I was raped when i was small and now i feel really bad~!


Question: I was raped when i was small and now i feel really bad~
i got raped like 2 years ago!.!.!. and rightz now i'm 13, i realised the effects are actually happening now, i'm feeling bad now when i didn't feel so bad before!.!.!. i really hate that person and i see them like heaps on times!.!.!.!. and i'm angry at him cuz he still treats me like really badly like dirt after he did that to me and he's not even one bit sorry for what he did and he doesn't even care~!.!.!.!. what should i do, i feel really bad~Www@Answer-Health@Com


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ur right none of us understand how ur feeling!. its even hard cause he is ur relative and well it will hurt your familly, but think of it this way rapist never stop at one, once theyve tried that the chances are they will do it again!. so think deaply about the pain and anger ur feeling do u really want another person to feel that way and if he did that knowing ur related then chances are he will rape another member of ur familly!. Do u really want another person u love to get hurt like u did,

my advice is tell your parents and stop him from raping another person, dont be scared and dont think that about what others will think, be brave not only for u but for the future victims of him, take a decition and tell us i know theirs not much any one of us can say to u but if u want to talk:

gamidence92@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

First, you need to speak with a trusted friend, family member, school counselor or teacher about how you're feeling!. These feelings can get worse if you don't deal with them now!. You have to confront how you feel, even if you can't confront the person you did this to you!. Stay as far away from this person as you can!. If this is someone you see on a regular basis, then you may want to think about telling someone what happened!. Don't be afraid to do this!. He shouldn't be allowed to walk around free while you're suffering!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweetie, I don't know your religion, or even if you have one, but like I was saying, the only way I have found relief from anything and everything is take it to God!. My house caught on fire last October and I was the only one home and it was my room that caught first!. So I felt really bad of my own accord because I thought it must have been my fault for leaving something on or something, and to top it off, all my family were picking on me saying that it was my fault!. They didn't know that it was hurting me but it really was!. The only way I found relief was through God!. Help yourself to a dose!. He's always there and He never runs out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please tell your mom or dad or any other adult you trust about this if your have not already!. you shouldnt have to live in any kind of fear because this Wasnt your fault!. I am sure he is acting that way because he is using that attitude and intimidation to bully you into not telling!. dont let him do that, stop him by telling!. i know it may be hard now, but think of how relieved you will be when you see that he wont be able to do anything to you anymore!. it WILL feel better to not have to worry anymore!. and it may not seem that way now, but i am sure your parents and family will see where the blame truely lies, Please tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can talk to your mother about it, see what she says!.
If she isn't supportive, then go to the school counsellor!.
Post traumatic syndrome is when you have flashbacks of the abuse!.
That is hard to deal with, and then you have to see this person as well!.
I think you shouldn't have to have any contact with this person!.
As I don't know all the facts I wouldn't like to advise anything else!.
Take up the issue with your mother and school counsellor!.
Best wishes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would talk with the school counselor!. They are there to help!. That is their job!. You can go into their office and say that you have something important to tell them!. Get an adult on your side so they can help you!. You shouldn't have to deal with this on your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is very disturbing!.!.!.plz tell someone you trust, this person needs to be in gaol, or at least out of your life permanently!.!.!.!.!.!.and you need counselling to get your life back!.

A relative or stranger or neighbour!.!.!.does not matter, he is evil!.!.!.tell someone!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think your need to talk to someone that is close to you, and see what they think!. but you should definitally get the police involved because rape is a crime!.

or give me that ****ers address so i can teach him a lessonWww@Answer-Health@Com

its ok if he's your reletive
just call the cops (911)
just do it!.!.!.
dont ruin your childhood while you can save it frm being distroyed
pls!.!.this is will majorly affect u when ur older!.!.!.
do it as soon as possible!.!.
and DONT BE AFRAID!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

call the cops put him in jailWww@Answer-Health@Com

how come he's not in jailWww@Answer-Health@Com





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