Help....please? i dont know what to do.!


Question: Help!.!.!.!.please!? i dont know what to do!.
ok!.!.!.so i have hair down there and my bf wants to have sex but we are only 13 years old and i don't know if i should shave down there or not to!. I have been trying to postpone the sex!. i need to know if you are supposed to shave before you have sex or do you just keep it as it is!. I'm really scared because i don't want him to think i am gross if i don't shave!. What should i do!? Please help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Who cares what he thinks!. Why don't you start listening to what you think!. What I hear you saying is that you are postponing sex, which to me says you aren't sure you are ready to!. You should listen to your voice on that one!.

Shaving is a personal choice and there is no right or wrong answer!. There is nothing wrong with keeping pubic hair, shaving it or trimming it!. It should be your choice and based on what makes YOU happy!.

If you are going to have sex you should spend more time thinking about birth control and STI prevention!. You might think about the consequences to sex, not just pregnancy and STIs but also how it will change your relationship (it will) and what you will feel like when people find out (because they will)!. You need to do what is best for you, not him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most girls are shaved or trimmed for their first time - but they are usually 14 or older as well!. If you don't want to shave, try trimming!. If that isnt good either, then leave it as is!. He wants sex, and he probably doesn't care too much either way about the hair!. It won't make a big difference to how it feels for either of you!.

Please do make sure you use protection so you don't get pregnant!. And, relax and try to enjoy - if you are sure you are ready then go for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with everyone else that says you are too young!. Please, please think about what would happen after! Getting pregnant would be bad, but so would all of the emotional things that happen after sex!. First times can be painful especially if its his first time too and he doesn't know what he's doing!.

Trust yourself when you think you aren't ready!. And if he pressures you, its really not worth having a boyfriend if he pushes you into things you're not ready to do!.

Also, on shaving, the skin there is very sensitive! You could get shaving bumps or a rash and that would probably look worse than hair!. But please, at least use condoms or WAIT WAIT WAIT to have sex until you find someone you love and not just like a whole lot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX! TELL HIM NO IF YOU DON'T WANT IT! IF HE GETS MAD OR DUMPS YOU, HE'S NOT WORTH YOUR TIME OR DATING HIM!

You really shouldn't shave the pubic hair because it protects your vagina from infection and bacteria!. Also, if a guy doesn't like the pubic hair and makes a big deal out of it, he's an immature baby who isn't worth your time either!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are too young to be having sex!. And a person who thinks pubic hair is gross is too immature too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dear dont have sex, you are not ready to do that with anyone your not ready and you will regret it honey!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok!.!. well first!.!.
ur 13! wow!.!.!.!.!. thats a little early to hav sex
n i guess!.!.!.u should shave!.!.!.!.
cuz he'll get u into it sumtime!!!
SO YA< BE PREPARED!Www@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories