My wife just had a miscarriage and i don't know what to do to cheer her up.!
Question: My wife just had a miscarriage and i don't know what to do to cheer her up!.
She has been very down and i feel like i'm not helping her at all!. I just want to see her smile again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Just be there for her thats all you can do for her she needs time to grieve!. I'm sure given time she will be happy again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well it is very traumatic for a woman to lose her baby, and although it sounds strange trying to cheer her up isn't going to help!. You need to be understanding, and there when she needs you!. Bring her coffee and run her a nice relaxing bath, and just hold her on the sofa!. Don't bring her chocolates or flowers, because chances are she won't want fuss, but just cook her a nice meal so she doesn't starve, and don't let her get drunk!.
She will be ok eventually, everything heals in time, and while you're waiting, just make sure she knows that you understand her and are there for her whenever she needs you!.
Sorry for your loss, but I hope that next time you will be celebrating!.
*Angel*Www@Answer-Health@Com
She will be ok eventually, everything heals in time, and while you're waiting, just make sure she knows that you understand her and are there for her whenever she needs you!.
Sorry for your loss, but I hope that next time you will be celebrating!.
*Angel*Www@Answer-Health@Com
we too have just recently suffered a miscarriage and to be honest there's nothing you can really do except tell her how much you love her, talk to her, listen to her, generally be there for her and above all be patient!. It's not just her that's had a miscarriage, you have to and whilst it's sweet you're thinking of her, make sure you look after yourself too!. We went out and bought a 46" tv! but 4 weeks on and it's still a struggle and the tears are still there!. We also got a teddy from bears4u!.co!.uk!. It has a little jumper on which you can design a logo on and write something!. Ours had a red jumper with an angel on it and on the back "bean july 2008" so we actually have something to remember and actually cry over!. It's a nice idea and will be treasured forever!. Fact is you're not a magician and all that will help is time, it still hurts, but obviously eases with time!. Love to the both of you and I pray you do eventually get the child you long for xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow!.!.its a very sensitive topic!. I suggest you can try to comfort her by saying!.!.!.your going to try again to have a baby!.!.please take care of your body till then!. You can also get her some favs food or buy some chocalate to cheer her up, or mayb take her to a nice mini vacation to somewhere else, so she can forget about the miscarriage!.
I hope this help and good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope this help and good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be there if she wants to talk and let her be in peace if she doesn't!. Arrange outings that are appropriate - like go for a walk in a forest or a park, nothing too extravagant or loud, but the fresh air will do her good and I think it helps to take us out of ourselves to get away sometimes!.
Personally I enjoy geocaching (geocaching!.com) - I don't know if a new hobby would help, but it is a healthy distraction, as you can both talk about your feelings while you walk if you want to!. At the same time you have a focus which means you can have a break from emotional talks if you prefer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Personally I enjoy geocaching (geocaching!.com) - I don't know if a new hobby would help, but it is a healthy distraction, as you can both talk about your feelings while you walk if you want to!. At the same time you have a focus which means you can have a break from emotional talks if you prefer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
aww im so sorry 4 ur loss, i dont kno if ur able to but maybe take her for a meal or a little break at a hotel n make her feel special n pampered and u aswell as im sure ur hurtin too
for now give her a big cuddle !.!.!.
tht alwyas makes me feel better no matter wat the problem is
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
for now give her a big cuddle !.!.!.
tht alwyas makes me feel better no matter wat the problem is
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Oh that is sad!.
Get the duvet on the sofa, make her dinner, get some of her favourite magazines, LOTS OF CHOCOLATE, and a big hug from her husband!. :)
Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get the duvet on the sofa, make her dinner, get some of her favourite magazines, LOTS OF CHOCOLATE, and a big hug from her husband!. :)
Www@Answer-Health@Com
the best thing you could do for her is to hold her and tell her that it is okay for her to be upset and tell her that she can be upset as long as she wants too!. Let her heal in her own time!.
BTW the fastest way to get over a miscarriage is to get pregnant again!. So make another baby!. and good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
BTW the fastest way to get over a miscarriage is to get pregnant again!. So make another baby!. and good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com