if you are not emotionally comfortable with him and trusting him completely when you are literally at your most vulnerable, then you will never be able to relax enough to enjoy the physical sensations!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it seems like we have the same problem!. !. !. like mentally i love the closeness of sex with him but nothing like that felt amazing !. !. !. i think it could be our age a lot of people say some girls dont feel and orgasm til they are like in their twenties !. !. !. plus the advice i got was to have the guy play with you and tell him what feels good because it doesn't alway just feel good having a penis inside you there needs to be more you knowWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey there,
It's actually really normal!. I didn't "get it" until I was with the right person and was in my mid-20's!. Before then it didn't really feel pleasurable!. It can take a while for your body to figure it out, and it also takes the right man to help you learn how to orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's actually really normal!. I didn't "get it" until I was with the right person and was in my mid-20's!. Before then it didn't really feel pleasurable!. It can take a while for your body to figure it out, and it also takes the right man to help you learn how to orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've had this problem also!. I just found I need lots of clitoral stimulation!. Sometimes I do it myself while having sex, he does it, or he performs oral sex!. Also try different positions!. Doggy style hits the spot usually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sexual fulfillment is almost entirely a mental/psychological/emotional issue!.
You may have insecurities or misgivings of sorts!. It's difficult for us to answer without knowing your entire history!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may have insecurities or misgivings of sorts!. It's difficult for us to answer without knowing your entire history!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its alirght, you just need to put your mind into it:) i cant orgasm duning penitration, maybe he needs to take care of you before with four play:) i hope that helped:) good luck:)Www@Answer-Health@Com