Help my friend for 3 yrs...?!
Question: Help my friend for 3 yrs!.!.!.!?
okay well my friend (yes hes a guy) n i have known eachother for 3 yrs, and hes pretty close to me, he wants me to send him a pic of my boobs on his phone, but i keep saying no because to me, i think it would be awkard like when i see him in person next time and like he keeps askin me, i got so tired of it i took a pic of me n my bra for him but it is awkard already n if i just take one of my boobs it will be awkard, oh and im 15 hes 16, what should i do next time he asks me, like for now im always telling him later cuz i cant say no to him, well i cant say no to anyone really!.!. n one reason i dont want to do it is cuz my one boob is bigger then the other one n if he thinks its weird he might not talk to me again and yes i know if he is a true friend he will still talk to me n stuff!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
hmmm!. This is a hard one!. I'm 16!. Male!.
Before I give you any advise what-so-ever, I want you to answer this yourself!.
"Why are you even considering the fact of sending him the pictures!?"
First answer to yourself if you like him or if you think he's using you, or whats going on in your head!.
Now for my advice, I recommend NOT to send him a picture!. Sadly enough, many guys may just want to pleasure themselves using others!.
He MAY just be using you!. But I don't know the guy!. So I suggest that you decide what your motives are!. What his motives are!.
Only then will you be able to decide how important this is to you!. If you want to-reveal, your body to him, Or if you just want to feel more secure about your self and have the courage to say no!.
And Just to let you know, most likely, if you do say "no", he'll try to use some sort of excuse to maybe make you feel guilty!.
So before you do anything!. Make up YOUR mind first!. And no matter what he says, stick to what you believe is best!.
Only you know your friend, not me or anyone else!. I hope you make the decision that you think is the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Before I give you any advise what-so-ever, I want you to answer this yourself!.
"Why are you even considering the fact of sending him the pictures!?"
First answer to yourself if you like him or if you think he's using you, or whats going on in your head!.
Now for my advice, I recommend NOT to send him a picture!. Sadly enough, many guys may just want to pleasure themselves using others!.
He MAY just be using you!. But I don't know the guy!. So I suggest that you decide what your motives are!. What his motives are!.
Only then will you be able to decide how important this is to you!. If you want to-reveal, your body to him, Or if you just want to feel more secure about your self and have the courage to say no!.
And Just to let you know, most likely, if you do say "no", he'll try to use some sort of excuse to maybe make you feel guilty!.
So before you do anything!. Make up YOUR mind first!. And no matter what he says, stick to what you believe is best!.
Only you know your friend, not me or anyone else!. I hope you make the decision that you think is the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hunny a true friend wouldnt keep trying to make you do something that you wouldnt want to!.!.!.you know!!!
and u can always play a mean joke on him!.!.!.well not mean but it might keep him from aking you!.!.!.if he ask for a picture of your boobs again send him a picture off the internet or something!.!.fool him!.!.lol!.!.!.yea i know it seems wrong to do so but hey thats what he gets for trying to pressure u into doing something that u dont want to
wish the best of luck!.!. =DWww@Answer-Health@Com
and u can always play a mean joke on him!.!.!.well not mean but it might keep him from aking you!.!.!.if he ask for a picture of your boobs again send him a picture off the internet or something!.!.fool him!.!.lol!.!.!.yea i know it seems wrong to do so but hey thats what he gets for trying to pressure u into doing something that u dont want to
wish the best of luck!.!. =DWww@Answer-Health@Com
You really just have to say no next time he asks because if you're uncomfortable, it's wrong!. There is a 90% chance that he will show it to all of his friends and other people, maybe even posting it online!. I could see showing him might be reasonable, but a picture is evidence he could share with the world!. Don't do it!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay i wouldnt take a pic of it just tell him not right now i already sent you a pic of me in my bra thats all you get!!!!!!! and if he keeps asking just tell him ill show you but im not taking a pic!!! cuz i you take a pic he could show it to ppl!!!!!!!! and if you dont wanna just show him just risk it and tell him no!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well if he was a tru friend he wouldnt wanna see ur boobs, right!?! don't do something that u don't wanna do & tell him that!! u have to put your foot down to some boys!. and sweetie, everyone has a boob that is bigger than the other! i'm the same way!! but just don't send him the picture!. he sounds like a pervert anyways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just say NO, it can wreck your friendship and you know how easy it is to get yourself plastered all over the internet!. He says he's your friend but if he was he wouldn't ask you to do that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
take a picture of someone elses boobs and make sure they r hot, and hopefully he never sees u naked!. and i find that hot that ones bigger than the otherWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont do it!. unless you want him to show the picture to all his friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
say if u were rele mi friend u would get tht i dont wanna do thtWww@Answer-Health@Com