Is there something wrong with me? (VERY private question)!
Question: Is there something wrong with me!? (VERY private question)
So!.!.masturbation!. Something natural that most of us do!. However, whenever I attempt it, it doesn't feel good!. And I know it's supposed to, so I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me!.
I'm going to be quite descriptive because I want honest answers!.
When I masturbate, I get this STRONG tingly feeling down there, almost to the point that I feel like I'm going to twitch!. My private are starts to pulse strongly, and I feel like I have to pee badly!. I get strong, stingy shivers!. Is that what I'm suppose to feel or am I touching the wrong areas!?
Help please!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm going to be quite descriptive because I want honest answers!.
When I masturbate, I get this STRONG tingly feeling down there, almost to the point that I feel like I'm going to twitch!. My private are starts to pulse strongly, and I feel like I have to pee badly!. I get strong, stingy shivers!. Is that what I'm suppose to feel or am I touching the wrong areas!?
Help please!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well, There are several variables as to why you feel the way you do!. First off the strong pulse, and twitching are very normal!. Stingy shivers!? I have never heard of this, but I guess it depends on where you touch!. Also, I would assume age and your sexual experience would play a factor in this!. My 3 recommendations are as follows:
1!.) Take a mirror and look at your vaginal area, find the clitoris!. Every woman is different!. Some have their clitoris on the outside of the vagina, and some inside!. It is normal Either way!.
2!.) Get a vibrator, or any sex toy!. They usually come with easy to follow instructions!. This will allow you know exactly what you are doing!.
3!.) If you use your fingers, try rubbing next to, or on the clitoris!. Do this in a circular motion, and remember to cut your nails!.
Also, here is a link that can help you with techniques!. Hope this helps!.
http://www!.enoma!.org/r/1/55!.htm
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1!.) Take a mirror and look at your vaginal area, find the clitoris!. Every woman is different!. Some have their clitoris on the outside of the vagina, and some inside!. It is normal Either way!.
2!.) Get a vibrator, or any sex toy!. They usually come with easy to follow instructions!. This will allow you know exactly what you are doing!.
3!.) If you use your fingers, try rubbing next to, or on the clitoris!. Do this in a circular motion, and remember to cut your nails!.
Also, here is a link that can help you with techniques!. Hope this helps!.
http://www!.enoma!.org/r/1/55!.htm
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You are right, this is very personal!.
Your answer to, " Is that what I'm suppose to feel!?" lies in the question, how does what you're doing make you feel!?
It also depends on what you are trying to achieve!. Most people masturbate to relieve sexual tension or to give themselves pleasure in general!.
If what you described is pleasureable to you then I'd say that is what you're supposed to feel!. If it is painful and you wanted to feel pain, then that's what you're supposed to feel!. Guilt!? Shame!? Diversion!? It is very personal!.
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Your answer to, " Is that what I'm suppose to feel!?" lies in the question, how does what you're doing make you feel!?
It also depends on what you are trying to achieve!. Most people masturbate to relieve sexual tension or to give themselves pleasure in general!.
If what you described is pleasureable to you then I'd say that is what you're supposed to feel!. If it is painful and you wanted to feel pain, then that's what you're supposed to feel!. Guilt!? Shame!? Diversion!? It is very personal!.
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That tingly feeling you get and then feel like you're going to pee is right before you're going to ejaculate!. Yes, women can do it and I've been told that's what it feels like when you're about to ***!. Seeing it first I hand, I know they convulse and it starts pumping vigourously before they ***!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, i can't tell you about the feeling issues !.!.!.cause I'm a guy!.
But I can say most masterbate out of compulsion!.!.!.and therefore!.!.!.neccesity!.
It appears the "urge" here is not quite the same and that may be an issue!. Coing it just to do it!.!.!.and doing it because you simply must may make all the difference in the world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But I can say most masterbate out of compulsion!.!.!.and therefore!.!.!.neccesity!.
It appears the "urge" here is not quite the same and that may be an issue!. Coing it just to do it!.!.!.and doing it because you simply must may make all the difference in the world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is what you are suppose to feel!. Masturbation is suppose to work you up to a orgasism and that is how it bulids and then it releases!. You might not like doing it to yourslef and that does not make you not normal!. I won't do it myself either!. Honestly I only have a guy do it!. Everyone is different!. What is good for one person is terrible for the next!.
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That's ok, but it might not be quite what you want!. Experiment with different ways to touch yourself, hump stuff, or insert things and find out what feels good!. Be sure to clean anything you put on or in yourself with soap and warm water before and after!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you using anything to make it feel like that!? it seems to be that you might be a little rough or maybe thats the way it should feel for you its diff in everybody dont worry!Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's totally normal your probably just not Used to itWww@Answer-Health@Com
you just dont like the feeling but that is want your supposed to feel basicallyWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think alot of horny guys are going to read this and jerk off!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
thats about what you're supposed to feel Www@Answer-Health@Com
that sounds right youll feel like you have to pee before you get offWww@Answer-Health@Com
get a hack saw and ur problems are solved just be creative
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I didn't masturbate for the longest time, and there are a lot of people that never do!. Heck, you've done a better job than I ever did for myself haha!. I just couldn't make it work, I think because I felt "wrong" doing it!. I was raised in a Catholic house, though!. Not to bump anyone's religion, but I think that did affect how I felt about masturbation!.
The best way for me to get an orgasm on my own is to hump something, like a rolled up blanket!. I don't know why it works, but it does!. You just move your hips and put pressure on the blanket until you find a way that feels good, and then keep going!. That method has always worked better for me than using fingers!. If you really just want to use your hands, I would say try experimenting with the clitoris!. It is amazing how many women have trouble orgasming unless the clitoris is involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best way for me to get an orgasm on my own is to hump something, like a rolled up blanket!. I don't know why it works, but it does!. You just move your hips and put pressure on the blanket until you find a way that feels good, and then keep going!. That method has always worked better for me than using fingers!. If you really just want to use your hands, I would say try experimenting with the clitoris!. It is amazing how many women have trouble orgasming unless the clitoris is involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com