Im too tight, girls help!?!


Question: Im too tight, girls help!!?
Ive asked a question like this before!.!. but i am too tight!. I cannot fit a tampon in propely it basically just stands in my knickers!. i cant fit my finger up there at all or even find the hole properyl, i know its gross but ive tried with my anal hole too and the same thing really!. nearly everytime i go to the toilet, i sit on the floor with a mirror inbetween my legs and search but ive never been able to manage to get anything up there!. its driving me crazy and even made me cry through stress!. people say when u have sex u become aroused which makes u looser, but i want something to go up there before so i know what its like, and the first time i have sex will be speciall and not ful of worry and panic!. i feel like nothings ever going to go up there, please help me, how to find it or make it looser!. by the way a few times i think i might have found the opening but i put my baby finger to the opening and push and it hurts so much and feels horrible around my finger, and really painfullWww@Answer-Health@Com


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every girl that is tight gets thru it, it will hurt but you get thru it ii promise!.!. just use one finger to masterbate move it around to loosen it up a lil, keep doin that an slip your next finger in its goin to hurt it does just about every girl that is tight ii had tha SAME problem but i kept it up and kept doin it till i worked it in, if you get a guy to do it it will be so hot, you'll hurt some but he will turn you on so much you will look thru it an he'll make you feel so good sorry if its to much lol its just my advise

have fun! seriously lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

tell your mom that your want to use a tampsn because pads smell haha and u feel like your wearing a diaper but since your still a virgin, your too tight and to see what a doctor can do!.!.!.!.your ******* 15 u dont need to know what it feels like or have sex lmaoWww@Answer-Health@Com

it is nothing to be embarssed about tell your mom about your problem, she may have gone through the same thing when she was younger, also if you go to a free public health clinic, they will not be able to tell your parents due to patient doctor privleges!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is going to sound a little weird!.!.!.!.
but it sounds like you're trying to put your finger in your butthole!.!.
um maybe you should look at the anatomy of a vagina so you know you're in the right place!.
http://www!.coolnurse!.com/anatomy!.htmWww@Answer-Health@Com

if you go to a doctor they won't tell your mom!.!.!.it's like against the rules or something!.!.!.you know the "Doctor Code" ;] hahhaha but no, they won't tell!. and wait!. i'm confused!.!.!.you stuck a tampon up your butt!?!? ahaah :]Www@Answer-Health@Com

i dont think thats normal!.!. you should go see a doctor and of couse they have to tell your mum cause your not old enough!.!.!. if you really dont feel comfertable!.!. i think you should use a pad but i think you have to get "checked"!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should wait til you're a little older, unless you plan on having sex soon!.

Dont try anything yourself!. Let an experienced doctor help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

umm try masterbaten with something smaller like a pen but nothen that is solf and will break in u that might cause alot of problems and a bad doctor visitWww@Answer-Health@Com

see a doctor anyway, and make it a female doctor!. But your mum will have to be present!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I dont think thats normal, have you started your period!? Go see your doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

relax do u have a bf cool try 2 do it if it dont work just make outWww@Answer-Health@Com

well a doctor wont tell ur parents because it's confidential!. Stop worrrying about being tight!.!. and jst relaxxxxx!Www@Answer-Health@Com

relax urself fool what is all that u don't have to use tampons use pads it's much more better tampons may make u lose ur hymen and may cause infections if not used in a proper way so u r a virgin and u r 15 years old so u don't have to break ur hymen now let it be with ur husband the one u love when u r arosed u will feel relaxed and ask him to go slow he loves u so he will do it slowly if it hurt he will stop relaxing is the key am 23 and still virgin and never used finger either and getting married soon so am telling u it will be romantic moment to feel love of ur husband when he is doing it slowly and caring for ur feelings u will sure like it it's the sweet pain so don't worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're definitely too young to worry first of all!.

doctors are sworn to full patient confidentiality!.

and that ring you fell is prolly your hymen, its jsut a little flap of skin that protects your insides!. when you DO have sex (hopefully not for at least a couple years, like 18!.!. when its actually legal) that will tear, and it will be painful, but meh, thats your first time, after that it gets better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1) You're doctor can't tell your mother anything you tell him/her not to!.
2) This is normal!.
It takes "stretching"!. I know my answer is frustrating!. I suggest trying to fit a finger tip in and do that until it starts to feel comfortable!. Also have you considered lubricant!? Are you turned on when you try this!. You don't need to be about to have sexual intercourse to loosen up!. You just need to be horny!. Get in the right mood, you'll know you're horny when your vagina feels wet and your nipples will harden!. Just try to go a bit further in with your finger and you'll slowly get more comfortable!. Once you've managed one finger try something slightly larger and work your way to two!. Good luck!. I hope I helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It will change, I was the exact same way til I was about 17!. This may sound weird but actually making yourself put stuff there, massage it, and all that will help!. If you go to a doctor, they legally cannot say anything to your parents unless they have your permission to do so!. Also, a doctor will be able to show you how to put a tampon in and will show you how to make is more comfortable!. All you gotta do is just talk to someone!. And if that's not your mom, any adult that you trust is good!. Friends aren't going to be able to help!. They are your age and may be experiencing the same thing!. Just relax and in time it will get better and not hurt!. But seeing a doctor would be way good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are NEVER too young to go to a doctor for ANYTHING!.!.!.

You may think your too 'young' to get cancer but people under the age of 15 get it all the time!.!.!.

You may think your too "Young" to have sex and get an STD but stupid girls do it all the time!.!.!.

Make an appointment with your general doctor and have him/her consider the situation!.

You never know if there is something actually 'wrong' with you until you have a doctor tell you if you are normal or not!.!.!.

Besides!.!.!. You should have seen an OBGYN (Chick doctor) by 15!.!.!. After your period starts and settles into a pattern, you should go see a gyno!.

MAKE A FREAKING DOCTORS APPOINTMENT!

Tell your mom you think you have a bladder infection or a yeast infection or something like that if you NEED an 'Excuse' to go but you should NEVER NEED an excuse to see a doctor if you are concerned about something!

GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR!

No one on line can tell you if you are normal or not normal or what to do!.!.!. Only a doctor can tell you that honey!

You are 15 years old! You can call up your doctor and make an appointment yourself and you NEVER even need to get your parents involved if they already have your information!!

When you go, if your mom wants to come with!.!.!. Tell her to keep her nosy butt in the waiting room because you are freaking old enough to do this yourself and you don't need her standing there as some doctor looks up your skirt!

YOU ARE ALMOST AN ADULT NOW!

Just do what you have to do!.!.!. Your parents don't need to know or do or see ANYTHING anymore that you don't want them to see!

You can tell your doctor your having sex and they CANNOT TELL YOUR PARENTS WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION!

You could tell them that you are SMOKING CRACK and they can't tell ANYONE that you do not "Ok" it with!

As long as you don't want to kill yourself or kill someone else!.!.!. Doctors are legally held back by your wishes as to what they can and cannot tell ANYONE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to relax and try wetting your finger!. Dont force your finger coz that will hurt!. Just try calming down and relaxing because your muscles tighten up when you dont relax!. Try sort of opening the hole with your finger and thumb and slowly slide a tampon [or your finger if you want to do that first] but stay calm and take deep breaths!. I had this experience when I couldnt put a thin tampon in but I did this and it really helped and I use them all the time now =] also you might not have your 'cherry popped' so it will hurt!. Your 'cherry' can get 'popped' when running, horse riding, by tampons or sex but you probably wont notice when it does!. if you really worried, go to your doctors surgery and ask for a female nurse to check it out!. she will look at you and will see if she can open the hole with a metal thing or her finger [wiith gloves on] but you might not feel confident enough to let someone do that!. btw its the hole at the bottom of your vagina under the skin flaps!. You cant put your finger in the top hole, its your bladder tube!.
other answers:
If you know where you urinate from which is the urethra, then go below that and the vagina is the only hole below it!. My sister had what is called a closed hymen!. There was tissue that grew over the vaginal opening but I don't know if this is your case!. If so, it must be opened!. Tampons are uncomfortable when you are a virgin or not used to wearing them!.
ok this is awkward but it will help u a bit!
from the back move your hand until u pass the anus(butthole) then there is another hole!that is the vagina!i know, its confusing! pee hole is to small to insert one and butthole,well i think that u know where that one is so the only one left is the middle one! hope it helps!
spread the lips of your vagina and look in the mirror!.!. its kinda ovbious!. :) this pic will help : http://hon!.nucleusinc!.com/imagescooked/1!.!.!.
I wrote loads and I really hope this helped because I had this problem and it scared the living hell out of me until I found out how to find it and all that stuff hope it helpedc =]Www@Answer-Health@Com





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