Birth Control and my sex drive what should I do?!
Question: Birth Control and my sex drive what should I do!?
Hello I am 25 and my spouse is 24 we have been together for 4 years and married for 2 1/2 we have 5 month old twin daughters and we couldn't be happier we are at a great time in our lives we spend a lot of time together and we have our "date nights" without the babies of course and still make time for each other we have sex but only about 1 - 2 times a week and it's all my fault he wants to all the time but my sex drive is GONE!! I recently started taking birth control again but it's gotten to the point that I don't even feel affectionate with him I mean I kiss him and hug him and tell him what a wonderful hubby and daddy he is and how much I love him but our sex life is really on the rocks!! I just don't know what to do I mean our kids are GREAT they go to bed at a decent hour and sleep through the night!! I just can't seem to get in the mood if anybody has ANY advice PLEASE I would love the help is it the BC or is it just me and my body trying to bounce back from twins (I gained 65 pounds and only have 15 left to be back at what I was before I had them) i just don't know what to do can someone please help me!?!? Thank you in advance for the support!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You guys sound like you are doing everything right - you know -tthe date nights and communicating and ensuring you have shared the load of care amongst you - so KUDOS to both of you!.
I would hazzard a guess your hormones have gone a bit haywire adn have gone even more bizerk after birth control pills are in the mix!.!.!.
Hormone levels in pregnant and recently birthed women goes from one extreme to the other!. These massive hormonal changes directly effect mood, the way a woman reacts to events and the meaning she places on things that are said and done ( and NOT said and NOT done!.!.)
The main hormone produced during pregnancy is progesterone and this steadily rises as pregnancy progresses!. It is matched with the rising production of estrogen
I would hazzard a guess your hormones have gone a bit haywire adn have gone even more bizerk after birth control pills are in the mix!.!.!.
Hormone levels in pregnant and recently birthed women goes from one extreme to the other!. These massive hormonal changes directly effect mood, the way a woman reacts to events and the meaning she places on things that are said and done ( and NOT said and NOT done!.!.)
The main hormone produced during pregnancy is progesterone and this steadily rises as pregnancy progresses!. It is matched with the rising production of estrogen
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