Depressed please help ?!


Question: Depressed please help !?
im 17 going into grade 12 but i have to stay an extra year after that because im 6 credits behind!. i want to succeed in life so badly!.!.!. but how can i if im so depressed !? my dads an alcoholic and i cant explain everything thats happened to me and my family, its too much!.im the oldest of 5 kids!. Im also really quiet at school and feel like i dont fit in, but i do have alot of friends and people do talk to me alot and stuff but i dont know im just shy and not that outgoing at school so i become boring and less people talk to me!.!. i really want to get over my shyness and go to uni and become a pediatrician but how can i succeed in life if im soooo depressed !?! ugh!. my minds always on whats happening at home or because of something that happened that night!.!. i didnt get my homework done or i didnt get to study!.!. just too much going on at home !.!.is there a point to even go to school anymore!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Honey, please dont drop out of school, let school be your focus, poor your heart into your education, set your goal of becoming the best pediatrician!. I am a high school teacher and also had not the best home life, I can relate!. Its good that you have friends to talk to, remember that you come first, put yourself and your goals first and become who I know that you can be! To relieve the stress, try doing things for yourself, maybe getting a part time job (more time away from the home life) Earn some money, get your hair done, pamper yourself!!! You will go far in life and I will be thinking of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Keep your chin up senior year is a **** pile for most people too!.

try to get into school when you graduate its easier than you'd think they really help you in the door and there are aloot of grants you can get!. But just make shure you know what you want to go for and plan ahead usually you need all your admissions stuff complete and submitted by july 1rst the prior year

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Please don't let that stuff bother you!. You still succeed!. You'll have to really focus on what you want!. And get motivated!. You have to apply yourself and to get it done, make some time for yourself!. Go to a library or a friends house so you can get away from the troubles you are having at your home!. Your motivation can come from your past and goals!. Make some goals and think of them and they will get you motivated!. That's what motivates me!. Good Luck to you! Hope this answer helps you!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im 6 credits shy an i kno it sux balls!. You can always take nightschool so your less at home so your not around your parents!. and at the same time catch up on credits!. go to summer school for 2 courses!. and if your too depresed to go to school think of it this way!.!.!.!. the faster your graduate the faster ull be in uni and faster youll have a life you wanted!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get help!. Ask your parents to take you to a therapist - or go yourself, if you have the money for the visit!. If you have insurance, your insurance company can reccomend someone for you to see!. It helps to just talk to someone, to unload all the BS and get an outside perspective!. Plus, they can prescribe medications that will REALLY help you!. Good luck, and I hope you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It probably is worth going to school - even if it takes another year!. Having grade 12 opens a lot of doors when you start working!.

If you have some time and want to talk!.!. catch me on yahoo messenger - I'll see if I can help at all!. I might not be able too, but you might feel some better just having someone to talk to!. I'm jasmith001 on there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Absolutely there is a reason to continue going to school!. You want to be a pediatrician, you can do it!.
I would talk to a school counselor and see if she get you into see a psychiatrist!. They have great meds which will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to lean to get over it a become a better person because you will have no future and I hate seeing people like that!.
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If you want to succeed then yes there is a point to school!. See your Dr about the depression and be completely honest about everything, there's lots they can do, like prescribing antidepressants and getting you into councelling!. I suffered Post-natal depression and seeing the dr really helped!. If your not getting your homework done and not studying enough, go from school to a library or other place where it'll be quiet for you to work!. As for the shyness, getting over the depression will help so once again see your dr, but also do something for yourself that will boost your confidence and you should find you won't be as shy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sure it is and i understand how hard it can be to live in a chaotic unhealthy family!. As long as you will do alright in school you have a chance for a scholarship and just think you will become 18 in less than a year, so you will be an adult and will be able to make your own decisions and if push comes to shove if you aren't able to cope with family stresses anymore you can find a job, move out and work on getting into college without all that extra drama weighing you down!. Just stick it our and once you are adult you can make a better life for yourself!. I did, trust me it's possible, just don't give up!. Day at a time,don't overload yourself and you will make it and get out, and trust me the depression will lift!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

of course there's a point to going to school! Don't let your family life take away your chance to succeed!. This is your life and nobody else's
you need to tell someone about your depression, call your doctor, get on some medication, you'll feel alot better!. But never give up on your dreams because of whats going on at home!. You can definently succeed and if that mean staying another year in school then so be it!. You will feel so proud when you do finish and have a happy and successful life!. As for now, try talking to a trusted friend, parent, or teacher! You don't have to live with this depression! It's your life, take control of it! But never, ever, give up on your goals and dreams and always have faith!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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