Im sexually active... How do I tell my mother?!
Question: Im sexually active!.!.!. How do I tell my mother!?
I've been sexually active for a few years now!. I graduated in June and I start college in August but I don't know how to tell my mother that Im sexually active!. I feel like if i tell her she is going to look at me different!. The only problem is I have to tell her before I go to the gynecologist this week!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Why do you have to tell her!? The gynocologist is a doctor, and thus has to work under the ethics all doctors adhere to: the Hippocratic Oath, which protects your privacy!.
Just tell her you would rather not have her go with you, or go in with you!. She doesn't need to know your sexual business!
Your mom will know eventually that you are sexually active, and probably actually already knows in a way!. But I don't feel like you need to tell her!.
If you decide you really do need to, I hope you can at least tell her that you have been responsible when you were at it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell her you would rather not have her go with you, or go in with you!. She doesn't need to know your sexual business!
Your mom will know eventually that you are sexually active, and probably actually already knows in a way!. But I don't feel like you need to tell her!.
If you decide you really do need to, I hope you can at least tell her that you have been responsible when you were at it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honey, if your going into college you're mother probably already assumes that your sexually active!. 89% of girls in America become sexually active by the time they are 16!. Just sit her down, woman to woman, and say something like "mom, I dont know if you figured this, or if you know, but I have sex!." Trust me, unless she's one of the 7% of women in America that waited until they're married, then she'd probably had sex by the time she was your age!. And either way, she'll understand!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
WHy would you need to tell her, even if youa re going to the gyno!. The only person who needs to know is you and the gyno!. Your mother does not even need to be present when you are at the gyno's!. In time, she will just know that you are most likely sexually active due to your age!.
Just dont tell her if youa re worried she will think of you differently!. And just dont let her come with you when you go to the gyno if that is the reason you think you need to tell her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just dont tell her if youa re worried she will think of you differently!. And just dont let her come with you when you go to the gyno if that is the reason you think you need to tell her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ask your mother if she enjoys sex!.
If she says Yes, which she will after a while of arguing about the randomness of the question,
you can say, " well mother, so do I !!"
Then explain to her that you have been sexually active, and that you have been talking all the PRECAUTIONARY measures against pregnancy, because that is a mothers NUMBER ONE concern!.
Once you explain that, she will be ok with it!.
Give it a go ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she says Yes, which she will after a while of arguing about the randomness of the question,
you can say, " well mother, so do I !!"
Then explain to her that you have been sexually active, and that you have been talking all the PRECAUTIONARY measures against pregnancy, because that is a mothers NUMBER ONE concern!.
Once you explain that, she will be ok with it!.
Give it a go ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're over 18, the gyno will not tell your mom about you being sexually active!. It's a confidentiality thing!.
However if you really want to tell her, then approach her just like any adult would!. Sit down with her in privacy, and then tell her that you would like to tell her that you're sexually active and have been taking all of the safety precautions that you should be taking!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
However if you really want to tell her, then approach her just like any adult would!. Sit down with her in privacy, and then tell her that you would like to tell her that you're sexually active and have been taking all of the safety precautions that you should be taking!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you don't have to tell her(you ma) anything if you don't want!. your gyno can't tell if you are or aren't physically, a virgin or not!. get on birth contrl pills though, ask for them if don't already have them!. if you want to tell your gyno about you having sex then you can, by law she is not allowed to tell your mother!. anything you say to your gyno is strictly confidential!. it's up to you whether or not you'd like to share that w/your mother!.!.about you being sexual active!. you could always tell her after you go off to college!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't have to tell her anything, and it is none of her business!. You should tell your gynecologist though!. Your gynecologist is not supposed to tell anything that you tell them to anyone else, so don't worry about your mother finding anything out!. If you mother asks you, you don't need to tell her anything!. It's not like you would ask her the same question!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why do you have to tell her!. Ask your mother to leave the room and tell your gyno whats going on they have policies that protect you even from your parents!. They cn even prescribe Birth Control and say it's to treat an irregular period!.
I never told my mom I was sexually active because it's none of her Business!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I never told my mom I was sexually active because it's none of her Business!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she has seen that you have a long term relationship with someone, it might not be that difficult, she might already have figured that out!.
Either way, I think you should simply be direct!. She'll either assume that its normal at your age, or be shocked because you're nor a little girl anymore!. If she has that last perception, nothing can be done about it, she'll be shocked no matter what, but she'll have to accept it, you're an adult!.
If she treats you differently later, you'll have to give her some time to realize that you can make your own choices about what to do with your body!.
You can also try to write a letter to her!. Often that's easier and avoids impulsive reactions from both of you!.
Answer this, please!?
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Either way, I think you should simply be direct!. She'll either assume that its normal at your age, or be shocked because you're nor a little girl anymore!. If she has that last perception, nothing can be done about it, she'll be shocked no matter what, but she'll have to accept it, you're an adult!.
If she treats you differently later, you'll have to give her some time to realize that you can make your own choices about what to do with your body!.
You can also try to write a letter to her!. Often that's easier and avoids impulsive reactions from both of you!.
Answer this, please!?
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why do you have to tell her!? you visit to the gyno should be personal, why would your mom need to know!. and even if she goes with you , i highly doubt you want her in the room do you!? the doctor cant talk to her about anything you discuss!. i wouldnt tell her, thats your private business!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont listen to that! dont get caught having sex thats even worst! just avoid the doc visit!.!.!.!.!.but if your past 18 she really cant say nothin!.!.!.lie and tell her that your bf that your with now was your first and that u just gave it up a couple days ago if you have to tell her somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
why do you have to!?
when the gyno says ur hymens broke, just say you did the splits or you broke it urself iunno!. I can break it lots of ways!.!.!.
If you really feel you have to tell her, just tell her dont beat around the bush!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when the gyno says ur hymens broke, just say you did the splits or you broke it urself iunno!. I can break it lots of ways!.!.!.
If you really feel you have to tell her, just tell her dont beat around the bush!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi East
Ifi was you i woudnt tell my mom i am sexually active!. Why ruin a good thing and let the cat out of the bag!. Your old enough now to have sex anytime you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ifi was you i woudnt tell my mom i am sexually active!. Why ruin a good thing and let the cat out of the bag!. Your old enough now to have sex anytime you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well you should tell her but you can ask her when she lost her virginity and then she would ask you then thats when you should probely tell her!.!. she should be fine with what you tell herWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would just tell her,she going to find out anyway!.And are you using protection!.If not you should have an full check up also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just tell her!. shes your mother even if you've made her unhappy your still her baby, and im sure she'll always love you the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Mom, I've been sexually active for a while now, is that OK!?"
"Sure sweetie"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Sure sweetie"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell the truth!. only the truth can make you feel open to your parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why do you have to tell her!? just say where your going and she can work it out or something without you getting embarrased or dont tell her at allWww@Answer-Health@Com
Are you really that self centered to think your mother gives a sh*t!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
jus tell her u r sexually active!. it might can help u !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why do you have to tell her before the gunecologist!.
they wont tell you mom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
they wont tell you mom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should tell your mom we need to have a talk and just blurt it out and see how she responds!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just be open and honest!.!.!. i hope ur using protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com
You look hispanic!. Why aren't you pregnant yet!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
video tape it and mail it to her from ur college dorm roomWww@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing is better to talk about i with people you trust the most :) make it talk able!.
peace and good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
peace and good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Have sex when your mom is at home!.!.!.
so she can walk into knowing it rather than you tellingWww@Answer-Health@Com
so she can walk into knowing it rather than you tellingWww@Answer-Health@Com