I'm seventeen. and found out that I am pregnant for sure.?!
Question: I'm seventeen!. and found out that I am pregnant for sure!.!?
Hi, well i've been posting questions about being pregnant since yesterday!. It turns out that I actually am!. 10 in, didn't really think much about it!. thought maybe i was late due to stress and being sick!. My boyfriend knows and he didn't freak out or anything he was just like ' ok, well what are you going to do, either way i'll be here' !.!. i don't have much time to decide!. i want to know, if anyones been in this situation and if you were what would you do!. please help!. advice would be really nice!.!. xoxWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Gotta say im loving these answers, and sure the person does too!.!.
Okay so pretty sure no one here has any right to call this girl and her boyfriend irrisponsible !.!. considering she DID say that her boyfriend said he would be there!. She's lucky to have someone that would actually say that, which is more than A LOT of people can say!. Some people just say screw it and walk away from it like nothing happend!. And for anyone who doesn't know needs a reality check that there are a lot of people that have sex before marriage, which is completely up to them!.
It's a good thing people here make it seem so easy wah !? !.!.
When it's really not!.
Yeah it'd be different if it was you
So think about how they must feel
She asked for people to help, not call them something they don't want to hear!.!.
So, missis talk to your bf about it, if you think you can handle it, go for it !.!. hope you get what you want :]
good luck hon, dont let other people bother you!.
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Okay so pretty sure no one here has any right to call this girl and her boyfriend irrisponsible !.!. considering she DID say that her boyfriend said he would be there!. She's lucky to have someone that would actually say that, which is more than A LOT of people can say!. Some people just say screw it and walk away from it like nothing happend!. And for anyone who doesn't know needs a reality check that there are a lot of people that have sex before marriage, which is completely up to them!.
It's a good thing people here make it seem so easy wah !? !.!.
When it's really not!.
Yeah it'd be different if it was you
So think about how they must feel
She asked for people to help, not call them something they don't want to hear!.!.
So, missis talk to your bf about it, if you think you can handle it, go for it !.!. hope you get what you want :]
good luck hon, dont let other people bother you!.
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First of all you need to get an appointment with an OBGYN!. Your doctor can explain ALL of your options!. You are the only person who can make the decision about what to do!. My suggestion is to not let anyone sway your opinion either way!. You need to figure out what you're comfortable with and what is best for you!. You're the only one that needs to live with your decision, no one else!. And whatever your decision might be, whenever the decision needs to be made again about having unprotected sex, I would seriously consider using a condom, or getting on the pill or some other form of contraception, especially if you're not ready to be responsible for another life!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well The done,done is!.If I were you I will arm myself of valor and I will talk to my mother about it!.Three of you:You,mother, and boyfriend have to decide the best thing to do!.But I would have the baby!.You know I wish I can have a baby,but I can't!.Tell you mom that you will make a big effort to finish your school and after this you are going to work!.But don't give up your baby!.You never are going to regret it!.You never will be alone!.Take this for sure!.Good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Adoption really is a wonderful option if you don't want the responsibility of raising a child!. A local crisis pregnancy center can help you with that!. So many people desperately want kids that can't!.
Please don't consider abortion!. Your baby already has a strong heartbeat at 10 weeks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't consider abortion!. Your baby already has a strong heartbeat at 10 weeks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
adoption, if you dont think you can raise the child!.
or would yalls parents be willing to help raise the child!?
not fully, but just help when needed!.
try to consider as much as you can before abortion is all im saying, because it is your childs life!.
*adoption
*keep the child
*abortion
what are you plans for the future!?
any room for a baby to squeeze in!?
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or would yalls parents be willing to help raise the child!?
not fully, but just help when needed!.
try to consider as much as you can before abortion is all im saying, because it is your childs life!.
*adoption
*keep the child
*abortion
what are you plans for the future!?
any room for a baby to squeeze in!?
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Ok, well, at least you told him and everything, so thats good!. And It's your decision and everything but I personally don't agree with abortion!. I would say, keep that baby!. Or have it, then give it up for adoption if you really can't handle it!. Please take time and think about your choices!.
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It is your body no one can tell you what to do!. If you want an abortion, and you know you do not want to go through the pregnancy then get, adoption is great too!. Its totally up to you!. Discuss with your boyfriend or family!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You shouldn't ask people on Y!A this question!. Your boyfriend and yourself should be talking about your options and how you guys could handle it!. It's questions like these that we can't really help you with b/c you live your own life!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
please don't get an abortion,that isn't the answer!.1st of all,you shouldn't be having sex before marriage,i guess you know that now!.!.if you don't want/can't take care of the baby,consider adoption!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
ha adoption is only the best answer if you're white, blonde, blue eye'd, attractive, and without genetic risks!.
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I agree with the last person!. Consider adoption!. Abortion is the worst thing to go through!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your an idiot! for getting pregnant at such a young ageWww@Answer-Health@Com
Lighten up and stop being so darn defensive would you!. it's ok to be pregnant at 17 once you love your baby everything is going to be fine there are many women who had there's a lot younger than you!. Actually i know a girl 22 and she just gave birth to baby number 6!. No lie i am dead serious!. If you are sure that this is what you want then do it just don't abort cause it could kill you, mess up your body and may not be able to have any more, it would certainly haunt you for the rest of your life and you will feel guilty!. Most inpoimportantlyhild is a gift from God i am sure if you had the winning lottery ticket you would not give it away or throw it away then why do so with a life!. trust me once you have that little bundle of joy evereverythinggoing to chance and you would love him/her!. I am trusting you to make the right decision and by the way CONGRATS :))))))))))) Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I got pregnant at 19, although I love my daughter, it really impeded my life!. It took me longer to get through school and college, it makes everything so much harder!.
If I had chosen abortion, it would have made my life much easier!. I wouldn't have had to go to court to get sole custody, and no visitation for the prick!. I had to have an abortion later in life, and do I regret the decision, no!. Do I think about it everyday!? Yes!. Was it the best decision I could make at the time, yes!.
Not to make this a pro life discussion (it already is to a point), but, this is your body, your decision, and any choice you make will affect you for the rest of your life!.
People who are saying "no" to abortion, have motives, be it religious or political, which have no right dictating what happens inside a woman's body!. They are the same people who will not be there to help you raise your child, or help you financially!. There are other implications to having a child, when you are still really a kid, like the looks of disdain, the judgements, everything!.
Don't get me wrong people have a right to their own opinions!. Yet, it is not them who are faced with the decision, it is you and you alone, not your mom, not your boyfriend!.
Two years later I met the love of my life, and he accepted my daughter as his own, as she accepted him!.
"I have a daddy now"!. !. !.
Not all stories have happy endings like Juno, or like mine, and it was a hell of a lot of work!.
I do not begrudge that I had my daughter, just that it made life difficult and complex!.
If I had to re live my life I would have aborted, although I love my daughter more than life itself, seventeen is too young to have a baby!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I had chosen abortion, it would have made my life much easier!. I wouldn't have had to go to court to get sole custody, and no visitation for the prick!. I had to have an abortion later in life, and do I regret the decision, no!. Do I think about it everyday!? Yes!. Was it the best decision I could make at the time, yes!.
Not to make this a pro life discussion (it already is to a point), but, this is your body, your decision, and any choice you make will affect you for the rest of your life!.
People who are saying "no" to abortion, have motives, be it religious or political, which have no right dictating what happens inside a woman's body!. They are the same people who will not be there to help you raise your child, or help you financially!. There are other implications to having a child, when you are still really a kid, like the looks of disdain, the judgements, everything!.
Don't get me wrong people have a right to their own opinions!. Yet, it is not them who are faced with the decision, it is you and you alone, not your mom, not your boyfriend!.
Two years later I met the love of my life, and he accepted my daughter as his own, as she accepted him!.
"I have a daddy now"!. !. !.
Not all stories have happy endings like Juno, or like mine, and it was a hell of a lot of work!.
I do not begrudge that I had my daughter, just that it made life difficult and complex!.
If I had to re live my life I would have aborted, although I love my daughter more than life itself, seventeen is too young to have a baby!.Www@Answer-Health@Com