Did any of the girls here actually enjoy their first time having sex?!


Question: Did any of the girls here actually enjoy their first time having sex!?
I just want to know if it's even possible for a girl to enjoy her first time!. Because most of my friends ( I'm in high school) say that their first times, and I quote " It hurt like a *****!."

I'm waiting until I'm married and I want to know if there is any way that I can like it the first time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
First off, really it's SO great that you are waiting until marriage or a committed relationship!. Remember that there is hardly anyone that regrets "waiting" and millions that regret losing it to the wrong person or too early!.

I didn't enjoy my first time!. It wasn't with a guy I loved, it was spur of the moment, I was uncomfortable during and sore afterward, and EVERYONE knew about it once we broke up b/c the guy told all his friends!. THAT'S high school relationships for you!. Highschool relationships are B!.S!. and are never serious enough to go to that level of intimacy, too bad I learned that a little to late!. No matter how people pressure you--stick your ground and be true to yourself!. Meaningless sex isn't worth the emotional baggage it brings or the risk of contracting an STD or pregnancy!.

The key to great sex is most importantly doing it with someone you love!.
Secondly, make sure you have both been tested AND are using proper contraceptive!. Just because you're married doesn't mean you don't have to go for REGULAR [this means more than once] testing or use birth control!. Don't play games with your life by risking an unplanned pregnancy or infection!. Also keep track of when you're ovulating--unless you want and are in a financial position to have a baby at that point--you want to avoid having sex [if you're not on HORMONAL birth control, regardless of whether you use condom or not] during your most fertile days!.
Thirdly, you and your husband [esp!. if he's a virgin too] should do a little research on what exactly to do to make it comfortable, eventful, and of course pleasurable!. USE LUBE!. Regardless of whether you have done foreplay or not!. It's not "kinky" or "dirty" or something to be embarrassed about, it's practical, especially for your first time!. It will make everything SO much more comfortable and pleasurable for you!. You won't really realize what a "tight fit" it is until you get started, so lube it up!. The friction can be very painful or at least uncomfortable when you have an intact hymen!.
Fourthly, you both will need to remember that it's not all about your own pleasure!. Doing things to benefit the other will not only make it more pleasurable for the both of you, but also show mutual appreciation!.
Lastly, and very important, don't hold back, physically, emotionally, vocally, idea-wise!. It's always best when you feel comfortable enough to say or do whatever you want with your partner, and your partner feels the same!. Don't limit yourself just because you've never done something before!. Your partner should be feel safe telling you want he wants, and you should feel the same!. Along with this--reassuring your partner and having him reassure you when you do something the other likes is also important!. You'll know what I mean when you get to that point in your life!.

But realistically, your first time will probably not be your best!. But it will get better with experience!. Even when it is your first time, it's difficult NOT to enjoy it when you're with someone you truly care about and who is honors you and your body and your choice to reach that level of intimacy with him!.

Hope this helps!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I never had sex until marriage, but if you want to have fun, but not have sex, you and your boy friend can foreplay!.

Example: Where he sticks his finger up you instead of his penis!.

For me, I fore played a lot until marriage, and I had a lot of fingers going up there, so by the time I had sex, I was used to things being stuck up there and I enjoyed it a lot!

Other people may be sensitive to it because there vaginas haven't gotten used to foreign items up there!. ;]

Congratz on waiting till marriage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If they say yes, they're lying, and want to impress!. If they say no, they're telling the truth, and if they ever enjoyed it, as in having a climax, not just the feeling, it didn't happen for many years, or many, many times!.

Sex hurt me until I was 26!. I lost my virginity at 18!. I still can be hurt at 38, the age I am now!.

In other words, most men are selfish, thinking about only their gratification, and don't know what the hell they're doing when it comes to sex, and pleasing a woman!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Kudos to you for waiting until marriage! STILL get an STD check for you and your husband-to-be just as a precaution!. :)

Yes, it can be enjoyable, but you must go slowly and take your time! In high school, a girl can obviously get pregnant but her body isn't fully developed for pleasure during sexual intercourse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i had sex for the first time in middle school and it felt fine!.
arspring sex feels good in high school!. i don't know what kind of health teacher you are, but that is not true!. and i think any high school who has had sex with a meaningful partner will agree with meWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you really love the person you won't even be thinking about that, and MAJOR props on waiting till your married!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I loved it! I was so wet and happy and I loved him so much so it felt right! Www@Answer-Health@Com

I did!. He was wonderful patient and kind!.

Sure you can like it the first time!!!


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lots of foreplay,dont rush!!penitration at your own speed,full if ready,if you see what i mean,enjoy 1st time!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes as long as he



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