Body Conscience with Boyfriend?!


Question: Body Conscience with Boyfriend!?
Ive started going out with some one for the past few months and we have sex on a regular basis, unfortunatly im a very typical conscience teenager and tend to cover up alot and say No to certain things my boyfriend asks me to do Purley on the basis of how my body looks when in a certain postion!.!.!. last night he told me tht he thought our sex life was limited, which made me upset!.!. we have sex around 3 to 4 times a day and at the most 7 or 8 ! i dont agree that this is limited and when i confronted him about it, he explained that it was our postions that are limited!. Im a very curvaceous girl i have big thighs wide hips, flat stomach and big chested!.!. My boyfriend's ex's have all been under a size 6 or 4 and i am way above that ! im scared that my body wont compare to these girls!.!. some of them are asking him back ! and he's said he's in love with me!.!. but !.!.i need help ! any curvey girls who have been in a similar postion with advice would be deeply apriecated ! Thank you xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Hello there!. I would like to say that i am in exactly the same position as you are!. I am a curvy girl, well i have a bum and hips that are on the large side but i also have a flat stomach!. Unfortunately my boobs arent that big really which is another thing i get insecure about as i dont feel they suit me!. However, me and my boyfriend have sex regularly and our sex life is not limited in the slightest!. I understand your insecurities completely because i feel them too!. Your boyfriend asks you to do something and you immediately think oh no im gonna look huge like that or aghhh i look disgutsing in that position!. Trust me, its all in your head!. I started off exactly the same, i was worried and shy and insecure and would only have sex withthe lights off, but the more my boyfriend told me he cloved how i looked the better it felt!. Your boyfriend does love you and i bet he loves the way you look!. He can see you in clothes, surely he has seen you out of them, im sure he has every idea what you are going to look like in certain positions when he asks you to do them, thats why he is asking you Because he knows he is going to love it!!! Im not saying you shud do everything he asks though, because you should never do something you dont want to do and if your boyfriend has a problem with that then thats him not you!. But dont restrict yourself just because you are worried what you might look like because trust me your boyfriend is fully aware of what you look like and thats why he loves having sex with you, once you do it and realise how much h enjoys it thats the hardest part over! then you can start to enjoy it more too!. Maybe just have a talk with your boyfriend and sort out some sort of meet half way thing, maybe try these things he is sking you to do with the lights off and have some candles or something, candle light is ALWAYS flattering!. Then once you get a little more used to it try it with the lights on!. Trust me, he wouldnt be with you if he didnt love you, all of you!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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fingers!.!. suck on is fingers while rubbing his dinger!.!.

suck on all ten!.!.

he'll me fantisizing you doing it for real!.

when your done with all ten!.!. give him what he wants his fantasy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Relax if he loves you he loves you for you not hoping you look like Twiggy during sex!. Look at Penthouse, you will find that these women are not stick thin high fashion models!. they re curvy rounded women!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Believe me guys are so excited to be having sex that they dont notice our bodies "flaws!." Having curves is great, guys love seeing curves, i doubt his ex had great boobs! Also dont even compare yourself with them, it will drive u insane!. even if you are secure with yourself pondering over your boyfriends ex's will make you feel terrible about yourself, and your relationship!. You have a boyfriend and if he didnt want to see your body he wouldnt have sex with you so many times a day!. If you really feel uncomfortable about it, just TALK to him!. Most guys will listen and understand, but more importantly im sure he will tell you that your body is great and there is nothing you should hide!. If my boyfriend said that to me, id feel more secure because he is the one im concerned about!. good luck and i hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ok, if you guys are having sex 3 to 4 times a day, I dont think you have to worry about what your boyfriend thinks about your body!! He obviously thinks you are attractive and your body turns him on!.
You have a curvy body and guys like that so stop worrying!. Im sure that in the middle of sex he wont be looking at the parts that you are worried about anyway!
Unfortuneatley, as a girl we tend to worry about silly stuff like that, but guys dont!. If you are still not sure, maybe talk to him about it!. Like dont say the things you hate about your body or point them out, but just say you feel self conscience!. Im sure he will say you have nothing to worry about!
Or why not try new positions in darkness or half darkness!? Just until you get used to it!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He loves you for who you are, not for your body type, or maybe he does love you for your body type cause your curvy!. Everyone is going to have things that they dont feel comfortable with but if you learn to love your flaws then he will too!. Nobody is perfect and dont be thinking that his ex's had a better body than you, they sound skin and bones, he wants you cause your all woman, more cushin' for the pushin' rather than a bum made of bones haha
Good Luck and dont be conscious, learn to love your figure!.
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When you and your boyfriend are together in that way, the last thing he is thinking about is how flat your tummy is looking!.

Unfortunately us girls would all like to look like a siren in the bedroom but in reality, we all have bits we hate and would rather hide!.

If you really are only worried about how you look then try to put it out of your mind, go for it and check his reaction - believe me, it wont be one of disgust!.

However, if you just plain dont want to do these things he has asked then dont, its your body and only you can decide what to do with it, no girl should be put under pressure to do things she does not want to do!.

Also, its quality over quantity hun, 7-8 times a day will just get boring, maybe if you slowed up a bit, you might feel more willing to try the things he has suggested!.

From how you have described your body, its sounds fine!. Flat tummy and curves are gorgeous and a lot of guys love a more curvy figure!. My boyfriend much prefers the figures of Jennifer Lopez and Beyonce over Paris Hilton and Victoria Beckham!.

Good luck and i hope you feel better about yourself soon!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm sure you are a beautiful woman!. If your partner really does love you, he will think so too!.

Besides, NO man can honestly say they wouldn't prefer a curvy girl over "bones on legs"!.

Flaunt your body, give him everything you've got! Then tell him to shut his whinging mouth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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