23 year old female, never had an orgasm. whats wrong with me?!
Question: 23 year old female, never had an orgasm!. whats wrong with me!?
i'm 23 and have had a few different, i am unable to experience an orgasm!. This has ruined 3 relationships for me and is currently not helping my current one!. I try to relax, I try not to focus on it , Ive tried to stimulate myself, ive tried the use of toys, nothing works!. I have no sense of stimulation down there, what do i do, my dr!. ignores this and says its all in my head!. Am i crazy!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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you need to find another Dr!. get a good gyn who will listen and not rush you out of the office like some doctors do!. any doctor who says it's in your head is a quack!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your doctor is right!. it is all in your head, and you're not relaxed enough and in the moment enough!. because it has ruined 3 relationships (it really shouldn't be THAT important), you are making it out to be more important than it really is!. try to put the orgasm in perspective and think about what it really is!. it is really just a cherry on top of a wonderful, glorious, heavenly experience!.
try to look into tantric sex, practice having sex for hours without orgasm, removing the focus off it as the end goal and making it instead a fun byproduct!. of course, this would require a very selfless lover, but when you stop thinking and worrying, it'll come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try to look into tantric sex, practice having sex for hours without orgasm, removing the focus off it as the end goal and making it instead a fun byproduct!. of course, this would require a very selfless lover, but when you stop thinking and worrying, it'll come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No you aren't crazy!. Umm, if you aren't sensitive down there, then focus on where you are sensitive!. And use fantasies!. Is there any movie and senerio that makes you slightly hot and bothered!? Practice by yourself!. Umm!.!.!.Also, if you want to you can purchase a book on masturbation from pureromance!.com It shows diagrams and talks about how to stimulate yourself so that you better understand what works for you!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well dont try not to focus on it!. you have to concentrate on it!.!. im not really a expert on this stuff but that usually helps me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com