Questions about first time having sex?!


Question: Questions about first time having sex!?
ok i have a couple questions here!. ok here it goes!. how bad does it hurt!? when ur "cherry pops" how much does it bleed!? im not going to be doing this for a couple weeks, so is there anyway to prepare myself to make sure it doesnt hurt!?

serious answers please i need all the help i can get cuz im quite nervous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Make sure you have lots of privacy for quite a long time (two hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted!.

When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop"!.

Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery!.!.!. a couple of orgasms first will also help your vagina to be stretchier and more insistent on having something inside - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable!.

That lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom!. Yes, the condom!. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"!.

Oral sex is also fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it!. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but it isn't necessary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How old are you!? Please wait to have sex until you are an adult!. You have no idea how many people I know who had sex in high school and sincerely regret it!. Having sex once you truly know who you are makes an incredible difference!.

That being said, the amount pf pain varies for each woman!. You may have barely any pain, moderate pain, or it may hurt like h***!. Also, the amount of blood varies!. Some women actually never bleed at all!. These variations all related to the fact that every woman's body (and "cherry") are different!.

The best way to prepare for your first time is to be completely open and honest with your partner about your fears and insecurities!. Don't do this right before the act, because that probably will kill the mood!. However, you guys should definitely have a heart-to-heart and talk about expectations!. (If you don't feel comfortable doing this, then you should NOT have sex with this person)!.

Also, become aware of your own body before you let someone else!. Don't feel weird or pervy for feeling what you feel like "in there!."

Finally, use lots of lubricant!. My best recommendation: KY liquid (NOT the warming kind)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok yes i know this will sound gross im sorry but i still havent had sex but what i have done is finger my self and i started bleeding and its kinda alot i thought i started my period but i knew it couldnt be it cuz i just got off of it and maybe im hopeing that it wont bleed during the sex!. and it prob wont hurt too much if you finger yourself so you know what it feels like but you dont have to im just trying to give some advice!.!.!.!.sorry if i grossed u outWww@Answer-Health@Com

It stings a little bit, i mean, youre downstairs is stretching!.
Everyone bleeds different amounts, its enough to make a big stain on a sheet!.
If you use tampons, you have already stretched yourself a little bit so that would take away some of the pain, but other then that, there's noway to make sure it doesn't hurt!.
Just make sure you've been with this guy for a while, and you know it will last!. i made the wrong mistake, and i really regret it !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well when i did it i only had a little bit of blood and it didnt hurt cause i was laying on my back and my then bf did all the work i didnt do anything and i only had a pinky size amount of blood maybe even less !. so as long as u lay on your back and let the guy do all the work youll be fine and sometimes if u try to keep stimulating yourself youll be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

advice!.!.!.!.dont have sex till you're married or really ready!.!.!.!.!.!.it ruins your life pretty much =( but, you dont have to listen to me just a tip!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and no you dont bleed (usually) when your "cherry pops" it would hurt though i guess nvr done it just read about it so AGAIN you dun have to listen to me but w/e!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

everyone is different!. some girls, it doesn't hurt at all!. some it is very uncomfortable!. to make it easier, before u have sex, lots of foreplay, nothing rough!. and relax as much as u can!. if u can't relax, then put it off untill u do!. don't do anything ur not comfortable doing!. u won't enjoy itWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey!!

It doesnt hurt, well it didnt hurt for me =] and i dont think you "bleed" the hymen can break or strech! dont be worry its a normal part of life!
And no it doesnt hurt! if you are worried try some lube! its a life saver i did when i first had sex !!!
Gd Luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

you sound too young to even ask this!.!.!.if u dont already know u are not ready!.!.!.think it through !.!.!.it does hurt but it depends on the size and force of the guy!.!.!.tell ur guy to start slow and not to just try to put it in fast!.!.!.it will bleed but not a lot!.!.!.but again it depends on the personWww@Answer-Health@Com

Everyone is different!. That is the first thing you should know!.


No answer is going to help you because we are not you!.



Unless you have been practicing stretching techniques, it will hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, it hurts!. Wait until you are with your husband because you can't take it back and you will ruin your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It didn't really hurt at all however I had used toys before!. I had my first time like 2 weeks ago and I was so nervous!. I suggest you do it somewhere with plenty of space where you won't be caughtWww@Answer-Health@Com

the first time I wanted to cry, But I didn't bleed!. It will hurt the first 3 or 4 time but after that It shouldn't hurt!. If your not married think about waiting till you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

idk i have not had sexWww@Answer-Health@Com





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