Bloody sex? i need opinions from the guys please.!
Question: Bloody sex!? i need opinions from the guys please!.
my boyfriend and i had sex yesterday and i slightly started my period!. i had no clue that i did but he knew about it, but continued!. it took a loooOOoong time for him to finish and i was begining to question why it took him so long!. as we went to the shower he told me that he thinks i started my period because there was a little blood on him!. i freaked out asking him if he knew this prior to us having sex, he told me he knew from the begining!!!
i was sooooo mad because now i understand why he took so long!. i felt really uncomfortable and mad at him for not telling me!. i think it is a big TURN OFF and i kind of made a big deal about it!. he obviously felt it wasn't that bad that's why he kept going!.
am i wrong to get mad at him for not letting me know!?!?!?
what is everyone's view on having sex during a girls menstrual period!?!?
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i was sooooo mad because now i understand why he took so long!. i felt really uncomfortable and mad at him for not telling me!. i think it is a big TURN OFF and i kind of made a big deal about it!. he obviously felt it wasn't that bad that's why he kept going!.
am i wrong to get mad at him for not letting me know!?!?!?
what is everyone's view on having sex during a girls menstrual period!?!?
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If you are comfortable enough with each other that should be fine!. Some people are more sqeemish then others and it also depends how intimate emotionally you and your partner are!. If you are both extreamly comfortable with each other there should not be a problem!.
Communication is key and if one of you feels uncomfortable then that just doesnt work out!. I think he might have figured you knew!.!.!.and didnt mind!.!. so he didnt mind!.
Sex during your period isn;t disgusting, it's natural!. A woman may actually be the most turned on during this time because of all the hormones and the extra moisture!. Some guys find this sex to actually be VERY pleasurable!. My boyfriend says that it's some of the best sex!. Go figure!.
If you are worried about the mess do it in the shower, If not keep the sex in one position with a towel under you!. New blood comes off quickly off anything if washed right away!.
I think you guys need to talk!.
But if you both want to have sex and you're bleeding, dont let the Taboo turn you off!.
Just do it!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Communication is key and if one of you feels uncomfortable then that just doesnt work out!. I think he might have figured you knew!.!.!.and didnt mind!.!. so he didnt mind!.
Sex during your period isn;t disgusting, it's natural!. A woman may actually be the most turned on during this time because of all the hormones and the extra moisture!. Some guys find this sex to actually be VERY pleasurable!. My boyfriend says that it's some of the best sex!. Go figure!.
If you are worried about the mess do it in the shower, If not keep the sex in one position with a towel under you!. New blood comes off quickly off anything if washed right away!.
I think you guys need to talk!.
But if you both want to have sex and you're bleeding, dont let the Taboo turn you off!.
Just do it!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I mean if its okay with him that's fine!. One of my friends has sex with her period and her bf doesn't mind and she is totally conformable with it!. On the other hand it disgusts me and I don't do it on my week because for me too its a turn off and makes me very self- consus Www@Answer-Health@Com
When I'm on my period, my boyfriend hesitates when it comes to sex!. He'll only do it if we're both really in the mood, otherwise it's just one big mess!. I think it's quite disgusting that your boyfriend did that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am with you, sex on your period isn't very cool!. He definintly should have told you to make sure you were comfortable with it!. The fact he didn't shows he must be pretty selfish and was only worried about one thing at that time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it';s really up to the woman if she wants it to happen and if she's comfortable with it but at the same time i dont think it's something i would ever do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think its nasty and its a turn off just like you , but if the guy doesnt mind then you should just talk to him nicely and tell him how you feel about it !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am a male and i think that is a big turn off, i wouldn't help but think that im hurting my girlfriend if we had sex and that happenedWww@Answer-Health@Com
If your both ok with it , then go ahead and do it!.
for me sex is way better after my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
for me sex is way better after my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im a guy!.!.!. 48 yrs old, married twice, had lots of girlfriends!. In more than 35 years of being sexually active, I've never been the slightest bit bothered by having sex with a woman while she's on her period, and I've only met one woman who was!.
It can be messy, sure!.!.!. but a towel under you and a damp cloth to clean up a bit afterwards (I mean while you're still in bed, not instead of a shower) is all you need to deal with *that* part!.
What's the big deal!? Women spend about 1/6 of the 40 years or so between puberty and menopause menstruating!.!.!. many are actually at their horniest and most responsive then!.!.!. and there's no reason they need to avoid sex for such a huge percentage of their lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It can be messy, sure!.!.!. but a towel under you and a damp cloth to clean up a bit afterwards (I mean while you're still in bed, not instead of a shower) is all you need to deal with *that* part!.
What's the big deal!? Women spend about 1/6 of the 40 years or so between puberty and menopause menstruating!.!.!. many are actually at their horniest and most responsive then!.!.!. and there's no reason they need to avoid sex for such a huge percentage of their lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you sure it was your period!? Sometimes during sex things can happen that will cause some bleeding, even if you've done it multiple times and it's never happened before!.
Either way, he should've told you!. Even if he doesn't care maybe you do, I know when I first start I feel pretty bad and don't want anything, then sometimes a day later I do and my husband is understanding either way(it's just messy! lol)!. My husband says it's not a turn on but it isn't gross either, it's something that can't be helped!. Communication though so he knows that while he may not care, you do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com