My mum has cancer and has 3 to 6 months live help!


Question: My mum has cancer and has 3 to 6 months live help
hi my mum has 3 kids and 2 months ago we where told she has 3 to 6 months and we dont no wat to do so i am hopein that same one nows wat its like if us can get back at me no one knows wat its like ppl always say its goin to be ok but i no its not goin to be i have only had my mum till 8months ago but if any thing happend to her i dont no wat me and my bor and sis would do with out her its hard to think bout wat life would be like with out mum ihas been there thrue evry thing any way thank u Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Hi!. Sorry to hear about your mom!. My mom died of cancer in February!. She took the cemo!. They would not give her radiation because the cancer was already progessed too far!. The only advice I can give you is to be with your mom as much as you can and to help her as much as you can!. Have long talks with your mom and let her know how you are feeling!. Understand that she doesn't want to leave you neither, but that is not our call!. There are probably alot your mom is worried about also, concerning her children!. When my mom was close to dying!.!.!.!.I had asked her one time what she would like!.!.!.she said peace of mind!. Meaning she was worried about things such as!.!.!.who will take care of dad!.!.!.etc!.!.!.!. Try to ease her mind about anything that may be troubling her!. You will feel better and whe will feel better!. Life will go on after your mom passes, but you will miss her and think of her every day!. That is a good thing!.!.!.your mom will not be gone!.!.!.she will be in your heart!. I hope this helps!. Give your mom a hug for me!. Take care and god bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom!. I lost mine to cancer when I was 16, but she didn't know she was sick until a couple weeks before she died, so I haven't had to go through the wait of 3 to 6 months!.

The best thing you can do is to spend as much quality time with your mom as you can!. You can't change what's going on in her body!. Support her, love her, make great memories with her!. You may want to make a home movie with her so you can look back at it!. Tell her often that you love her and cherish this time with her, so when you look back you can have good memories!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just try to be there for your mom!. And make the time she has left memorable!. I don't want to get your hopes up but my fiance's father past away this past February and the doctor gave him 6mo to a year to live in 1980's so try not to think about how much time she has!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm so sorry to hear bout your mom just be there for her and help her out and spend time with her tell her that you love her so much and just do what you need to do!. best of luck!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

im sorry to hear about ur mom !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

but do u know what type of cancer it is!.!.!?

and its never too late to consult other doctors across d world and take their advice !.!.!.!.!.!.

because threr are cases where people r cured of their diseases

best of luk

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I'm sorry to hear about your mom!. Spend as much time with her as possible!. Enjoy every moment you have with her!. It is not her time to go till god says so!. Good luck!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am very sorry!.!.!.!.My mom died last July - and she lived for 6 months from the time we knew she was sick!. We spent everyday and every night together!. We made videos of her talking about my childhood and she even made a video for my wedding day - which I will not see until then!.!.!.

We came to learn that we were very lucky to have that time together - so many people die suddenly or expectantly -- but we had 6 months to grief together - she helped me through the process so much - I was 21 and she was 60!. She gave me advice and all the motherly things she could!.

It meant so much to me to be a part of her care and medical decision making!.!.!.

If I were to do it over I would have taken even more photos and videos!.

The main thing was just to cherish the time we had together!.!.!.!.We did art projects and many talks!.!.!.!.

I miss her so much - but I am doing okay because we had the time to work through it together!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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