Problems With Getting in the Mood!
Question: Problems With Getting in the Mood
Okay so I've been on the pill for about 3 years and before that, I used to become aroused very easily!. Now it's REALLY hard for me to unless I'm on my own and that's difficult sometimes too!. I still find my boyfriend attractive but I generally find the whole look of a naked girl much more arousing!. Like, for example, I love my boyfriend's body but it doesn't make me feel!.!.!.sexual, nor does any male!. But women do!. I'm not gay, seriously!. I honestly think it's just because the idea of girls seems really forbidden, naughty, and therefore arouses me MUCH more!. Also, the pill, as I mentioned earlier, has hormones that tend to lower your sex drive - which def!. has happened because before this, everything would make me h!.o!.r!.n!.y!.
I'm also not comfortable with like, thinking about girls during foreplay with my boyfriend!. I think that's mean!.
Is there anything I can do to maybe make myself less nervous or does anyone have any techniques they use!.
Also, does anyone relate!? Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm also not comfortable with like, thinking about girls during foreplay with my boyfriend!. I think that's mean!.
Is there anything I can do to maybe make myself less nervous or does anyone have any techniques they use!.
Also, does anyone relate!? Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Its natural of women thinking of women sexually, even if they are straight, but we are portrayed as sexual beings with sensual bodies!. So, don't worry about it, most women feel the same!. I do and I'm straight!.
The main thing to get aroused is not to think too much about anything else other than sex, and whats happening then and there at that moment!. Also, foreplay is a great way to start up your systems to be sexually ready to perform sex (which is the key)!. During foreplay!.!.!. (1) What gets me 'going' is telling my partner to resist which will make you want him more!. (2) Another thing is we talk dirty (3) and we blindfold one another and the blindfold person can lick and determine what is being presented above his/her mouth!.!.!. just be adventurous and maybe things will get better for you
What got me was you thinking about women during foreplay, maybe your bi-sexual/bi-curious!. I'm not sure or maybe its the pills >!.<
I hope I helped you =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
The main thing to get aroused is not to think too much about anything else other than sex, and whats happening then and there at that moment!. Also, foreplay is a great way to start up your systems to be sexually ready to perform sex (which is the key)!. During foreplay!.!.!. (1) What gets me 'going' is telling my partner to resist which will make you want him more!. (2) Another thing is we talk dirty (3) and we blindfold one another and the blindfold person can lick and determine what is being presented above his/her mouth!.!.!. just be adventurous and maybe things will get better for you
What got me was you thinking about women during foreplay, maybe your bi-sexual/bi-curious!. I'm not sure or maybe its the pills >!.<
I hope I helped you =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
based on you question, you have "bi tendencies" , only solution I have is to try a three way with your guy and either one of his/you girlfriends!.!.!.!.have fun, and hey, be carefull out there!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur not gay ,thats true ur bi!.!. why dont u tell ur boyfreind and include it in your sex life u might be surprised how it helps turn u on during ur sex lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
watch porn, masterbateWww@Answer-Health@Com
look at your self in the mirror (( nude)) it will help you get arousedWww@Answer-Health@Com