What to do when you dont shave ? Help ?!


Question: What to do when you dont shave !? Help !?
Hm,Okay so im in 9th grade, & i've been a little shy to show my legs !.!.!. because there "hairy" and stuff!. im starting P!.E!. this tuesday , one of the things i'm worried about is if people will be looking at my legs!. the P!.E!. shorts show from the bottom of your knee down !. I feel that if i dont shave people will be talking about me!. But if i do shave i feel way better about myself!. And i mostly wear long pants to school!.

My mom found out that i was shaving my legs !. I started shaving at the end of 7th grade & she found out at the beggining of the 8th grade!.
It's kinda ovious that i shaved my legs beacuse i "accidentally" left the razor out of the bathroom counter!. I still shave like once in a while so that my mom kinda doesnt figure it out!. This is alot to say just to ask a silly question!.

If we were friends would you still be my friend if i DIDNT shave !?
What would you do if you were in my "shoes" !?

No, i can't just tell her "im shaving my legs deal with it" !.
i would get slaps, for talking back!.

I hope you understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You have a few options!. You can buy a home waxing kit, and wax while she's away, and for a month or so your legs will be smooth!. You can shave and lie to her (I did that for a few years)!. Or you can sit down and talk to her!. Does she shave!? Why is she upset with you shaving!? My mom didn't want my hair to get darker, I explained that research proved that wasn't true, then showed her the articles!. She let me shave after that!. You can tell her that the hair bothers you and itches under your clothes, makes you self-conscious and you would like to remove it!. Or you can not do anything, leave it as is, and if anyone asks say you believe that natural is beautiful!.

I personally suggest talking to your mother since you're in high school now and she might let you start shaving!. Also the way I got away with it is I had a razor for shaving under my arms!.!.!. armpit hair, eww!.!.!. and I used it to shave my legs too, and my mom didn't notice!. I just always wore pants around her!.

It's no big deal though, there were a few girls who didn't shave all through high school, nobody thought anything of it!. Good luck, and don't worry, worst case is you start shaving when you get to college, no biggie!

Oh and sweet name :) LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com

You should be able to, thats BS!.
But i WAS in your shoes, and i've been friends with people in your shoes!. Talk to your mam about it and say you are self concious and stuff!. She'll understand!. And if she doesnt, just do it in secret!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I doubt people would care that you didn't shave!. A lot of people in your PE class probably don't shave at all!.
Try to get your mom to let you shave if you really feel that conscious

I would still be your friend, I wouldn't even care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i don't no about bein ur friend or nothing but i am going in2 10th grade and i dont no any girl that doesnt shave there legs!. Unless ur moms like a mountian women, i think that if ur legs r harry then u should b able 2 shve them duh!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know you but i would still be your friend even though you don't shave your legs!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

shave your legs anyway, your mom will get use to it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk your mom how you feel, and see what she says,

i doubt she would mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Of course i'd still talk to you! You're only young, and i bet the hairs are barely there! Wait until you do start shaving though! You'll end up with thicker hairs,more noticiable!. I just laugh it off, every girl gets them! You are fine just now! Don't let it bother you, when every other girl in the world has them too! You don't see theirs getting you down!

Maybe your mom is worried about you using blades!. Would she let you use creams instead!? Www@Answer-Health@Com

i dont really care if my friends shave there legs or not thats not why i make friends with them i like my friends for there personality!. you could sit your mother down and explane to her your delema (if kids make fun of you) and try to be as respectful as posable!. but from my experiens in the locker room girls will feel there legs and be like ew i need to shave im prickly and then laugh it off!. so they probably wont care!. i wouldnt let them get too long though!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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