Why are most girls loosing their virginites at 13, 14 and 15?!


Question: Why are most girls loosing their virginites at 13, 14 and 15!?
I dont get it!. Why do girls have to just open their legs to a guy!? I mean they say that "its love" and thats total bullcrap!. I mean I'm 14 and I'd never have sex at this age!. And if I'm willing to respect myself why cant all these other girls do it too!? Later on they regret it and they should have thought about it before!.

And why do boys always look at girls like WE'RE ALL hoes!. Like they think they have so much power over us and stuff and get anything ughh gets me so mad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Ahh I'm 15 and I totally agree with you!! I'm waiting till at least college, but I'm sure it'll end up being to marriage (I can't commit to dying my hair yet, so I don't even want to think about sex!.) It's ridiculous at our age sex should be seen as something you do when you are older!. Kids are having kids now!. It's totally dumb!. Most of the guys at my school are like that!. They'll walk up to me and say stupid stuff about having sex and treat me like I'm like all the other Whores at my school, but I'm not!. It's just so dumb!. The virginal people need to stick together lol that's my conclusion!. Haha!.!.!.(I hope this made you smile!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm sure not "most" girls that age have done that, but I see your point!. I have an 11-year-old sister, and I could NOT imagine her doing that in a few years!.

I lost mine recently (I'm 23)!. I could not imagine doing that at a younger age!. I am glad I waited because it was with someone I care about, trust, and that I could be with in the long haul, and plus I was fully aware of the experience!. It was a very good experience because it was done primarily out of caring and not just curiousity!. At 13-15, one could not possibly have that same feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most!?

I'm sure you're being quite generous with your language!.

For your information, I'd say girls who do that have a need for attention!. Many of them may have traumatic backgrounds, like childhood abuse or something along those lines!.


Grow up, learn some stuff, and maybe you'll learn that 1) Not many girls actually do that stuff at such a young age and 2) Boys don't always look at girls like you described!.

Meanwhile, I'm proud that you don't give up yourself so easily!.
Just don't turn into some sort of ultra-feministic men-hater!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I believe you answered your second question with the first part of your posting!. The reason guys tend to look at all girls as hoes is b/c most girls are giving away the goods!. This is an epidemic that shows little sign of slowing down!. The good news is that recent studies show that since 1995, more teens between 13 and 18 are saying they have not had sex (percentage wise of course)!. Now, this could be totally bogus b/c teens tend to lie about such things even when they are asked anonymously for whatever reason!. But, if you hold off on the having sex, you will demand guys' respect!. When you look back, you'll be proud of yourself for not giving into peer pressure!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know,, its absolutely ridiculous!. i believe it has a lot to do with the lifestyle people are living now the way they spoil there children!.!. by seeing 5 year olds having pedicures and shampoo and blowdries!.!. im a hairdresser and it outrages me! I read an article saying it is a pure result of parents spoiling children therefore have nothing else to look forward so sex is the next thing they havent yet done!.!. its so disgusting to think these are still children! Alot of parents need to wake up!.!. coz what sort of parent allows there children to be out and about having sex at an early age!.!. BAD PARENTING!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well i am 16 and me and my girlfriend have been together since we were 13 and we have been having sexual contact since then we are really in love and we plan on spending the rest of our lives together!.!.!.!.!.!.and i don't see any girl has a hoe or a **** we are all equal no matter what gender
If you have had sex thats just it you have had sex thats it it's not a big deal aslong as its safe sex unless you want to have kids!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because the world's turned into ****, and its becoming okay for younger girls to engage in sexual intercourse, morals don't exist, parents quit caring, and young women have no respect for themselves!. Plus, the media isn't setting the best example!. Its the "cool" thing to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i agree! i mean i went to a boy scout camp with my brother my mom and some of his friends and an all girl troop cam by and they started making whooping and hollering at them then they kept saying "that's what she said" i found it offensive!. and they laughed at me!.!.!.i'm like in my mind what the hell!?!?

my friend wanted me to host an orgy at my house because my family was in new york and i live in texas and she was talking to one of her friends on the phone and they were laughting cuz i was a vigin!. that made me mad !.

i think we should talk more =D

morgjil@yahoo!.com

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yeah i totally agree with u!.!.!.!.im 15!.!.!.!.waiting for love or w!.e!.!.!.!.!.havent done much except for make out and i no alot of gurls who are younger and desperatly want to loose it!.!.!.!.!.i think its terrible!.!.!.!.and guys shuld respect gurls way more but when most of them are after sex they 4get about respect!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i hate sluts!.!.!.!.but w!.e!.s they can do what they want p!.s!. (im good looking!.!.!.!.so its not like icouldnt get n e)Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's virginity, not virginites!. I agree, but think to a hundred years ago, girls were getting married and having kids at the age of 14!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Girls who loose there virginity at that age are just stupid, irresponsible and totally off there head!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

they just want to know whats its like

and guys are just perverts so live with it

if anyone has more questions just come ask meWww@Answer-Health@Com

not all girls who lose it young regret it!.
i lost mine at 15 and i've been with the same guy ever since!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Though i'm a guy, but i'm also agree with you!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its because of stupid sluts like mylie cyrus or what ever her name is, kids keep your damn legs shutWww@Answer-Health@Com

I treat every individual as equal!. And I don't think all girls are hoes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honestly, I'm 15 and am not a virgin!. I am together with my boyfriend of 7 months so far and we had most of our firsts [only leaving out kissing] together!. We are in fact, in love, we plan to stay together a very long time if not for the rest of our lives!. I'm glad we lost our virginity to eachother, I wouldn't want it any other way, even if we ended up breaking up some time in the very far away future, I'm still glad it's him, I wouldn't want it or even imagine it any other way!.
Basically, I agree that people are losing their virginity at very young ages, though what I more find is the problem is that people aren't waiting until they're atleast in a commited relationship or until they're even mentally mature enough or really just ready for sex!. It's disturbing to me because i do know so many people who have done that!. But yeah, what just bothers me with this question is that it's basically pointing to any person and saying that apparently we can't love at this age and under any circumstance it's wrong!.

And once you get to highschool, trust me, it's not just the guys calling that girls 'hoes', there are plenty of girls doing the same thing about guys!. Just that yeah, girls will still get the worst rep, but being a teenager isn't supposed to be nice anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm twenty now and lost my virginity when I was thirteen to a friend who was also curious about sex!. I've respected myself and my body my whole life, and we both knew exactly the decision we were making!. We remained friends, never dated, until he left for college in another state a couple years ago!. It's definitely not a decision to take lightly, because as fun as it is there's a lot of responsibility that comes with sexual activity!. I've never regretted it for a second, and would certainly do it again!. I'm actually pretty happy that I was able to gain that experience, because being the more experienced woman served me pretty well in a lot of relationships!.

Personally, I don't think sex should have much to do with having high morals or that abstinence should necessarily mean one has high self-respect!. Sex is as natural as eating or breathing!. When it comes down to it, humans are still animals!. Sure, we have nice cars and all kinds of interesting social infra-structures and hierarchies, but we're still animals with animal instincts, and as soon as puberty hits, we want to mate!. The good part is that mating doesn't have to mean producing young in the modern day and age!.

Having sex doesn't necessarily make a young girl a whore or a ****, and it really shouldn't!. It's the way they treat themselves that does!. Some people do it when they're not ready and then regret it, well, then doesn't it make you happy that they screwed up and you didn't!? Not all guys look at girls and see a piece of ***!. Most of them look and think, "Nice ***!" but treat women respectfully regardless!. But you're fourteen, so all men are still complete juvenile idiots and will be for the next four or five years!. They don't think they have power over you, they're just testing their boundaries in the little miniature reality that high school creates before the real world busts their balls!. Don't let it piss you off too bad, it'll get better!. And if it doesn't!? Then hey!. You're not a ****, so they don't have that power over you!. The more you get pissed off about it, the more power you're giving them in your own mind!. If they're not worth your time, then just let it roll off your back!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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