Am I being overly sensitive?!


Question: Am I being overly sensitive!?
I hate it when I catch a man staring at my breasts!. They're never on display, always fully covered!. But everytime I catch a man staring at my boobs I feel completely violated, I get this sinking feeling in my stomach and I just want to go home and honestly, I kind of want to cry and I sometimes start getting all shaky!. I'm only 15 and I've had breasts for a few years now, does/did anyone else ever feel this way!? I don't get how some women can wear such revealing tops, not that I think it's wrong, I just could never do that!. I especially hate it when older men stare!. They're not even that big, just B-cups, maybe C-cups Idk I usually wear a sports bra!. Do you like it when guys stare!? ughh this probably sounds realllly stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Why would this sound stupid!? If it makes you feel uncomfortable then that is the way it makes you feel!. And you are entitled to feel that way!.

I think part of it may be the awkwardness of being a teen aged girl!. Body changes during this time can make any girl feel weird, awkward or uncomfortable!.

Boys are boys and look!. They are just that way!. Boys are very visual where women typically are less!.

The next time a guys stares, stare back with a funny look on your face and walk away!. Or ignore it completely and keep on with your day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm almost 14, And I can't fill out a jr!. A cup!. But older guys stare at my butt! I'm 85 pounds and have a nice butt (not to be cocky) and there 16-19 year old guys! They whistle at me too!. I don't think they should be doing it, but it is a compliment!. They can't go up to you and say something nice cause they could go to jail!. So I'm ok with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

aww no no no, its ok to be upset over that, just understand its some thing guys do, theres really not much you could do about, now i don't feel like that, but then again my boobs are kinda small so no guys really starte, but it's okay becasue if thats how you feel then thats how you feel, just dont try to think of it as such a big dealWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah i hate it when guys do that!. Its so ick!! But i've gotten used to it!. I found that it helps if you make light of the situation if you know the guy pretty well!. If any of my guy friends do that i say 'hey! Mary kate and ashely aren't for your eyes!' and laugh and turn away!. But when its an old perve doing it i just turn around from them and pretend to do something else, like text someone or fix my bracelet!.!.!. hope this helps =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

umm i only get that feeling in my stomach when i think of taylor lautner lol sorry i would some more confidence in your coffee in the morning!. jusst think "oh you silly silly male you can look while there covered but then again you'll never see me again!(evil laugh)"Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would have though that at your age, no one should be interested!.

It could be that this is what your believing is happening!.

Older people do not generally like 15 year olds, only other 15 year olds!.

Snow ManWww@Answer-Health@Com

happens all the time tell him to stop
and i have big *** boobs im 15Www@Answer-Health@Com

no that doesn't sound stupid its perfectly OK if your uncomfortable with guys staring at you!.and maybe you should tell them to back of its really rude to just stare at someones breastsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Chances are that some of them aren't staring or even looking at your breasts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

uh yeah kinds sorta sensitive!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think you are being just a tad bit overly sensitive!. i mean yeah ive had my days when it pissed me off when guys were staring ESPECIALLY OLDER MEN! but i mean im a large c-cup so its just something ive learned to deal with!. im only 17 and guys already love them!. i dont always wear revealing tops but i do sometimes especially in the summer when its waaay hot! but i like when guys my age look!. besides big boobs aren't a bad thing!. boys love 'em!. its just something you will have to get used to!. you will have boobs the rest of your life! i will admit tho its creepy when 40 year old men whistle at me!. ughWww@Answer-Health@Com





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