Scared and feel like doing something I schoulndnt?!


Question: Scared and feel like doing something I schoulndnt!?
Right now i just turned 13 and im on the verge of entering puberty and the answers i get make me even more scared!.Im scared of growing breasts and getting a period!. Right now im on the verge of saying to my family I want to be turned boy instead of a girl!. HELP ME!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Christi, like i told you earlier its gonna be fine!. I had to go through all of that and it wasnt bad!. But see how fast time has gone by when that happened to me!. Dont be scared! Im with you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look Christi,
It's all right, dont worry about it!. It's not that big of a deal!. Breasts are OK, they wont grow to a big cup overnight, slowly and they're fine!. You'll have to wear a bra, which is like a bikini but supports u better, there are some relaly cute ones out there!. I just bought some for my step-daughter who's 14!. As for your period the only thing are cramps, which arent bad, just some discomfort on your lower back on and on your lower tummy, but if you take Advil they dissapear!!
It's a beautiful thing to become a woman, it's tough to think of you soon to be a woman, but it's just the beginning!. You'll become ayoung woman, and enjoy all life has to offer you! Dont be scaredWww@Answer-Health@Com

i know it's hard!. it seems like girls get all this annoying and embarassing stuff happening to them when they have to grow up!. it really sucks!. i felt the same way!.
but really there is alot of good to growing up as a girl!. you don't ahve a gross penis and have to shave your face like the boys!.
your breasts will grow slowly over time so you'll have time to get used to them!.!.!.!.and your period will be a really big deal at first and totally disgusting and painful and embarassing to tell your mom or whoever about!.!.!.but you'll get used to it!. i promise!. all girls do!. one day you will be 18 years old like me and look back thinking it was not as bad as you remember!. you'll get comfortable in your own skin with time!. you just have to be open to change and give it time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You don't need to be afraid! I am 24, so I have gone through the full spectrum of puberty!. I started my period at 10, developed breasts at 11, and was through all the big changes by the time I was 16 or so!. It really isn't as scary as it seems!. Every girl goes through it, and all the girls around you are experiencing the same things you are!. Having your period is annoying, but it's nothing you can't handle!. It's not the horrible experience that people make it out to be!. Some girls get bad cramps, but there are things that can be done to help that!. It's not the end of the world!. I had cramps, talked to the doctor about it, and got treatment so now I don't get them anymore!. Growing breasts isn't scary either!. It doesn't just all of a sudden happen, it happens gradually!. Just don't let it stress you out! It's honestly not a big deal!Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey this is my story im nearly 21 and im suffering till today and thinking comming suicide as it only gets worse n i thought that breasts periods pubic hair is the only thing was i wrong every day theres a new change i!.e!.acne sexual feelings orgasams man i hate this stuff i love being a girl but dont want to b a woman ihate this stuff dont even ask wot i went through but being a boy is a trauma too
dont be a transgender as u dont know boy life is bad too dont become a boy if u dont like ur periods get rid of em but dont become a boy its a sin to be a transgender

its amazing that how ppl r thinking like me nowadays becuz when i was 13 i was the only girl with these thoughts but I DONT WANT TO BE A BOY ITS AMAZING HOW PPL R COPYING ME NOWADAYSWww@Answer-Health@Com

Being a man has its own difficulties!. Try to go through the process before you knock it!. Having breast and a period are not scary things but completely natural!. Go talk to a counselor to find out where these negative attitudes toward developing come from!. A lot of fun can come from growing up and being a woman!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stop that nonsense!. It is wonderful to be happy within yourself, that is if you want to be who you were born to be!. If not then the choice has to be made soon!. Men have their issues too, believe that!. Ride the tide and go with the flow!. You will get through it, just take it one day at a time and learn about yourself and your body!. Look up the info you seek from professionals who work with teens!. You will not fall apart, nor will people look at you strange unless you are a dead give away that something is wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay--- I saw your first question!.!.!. I'm 13, and literally, JUST had my period for the first time!. I was a worrier just like you, but once it happens, you realize it's not as bad as you thought!. And you find out you were worrying over nothing!.!.!. Your period just feelings like you're peeing jelly!. It's really wierd, but it doesn't hurt!. The only part about that is the cramps, which are different for everyone!. I get them, but I take Ibuprofen, and that's what I would reccomend!. It works like magic!
Ahh!. Boobs!. You don't feel them or anything!.!.!. but once they get bigger it hurts to run!. Haha!.
Hope I helped! Don't worry about it, everything'll be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u need to talk to ur mom!. and theres honestly nothing to be scared of!. its not like it hurts or anything and your boobs arent just going to sprout up all of the sudden, theyre goin 2 grow slowly!. honestly, thats probably just you insecurity talking!. maybe u dont find yourself attractive, but i assure you, whether youre flat-chested or not, someone else will find you attractive!. you just have to be comfortable with yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

really!? u wanna be a boy!? wow!! omg alot of girls like haveing boobs and well i hate to break it to ya but every girl has to have there pieriod and unless your parents are stupid enough to let u be turned into a boy then you guys are screwed up in the brain!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.HAVE FUN BEING A GIRL AND GETTING WHISLED AT WALKING DOWN THE STREET WHEN GUYS THINK YOUR HOTT!!!! its definetly fun being a girl so dont even think that its bad haveing boobs or yourpieriod!!! ya piriods are gross and sometimes painfull but guys have pain to the way i see it is BEING A GIRL IS FUN!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

YOU HAVE NO REASON TO BE SCARED! lots of people ask this question, and i have said the same thing in all of them!. u have nothing to be afraid of!. some girls actually enjoy getting the attention from boys when they start to develope breasts!. not me, in my oppinion all boys are pigs!. why would u want ot be one!?! =P =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

You really need to sit down and talk to your mom!. I bet she had a lot to say on the subject!. Your will be yourself, nothing will change you will be a woman!. We all had mis givings about growing up!. We all went though it and we are fine!. Men go though a lot differrent things!. Honestly we have the better deal!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Calm down! it's natural!.!. you won't be in pain!. it's fine!. Just calm down!.!.!. this is life!! you can't change it!. being turned into a guy would mean even MORE changes! changing sexes to not get boobs and periods is dumbWww@Answer-Health@Com

Okay, no wonder your icon looks like a man!. Anyway, i really think you should be happy with what god gave you! Don't change into a man, please men are really weird, But i love em :] yea, and stay a woman cause woman are better! :]Www@Answer-Health@Com

whoa you cant do anything about that!
dont be scared its fine im gonna get my period soon
its fine dont be so scared theres nothing to be scared about
every girl goes through puberty dont be so scared and
go wack!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Christi W - I realize that you are feeling scared!.!.!.it will pass!. Take a deep breath and RELAX!. BILLIONS of women throughout the ages have been 13 and entering puberty and they all survived!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow your crazy!.
i answered your question earlier and!.
WTF!?
you cant get rid of your female parts!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

u should be talking to ur mom or someone u can trust that is an adult, and not be on th internet 4 these types of thingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

talk to ur mom and a therapist you will be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

You know, you can't actually be "turned into a boy"!. For female to male transsexuals the best they can do is remove the breasts and uterus and administer male hormones!. If you're really transsexual then maybe that would be worth it to you, but if you're just scared of things happening to your body then natural growth is going to be a lot easier to handle than a series of operations and a daily regime of hormone medication!.

There's nothing to be scared of with regard to growing breasts!. It's just a part of your body!. You're not scared of getting taller, are you!?

Getting your period can be kind of a hassle, but it isn't really a big deal!. You just have to keep track of when it comes and be sure to keep a couple of pads or tampons in your bag!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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