A baby at 33 and 38?!
Question: A baby at 33 and 38!?
I have always been told that I cannot have children, tried once in my previous marriage and went through a lot of emotional distress with failed attempts and tons of negative EPT's!.!.!.lol I did all but in vitro-fertilization!. This was 8 years ago and since then I have done well to overcome some of the emotional issues it caused me, I have finally accepted in my head that I was not meant to have children and that my life would be chaotic and that I am too selfish to have children, (of course people tell me that changes), but now, I have a new man in my life, we have lived together for a year this month and suddenly, at age 33, I am finding myself thinking of trying new medicines!.!.!.!.is that nuts or what!? he is 38 years old and has a newborn grandson, an 18 year old daughter and a 15 year old son!.!.!.I know deep down that I would be ecstatic to find out I would be a mother finally, but how would or could I adjust my life now around having a child!? The man I am with loves me deeply and he would do whatever makes me happy, but would I be wrong to ask this of him at 38!? I get the impression he thinks he is too old, he is a grandpa for goodness sake!.!.lol I am not looking for my answer on here!.!.!.that would be stupid to let a bunch of internet users make a decision like this for me, but I am certainly looking for several opinions on the situation!. Thanks in advance! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I believe you should go for it
I have four kids and as much as they get on my nerves I love them with everything that is me
they are my world
I cannot imagine my life without them
If you want to try again for a child with someone you know you will be with I say go for it
I feel you only live once do what you want while you are here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have four kids and as much as they get on my nerves I love them with everything that is me
they are my world
I cannot imagine my life without them
If you want to try again for a child with someone you know you will be with I say go for it
I feel you only live once do what you want while you are here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you want a baby then go for it, talk about it with him!. ill pray for you and only you can make the right decision but if i were you id just talk to him, ill pray and i hope whatever you want you get, and if not then thats the way God wanted life for you!. and you have 2 stepchildren even though theyre pretty much grown up you can still have a relationship with themWww@Answer-Health@Com
If he is 38 now and lets say he is 40 by the time baby is born, it is still !.OK because he will have to actively earn a salary for about 20 years after the birth which will make him 60 by the time baby is 20 or 21!.
That is all fine, but do not wait on this one!.
It is sheer murder on a man to have to still be actively earning a salary at the age of seventy or so, just to get baby through high school!.
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That is all fine, but do not wait on this one!.
It is sheer murder on a man to have to still be actively earning a salary at the age of seventy or so, just to get baby through high school!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com