I'm too tight!?!
Question: I'm too tight!!?
This is quite a weird and gross question but I'm really confused!. When I've masturbated in the past I've never really gone inside cos it doesnt give me much pleasure and I prefer just around the outside stimulation!. So when me and my boyfriend tried to have sex I was really tight down there and he couldnt enter me!. The second time we tried he got inside me but I dont think the hymen broke because there was no bleeding but it was pretty painful so we stopped!. Is there anything I can do to make it easier when we next try to have sex because its pretty embarrassing and I'm worried there is something wrong with me!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Your vagina is actually made to expand to fit a baby's head, right!? Anything up to half that size *can* go in there without pain if you take the time (it might take a few weeks of every-other-day trying if he's really huge, so don't despair too early) to get used to the size of his penis slowly and more or less comfortably!.
Even at that, it may hurt (maybe a lot) at first, so make sure that he goes very slowly and that he stops whenever you say he should!.
When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop"!.
Make sure you have lots of privacy for quite a long time (two hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted!.
Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable!. An orgasm or two first will help make your vagina stretchier (*and* more insistent on having something in there)!. Oral sex is always fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it!. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but it isn't necessary!. (Oh!.!.!. and there's nothing wrong with a mouthful of hair when it tastes like a horny woman)!.
All that slippery lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom!. Yes, the condom!. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Even at that, it may hurt (maybe a lot) at first, so make sure that he goes very slowly and that he stops whenever you say he should!.
When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop"!.
Make sure you have lots of privacy for quite a long time (two hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted!.
Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable!. An orgasm or two first will help make your vagina stretchier (*and* more insistent on having something in there)!. Oral sex is always fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it!. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but it isn't necessary!. (Oh!.!.!. and there's nothing wrong with a mouthful of hair when it tastes like a horny woman)!.
All that slippery lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom!. Yes, the condom!. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Finger yourself!.
Not kidding!. It will get you used to it!. First one finger!. When you can do that COMFORTABLY, do two!. Then 3!.
Trust me, this works!.
It's probably just because your hymen isnt stretched enough!. Also not everyone bleeds!. I never bled !.
Good luck =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not kidding!. It will get you used to it!. First one finger!. When you can do that COMFORTABLY, do two!. Then 3!.
Trust me, this works!.
It's probably just because your hymen isnt stretched enough!. Also not everyone bleeds!. I never bled !.
Good luck =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just let him put it in and I know it hurts a lot but just take it, like hold his back really tight and take the pain for a bit and it will loosen up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it hurts my brain to read
there is nothing wrong with youWww@Answer-Health@Com
there is nothing wrong with youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Try some KY jelly, especially if you are using a condom (and you should be)Www@Answer-Health@Com