I need help and advice Please :'(...!
Question: I need help and advice Please :'(!.!.!.
I'm really scared, me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby again and its proving a little harder than we'd hoped, we've just had a massive row about it!. Then I've gone and done the stupidest thing and gone straight to my razor!. i haven't reacted like that since the last time me and my boyfriend broke up, and then it took a lot of strength not to slip back into my old self harming ways, that took so long to stop!. I'm scared now ive just done this and I'm ashamed, how can i bring a baby into the world am i stupid!. I know what i did was wrong but i didn't know what i was doing until it was done!.!.!.
I'm scared i wanna tell my boyfriend because i know he will help me without telling anyone else but i have been called an attention seeker in the past so much when people found out before i self harmed and it would kill me if he said this!. I am worried he might think i did it because of him i dunno someone help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm scared i wanna tell my boyfriend because i know he will help me without telling anyone else but i have been called an attention seeker in the past so much when people found out before i self harmed and it would kill me if he said this!. I am worried he might think i did it because of him i dunno someone help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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u need to tell ur boyfriend about this!. trust me if he loves u and cares about you he'll help u get through this!. im sorry to hear about the baby issue but the only way to solve this problem is with the help of ur boyfriend!. and also u wont hav to tell lots of ppl about this!. try to tell him wats goin on and why u did it!. i hope u and boyfriend work it out!. stay strong!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
In my opinion you're not ready for a child if you're grabbing razors and cutting yourself!. That's not mother material!.
If you two are ready to commit to a child, why not commit to each other and get married first!?
People who cut are attention seekers!. People who are truly suicidal just do it and never make it even suspicious that they're considering it!.
Stop cutting, get married and then have a baby!.
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If you two are ready to commit to a child, why not commit to each other and get married first!?
People who cut are attention seekers!. People who are truly suicidal just do it and never make it even suspicious that they're considering it!.
Stop cutting, get married and then have a baby!.
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Don't hurt yourself, you and your boyfriend shouldnt even be trying for a baby because your not married!. My friend had that problem, but she went and saw a phycologist who helped her stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, it sounds like you are not ready for a baby yet!. Tell him you want to get some help!. Do you have money!? Do you have a stable place to live!? Education!? Car!? Help!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he is ment to be the father of your baby he will understand and love you!.
Good Luck
(also dont name your baby jess name it Abbey )
^ even if it is a boy :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck
(also dont name your baby jess name it Abbey )
^ even if it is a boy :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
The last thing you should do is self harm -
go to a fertility clinic and BOTH get tests!.
xxxx good luck babe x
Ps name ur baby Jess lol xx
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go to a fertility clinic and BOTH get tests!.
xxxx good luck babe x
Ps name ur baby Jess lol xx
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your in control of your actions and cutting yourself wont do anything to help you how do you think it will!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think firstly, you should maybe talk to your boyfriend about this!. he will understand and support you, and if he doesn't then you deserve better!. if you are scared of him blaming himself, just make it clear to him how you felt about the issue!. there is nothing attention seeking about self harming!.!. it's a serious issue, and i advise you to get some help!. i used to self harm!.!. not seriously, but it still effected me pretty badly!. if you are self harming, you really need to stop, even more so if you are planning on having a baby!.
i really hope everything goes well for you and your boyfriend!.!. everything will turn out fine in the end- take care of yourself, and have faith that things will be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i really hope everything goes well for you and your boyfriend!.!. everything will turn out fine in the end- take care of yourself, and have faith that things will be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
awh!! its ok hunny!! everything will be alright!. I'm the same way but i am seeking help!. talk to somebody, they will help!. and maybe when you get some help a baby will be good but right now i don't think a baby would be a good thing you could go into post mortem depression and other forms of depression!. i think you should get help first!. and then when you have this baby it will be a good thing and you can be a great mom!. but get some help first!! good luck!. and no your not stupid!. no body is stupid we all have our own ways of dealing with things ours is self harming and self mutilation, but there is help!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dnt think that your not ready for a baby i just think that because it isnt happening straight away you are starting to getting pissed off at each other!.!.!.sometime when your are trying for a baby!.!.!. it doesnt always happen first time just give yourself time sometime it can take years for some people to conceive a baby!.!.!. so dnt take it to heart
and try your hardest to try and talk to your boyfriend bout how you are feeling coz im sure he will understand as trying for a baby can be very stressful!.!.!. a for the self harming because you use to do it you may feel that!.!.!.that it is the only way to get your stress out try to talk 2 sum one that you trust 100 percent!.!.!. nd dnt listening to the people that think you do for attention its because they done understand how you and feeling nd how you deal with things nd i think you talkin 2 your bf about this will help your find a different way to deal wiv your emotions
and try your hardest to try and talk to your boyfriend bout how you are feeling coz im sure he will understand as trying for a baby can be very stressful!.!.!. a for the self harming because you use to do it you may feel that!.!.!.that it is the only way to get your stress out try to talk 2 sum one that you trust 100 percent!.!.!. nd dnt listening to the people that think you do for attention its because they done understand how you and feeling nd how you deal with things nd i think you talkin 2 your bf about this will help your find a different way to deal wiv your emotions
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