Repeat question. Can someone tell me how to get my sexual drive back?!
Question: Repeat question!. Can someone tell me how to get my sexual drive back!?
I asked this question before and didn't get that many response so decided to post it again!.
I really don't know what is wrong with me!. Every since I had my last child (which was 2 years ago), I have had no sex drive!. Once in a blue moon I want to have sex, but most of the time, I feel too tired or I am not interested!. It is really hurting my husband, and I think he believes I may be having an affair or I do not love him anymore!. Neither is true, but I can't convince him of this!. He is my best friend in the world, and I know he is going to stick through me with this, but I want for him to be happy!. I am a full time grad student, and his job doesn't have insurance so I can't afford going to the doctor at this time!. Are there any home remedies or techniques I can try to help with this problem!? I don't with hold sex from my husband!. We have sex on a regular basis, but I usually just want him to hurry up and finish!. I don't want him to touch me in private areas (for some reason this has always bothered me)!. I am very interested in other women (or men for that matter) who have had the same experience!. Any help will be appreciated, however!.
BTW: We have had 4 children, and we have been married for 10 years!.
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I really don't know what is wrong with me!. Every since I had my last child (which was 2 years ago), I have had no sex drive!. Once in a blue moon I want to have sex, but most of the time, I feel too tired or I am not interested!. It is really hurting my husband, and I think he believes I may be having an affair or I do not love him anymore!. Neither is true, but I can't convince him of this!. He is my best friend in the world, and I know he is going to stick through me with this, but I want for him to be happy!. I am a full time grad student, and his job doesn't have insurance so I can't afford going to the doctor at this time!. Are there any home remedies or techniques I can try to help with this problem!? I don't with hold sex from my husband!. We have sex on a regular basis, but I usually just want him to hurry up and finish!. I don't want him to touch me in private areas (for some reason this has always bothered me)!. I am very interested in other women (or men for that matter) who have had the same experience!. Any help will be appreciated, however!.
BTW: We have had 4 children, and we have been married for 10 years!.
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Answers:
I think this is very normal!. You probably feel self conscious after having children (I know I do) and you are so used to listening for sounds, wondering when they'll wake up or even if they're asleep!. There are so many things running through your head- is the laundry done, do I have supper supplies for tomorrow, what time do they need to get up, etc!.
I would recommend asking your parents or in-laws to take your children for the weekend and have an adults-only weekend!. Get some wine or champagne to help you relax and let things build up!. Start snuggling and teasing in the morning but don't allow yourself to give in to his wants or needs until the evening!. Dress up and go out for dinner and a movie, making sure that you remind each other what will happen when you get home!.
Good luck!
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I would recommend asking your parents or in-laws to take your children for the weekend and have an adults-only weekend!. Get some wine or champagne to help you relax and let things build up!. Start snuggling and teasing in the morning but don't allow yourself to give in to his wants or needs until the evening!. Dress up and go out for dinner and a movie, making sure that you remind each other what will happen when you get home!.
Good luck!
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