How can i make my boyfriend stop playing video games!! Please Help!!!

Question: How can i make my boyfriend stop playing video games!! Please Help!!

ok, i love my boyfriend with all my heart, but he is OBSESSED with video games!!! everytime i call him, hes playing, when i go over his house, he's playing!. in school he's falling asleep cuz he only gets llike 3 hours of sleep everyday!. on the weekends he doesnt sometimes sleep till the next day!. i dont know how he manages to still get straight A's in school with that routine!. when i try calling him i sometimes have to shout so he can listen to me!. once i disconnected the playstation while he was playing so he can pay attention and he got very VERY angry to the point that i felt scared of him!. what can i do to change this, i love him and he can be a real sweetheart to me but his damn playstation 3, xbox 360, and nintendo wii are killing me!. not to mention hes always broke cuz hes always buying games and accessories for the systems!. what can i do!? what can i do to end this obsession of his!?


Well first off, you have to realize that you can't 'make' him stop playing!.

You also need to face the reality that he is choosing his gaming over even a simple phone call with you!.!.!. as well, if you felt scared by his anger that is telling you something right there!.

I think you already know what you need to do!.

(and yes, he is clearly addicted!. Let that be his parent's problem!.!. not yours)Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is what boys are like, he is young an he is able to enjoy the things he likes!. If he cant as a teenager, then when can he!? My bf is 25 and he still plays video games!. On weekends he often stays up late playing them!. Occasionally I find it annoying, but you've got to make him want to stop!. If you just get angry at him he will only want to play it more, because where would be the fun in stopping only to hang out with a grumpy girlfriend!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have absolutely no idea, a lot of men obsess over one thing or another (games, sports, porn, cars, etc!.) my man obsesses over cars so much I'm almost convinced he'd have sex with one if he could!. If you discover how to solve this problem women would actually bow down to you lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your dating a nerd!. go get a real man who acually goes outside and does things!. you know stays active, doesn't sit in front of a tv all day and night, maybe has a sun tan and doesn't look like he's an albino!. dump that zero and get with a hero!. it's not just a clever phrase!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Confront him, tell him he is obsessed, he will argue, argue back, argue more, threaten to leave him, and if none of that works, leave him!. No person should come second to something like video games!.

I love video games, but no matter what, whenever my girlfriend called or came over, even if she was being annoying, i KNEW she had to get the attention over the game!. It's the rule on relationships!. If he isn't paying attention to you, and you can't make him stop, dump him!. No one like that deserves a girlfriend anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Gaming is an addiction, just like drugs, alcohol and gambling!. I also had a boyfriend addicted to gaming, but he was 54 years old!. The final straw was on New Years eve he didn't show up for a big party we were supposed to attend!. I had bought a new dress and shoes, yada, yada!. I called him at 11:00, and he and his son were involved in some kind of pay to play tournament!. That was the end of our relationship!. You deserve better!. Find someone else, who will love you back!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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