I Want a Bra But Cant Tell My Mum !!!!


Question: I Want a Bra But Cant Tell My Mum !!!
All of my friends wear a bra even my mate and she is 10 !!
im 13 and im a indian i really want one and it is so imbarssing!
i meen everyone wearss one and even sometimes the boys in my school go to me oh haha u dont wear a bra !! i am always so sad always thinking i need a bra i want one ! i just dont have a simple mum !. i thought everything would be alright but it isent !. i am very rich and stuff and i got whatever i wanted but not bra !!:@
how shall i ask her i meen i asked her once and she a indian mum and she like ovisously going to say no becasue everyone is going to be like omg your daughter wears a bra and stuff and it more embrassing when my big brother sees it in the washing pile !!
PLEASE COMMENT
I REALLY NEED HELP
I always try to tell but i cant Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
well i would just go to the store with her and sort of lead her to the bras and be like mom can i get one cause i think i need one!.!. im shure she will understand! good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The next time you are in a store (preferably without yur brother) ask her if you can get aa few, try to do it when she is in a good mood!. I know it is easier said than done but trust me if people can tell you dont wear one, especially guys, you probably need one!. tell her kids make fun of you and stuff, she was a teen to so maybe she'll pick up on that!.!.!.
good luck
emily Www@Answer-Health@Com

if your so rich go out and buy ur own bra!.
if you dont know ur size go to victoria secret or something they give you free measurings!.!.
and if your mate even has bras go with her mom and ask her if ur so scared to ask urs!.!.
but i say tell your mom look i sersiouly need a bra because i'm getting older now!.
but wow when i was 13 i was a size that if i didnt have a bra that would of done major damange to everyone!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to ask your mom!. Just say "mom can I talk too you about something sorta serious!?" "I really think I should start wearing a bra becuase people at school are noticing I dont and they make fun of me and I think i would be better off with one!. So please mom!" And hopefully shell say yes to that!. I know its gunna be hard but every girl has to ask her mom for one!. Iff not ask a friend for one of thier old ones!?!?hope i helped good luck!.xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell her, you want a bra!. Stop freaking out about it!. It is not that big of a deal!. Your mother has bras and know what you are going through!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

next time you go to the store with your mom!.
just take a bra and say you need it really bad!.!.!.

trust me its not that embarrassing!.!.

or go buy one without your mom!.!.

thats what i did the on my first bra!.!.

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was it necessary to tell us ur rich i dont think so!.!
but just tell her she is a girl she will understand just say mon i need some under garments answer my question
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just go out and buy one!.

Or talk to her and tell her you do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just tell your mom you really need a bra you're getting to the age when you really need 1Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you're so rich, why dont you get typing lessons!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unless you do your own laundry, you have to tell your mom!. If you just go out and buy a bra on your own, not only will it be seen in the wash but she will also be able to tell by looking at you that you're wearing a bra!. Maybe when you asked her about it before, she thought you were too young!. Now, you're older!.

Also, I don't know if you wear traditional Indian clothing or regular clothing!. With regular clothing that is tighter and more revealing of the body, I would think that your mom would rather you be wearing a bra than showing the outline of your breasts in sweaters, etc!.

As her again and let her know that you're embarrassed because you feel piggy not wearing a bra!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok so I'm not Indian but i was in the same position as you and I was totally freaking out!. But eventually i just plucked up enough courage to talk to her about it, I didnt actually say, I want a bra!. I just said "Mum i think I need something like a bra because my nipples keep showing through my top and it is making me really self-concious!." then if all goes to plan she will take you out and buy like a crop top or she will just take you out shopping and you can point at a crop top, sports bra type thing and say you want it!. After this you will be half way!. Then you buy a small unpadded bra and when you get back tell your mum you brought it!. I reccomend first trying on a 28AA first, if the actuall bit that goes over your boobs is to big then find a AAA, if it is too small then find an A, then a B, then a C!.!.!. if the bit with the clasp on that goes round your back is to tight then first change the way you do the clasp and then if it is still to tight try a 30!. then 32, then 34, these only have even numbers starting at 28!. you will most likely be around a 30 AA thats what I was!. Or if you feel very brave you could ask to be measured, if so be wearing a tight top so they dont ask you to take it off! wear a few of them and then if the people in your school start giving you greif because even though you wear a bra your boobs still look small then buy a padded or push up bra, your mum is a girl to, she wont say anything!.
Hope I helped
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well, what i did was!.
i bought my own bra a few weeks before christmas and washed it myself, but didnt wear it around my mum!.
then after christmas when she found it in the wash i told her that it was a present from my friend!.
she seemed to be fine with it!.
then i went shopping and was showing her what i bought and said "i really needed a white bra, cause the other one is pink and it might show up if i had a white top or something!."
it REALLY isnt that bad saying that to your mum^

if you do that then you wont be asking your mum for one, just say your friend got you it!.
i hope i helped:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well!. Ask her is the simplest way!. Or go to the mall together and look at clothes In different places!. when its time to check out have a pair of jeans, a couple shirts and a bra!. Don't show it to her till its at the register!. Then see what happens!. Another way os on the weekends where a really tight shirt ( that still fits you ) so your nipples show through big time!. The she might say I need to get you a bra!. If that doesn't work you may just have to buy one with your own money and wash it by hand!. I don't think you would be able to hide it!. But maybe you could keep it in your back pack and put it on at school!? I hope i helped you!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Really, getting a bra is not all that big a deal as you make it out to be!. If you feel you need one, then get one!. There's no need to be ashamed, after all, your mom has lived through puberty once too!. Just wait until you are alone with your mom and have her full attention!. Then, ask her nicely if she would take you shopping to buy a bra for you because you feel the time has come that you need one!. If she says no, It's probably because she has a hard time realizing that her little girl is growing up!. If this happens, ask again in a few days time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if your bro sees it so what you need one at some point and he'll probably think its your moms or just do the laundry your mom will think your being responsible and that will give you a boost when you ask her now what you do is say can we go upstairs i halft to talk to you inprivate you go in the room and ask her to sit then say ill be right back now this will soun d weird but it is like the only way to get her to say yes is go in the bathroom take your shirt off so there is nothing on your boobstake atowel and wrait around your top part then go in the room with your momlock the door go in front of her and drop the towel say my look my boobs are big enough now to get a bra now she will let you get one because you showed her alot of courage showing her your boobsWww@Answer-Health@Com





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