I can't achieve an orgasm, is this normal?!


Question: I can't achieve an orgasm, is this normal!?
I'm 18 years old, I've had sex before, but I find that I can't really have good sex because it hurts too much because I'm too tight!. I can't get off by masturbating, I can't get off with my boyfriend (and I've had my fair share)!.
I've tried just about everything, is this normal!? What should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Its more than likely cos you are worrying about reaching an orgasm that you are not actually getting one!. Maybe cos it hurts when you have sex is also puttng you off!. Try a lubricant which will make sex more comfortable and I would advise that you have a couple of glasses of wine to relax you!. Once you have done it once, it will feel so good that you would definately want to do it again!. Good luck and enjoy xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

sounds like you might have anorgasmia

Anorgasmia (often related to delayed ejaculation in males) is a form of sexual dysfunction sometimes classified as a psychiatric disorder in which the patient cannot achieve orgasm, even with "adequate" stimulation!. However, it can also be caused by medical problems such as diabetic neuropathy, multiple sclerosis, pelvic trauma, hormonal imbalances, total hysterectomy, spinal cord injury and cardiovascular disease!. Anorgasmia is far more common in females than in males and is especially rare in younger men!.

A common cause of anorgasmia, in both men and women, is the use of anti-depressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)!. Though reporting of anorgasmia as a side-effect of SSRIs is not precise, it is estimated that 15-50% of users of such medications are affected by this condition[citation needed]!. The chemical amantadine has been shown to relieve SSRI-induced anorgasmia in some, but not all, people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Heck no that's not normal!! I had orgasms by masturbation as early as 3 years old!. Focus on your clitoris!. Wad up something soft, like a sweater, pillow, or something and put it under you as you lay on your stomach!. Find a comfortable place on the sweater that puts pressure on your privates and adjust until you feel the most pleasure!. Move yourself around until you orgasm!. It's that simple!. Women are multi-orgasmic!. You should have one after the other, after the other!.!.!. I do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

One you need to relax and have a clear mind when having sex!. Just think about the feeling during sex!.!.!.that should loosen you up a bit and so it won't be so painful!.!.!.!.most women cannot achieve an orgasm during sex (that is how I know that God is a man) but I have never heard of a woman that is unable to achieve an orgasm through masturbation!. I would talk with your gyno about that!. Good luck sweetie!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Many women cant have vaginal orgasms!. Try playing with the clit instead and you can look into getting a vibrator to speed up the process!. In porn and in media it seems that women are portrayed as only having one sensitive spot when in fact there are many!. Clitoral orgasms are more common, and are easier to achieve, plus there is no pain or tightness to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

YES, NORMAL!

Most female orgasms are faked, and most women aren't really into physical stimulation that much!.

PLEASE READ (very important):

http://www!.associatedcontent!.com/article!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It isn't necessarily a bad thing!. It could just be that you haven't had good partners and just aren't too sure how to masturbate well yet!. I highly recommend a vibrator !.!.!. that orgasm will come soon enough!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nothing is normal!. Get busy and involved in something worthwhile!. Your behavior indicates great weakness and a total lack of discipline!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This Sounds Weird But!.!.!.
Try Rubbing Your Clitoris
And Try Oral Sex
It Is Normal
But It May Just Be That You Aren't Relaxed Enough To Enjoy It
Alot Of Women Can Only *** During Oral Sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Watch "The Oh in Ohio"!. You'll find your solution there!.

Also, there are lots of kids on Yahoo Answers!. It seems just a tad inappropriate to ask questions like this here!. :)

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That's cause you havent met me yet!.!.!.!.it's okay!.!.!.!.one day!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have heard women can have this problem!. It is not abnormal just uncommon!. I say google it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

try having your partner do oral if he does it right you could passably have a orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You just need to find the right key to go into the padlock!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

normalWww@Answer-Health@Com

normalWww@Answer-Health@Com

http://www!.talksexwithsue!.com/femaleorga!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you just may not be into yourself enough when you masturbate!.
that has a lot to do with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Slow down; you're not ready for sex!. See a doctor about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ITS NORMALWww@Answer-Health@Com

yes it happens to others research it on the netWww@Answer-Health@Com

Have you tried a sex therapist!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Water on the clit is your main thing!. Keep doing that till you find an answerWww@Answer-Health@Com

you'll achieve one w/ a vibrator!. a lot of women are like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its normal, one day you willWww@Answer-Health@Com

have him eat you outWww@Answer-Health@Com

call love lineWww@Answer-Health@Com





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