Girls who have already lost there virginity please help!!
Question: Girls who have already lost there virginity please help!
ohk well me and my bf are planning to have sex soon and im scared of how much it will hurt so can you give me advice on how to make it hurt less!. how much did it hurt for you!? hes fingered me before and that also hurt a little so please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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We're going to skip the insulting preliminaries about "being too young" and not knowing your own mind!. I'm going to assume that you are indeed, a responsible, mature young lady!.
You're a big girl, now, and you can make your own damned decisions!.
To answer your question: It's different for every girl!. Usually what causes pain and/or bleeding when you lose your virginity is the stretching or tearing of the hymen!. This is where it gets subjective: some girls have already torn their hymen by the time they have sex, usually as part of a normal, active lifestyle!. Other girls have stretchy, or "elastic" hymens, which stretch instead of tearing!. Some girls are born entirely without hymens, while some girls have really thick ones!. The point of this is that each girl is unique, which makes it a little hard to answer your question!.
In most cases, there is some discomfort with initial penetration, and if you have a hymen, there will probably be pain, and a little bleeding (After all, you're not used to having a penis in there!), but it's usually mild to moderate and fades quickly!. In order to make things as wonderful as humanly possible, it is SUPER-DUPER, AMAZINGLY important that you take things slow the first few times!. Make sure you're fully aroused, and please, for the love of all things sexual, use some water-based lube (petroleum-based lube can dissolve latex condoms)!. If you experience discomfort or pain, slow down, and wait a bit before proceeding!.
Also, please be aware that for most girls, the first few times are kind of disappointing when it comes to the actual sex!.!.!.it takes a while to find your rhythm and discover what you like!. So, go forth, be safe, and, above all, HAVE FUN!
If you have more questions, or if you just feel like poking around, I might recommend www!.scarleteen!.com, these guys provide honest, clear information about sex, sexuality, your body, and what to expect from it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're a big girl, now, and you can make your own damned decisions!.
To answer your question: It's different for every girl!. Usually what causes pain and/or bleeding when you lose your virginity is the stretching or tearing of the hymen!. This is where it gets subjective: some girls have already torn their hymen by the time they have sex, usually as part of a normal, active lifestyle!. Other girls have stretchy, or "elastic" hymens, which stretch instead of tearing!. Some girls are born entirely without hymens, while some girls have really thick ones!. The point of this is that each girl is unique, which makes it a little hard to answer your question!.
In most cases, there is some discomfort with initial penetration, and if you have a hymen, there will probably be pain, and a little bleeding (After all, you're not used to having a penis in there!), but it's usually mild to moderate and fades quickly!. In order to make things as wonderful as humanly possible, it is SUPER-DUPER, AMAZINGLY important that you take things slow the first few times!. Make sure you're fully aroused, and please, for the love of all things sexual, use some water-based lube (petroleum-based lube can dissolve latex condoms)!. If you experience discomfort or pain, slow down, and wait a bit before proceeding!.
Also, please be aware that for most girls, the first few times are kind of disappointing when it comes to the actual sex!.!.!.it takes a while to find your rhythm and discover what you like!. So, go forth, be safe, and, above all, HAVE FUN!
If you have more questions, or if you just feel like poking around, I might recommend www!.scarleteen!.com, these guys provide honest, clear information about sex, sexuality, your body, and what to expect from it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well I'm going to be honest!.!.its goin to hurt!.!.if you were hurt when he fingered you,,,its gonna hurt having sex!.!.!.!.and it all depends on how old u are!.!.!.how ready u r!.!.how big he is!.!.and if u rele wanna do it!.!.!.the only advice i can give is tht if u r really wanting to do it!.!.!.!.!.!.DONT do it in a car (very uncomfortable)!.!.!.stay on bottom!.!.let him be on top (hurts a little less) and try reading some magzazines like cosmopolitan and ones like that!.!.!.!.they give really good ideas or tips for sex!.!.!.and they actually WORK!.!.but i wld just advise not to do it!.!.!.!.!.u feel extreamly guilty afterwards!.!.!.!.just watever u want to do!! good luck!!! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does hurt when he inserts himself into you, because you are getting stretched out!. The pain doesn't last long, maybe 5 or 6 thrusts!. Make sure he goes slow until it doesn't hurt anymore!. The fingering does help a little, because it slightly stretches you out!. Just make sure he goes slow for a little, and use lube!!
You will probably bleed a little too!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will probably bleed a little too!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
um it depends on the size!.!.!. u just have to relax!.!.!. it is totally different from being fingered!.!.!.!. My first time!.!.!. i jumped when he stuck the head in!.!.!. but some people say that it only hurts the first time!.!.!. that's a lie!.!.!. cause like i said!.!.!. it depends on the size!.!.!. but just try to stay relaxed and don't think about it so hard!.!.!. just let it happens!.!.!. every bodies first time is different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it doesn't hurt that much!. when you are in moment you have so much adrenaline and natural lubrication that you do not feel a lot of pain!. don't worry, thinking about it too much and planning it will make you focus on the pain, just make sure it;s the right time and person and it will all work out!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
It will probably hurt the first time, but bear with it it does get better ;)
You may also notice a little bleeding afterwards, this will be from your hymen being broken and nothing to worry about!. Take it slowly and gently and try to relax!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may also notice a little bleeding afterwards, this will be from your hymen being broken and nothing to worry about!. Take it slowly and gently and try to relax!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
o0k first of all, are you miley cyrus!? if so email me!.!.im on your "patterson" myspace( zach brown with the pic of the guy on the wake board)!.!.!.if not forget about that!.!.!.!.!.!.ok so you should masturbate with a dildo or something along those lines just to widen it up!.!.!.!.start slow then build up speed!.!.!.if it still hurts then just let him know that he needs to start slow, im sure he'll understand cause i know i would (im a 15 yr old boy) and it feels better for the guy if its tight lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
well for me, it didnt hurt that bad!.!.!.i mean when it first went in, it hurt a little bit and occasionally while it was going on!.
If you dont think you are ready for it, don't do it!. there is no need to rush
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If you dont think you are ready for it, don't do it!. there is no need to rush
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the initial penetration is going to hurt and your gong to bleed!.!.!.
but in the end its going to feel great
oo and be prepared to feel like you have ran a triathalon in the morningWww@Answer-Health@Com
but in the end its going to feel great
oo and be prepared to feel like you have ran a triathalon in the morningWww@Answer-Health@Com
For me it hurt pretty bad the first time but lube def helped!!! Just relax to!. dont stress about it hurting so much!. i promise it will not hurt as bad if you just relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I strongly suggest you not doing this right now!. I know we are total strangers, but trust me!. I just don't think you're ready!. Try to hold off a couple more years!.!.!.!.Fifteen is too young!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"me and my bf are planning to have sex soon"
It will hurt really bad with that plan/attitude!.
Wait until you are a bit older and have another attitude!.
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It will hurt really bad with that plan/attitude!.
Wait until you are a bit older and have another attitude!.
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It doesn't hurt THAT bad, and if it's his first time too, it'll probably hurt even less!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont remember it hurting!. so i cant help you too much!. but try to relax!. it will be beter if you can chill out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
use lubrication oilWww@Answer-Health@Com
For me it felt like a nail being hammered through my hand!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Umm if your were fingured then you've already lost your virginity!.
When the vain is broken it bleeds and hurts like hell!.
Some people are different then others!.
so someone plain can be on a completely different level then yours!.
But since his penis is WAY wider and thicker then his fingure, it might hurt more then the figuring!.
At first it will hurt but as many times as you have sex the pain turns into pleasure!.
So I guess you can't really stop it from hurtingWww@Answer-Health@Com
When the vain is broken it bleeds and hurts like hell!.
Some people are different then others!.
so someone plain can be on a completely different level then yours!.
But since his penis is WAY wider and thicker then his fingure, it might hurt more then the figuring!.
At first it will hurt but as many times as you have sex the pain turns into pleasure!.
So I guess you can't really stop it from hurtingWww@Answer-Health@Com