Embarrassed in the bedroom?!


Question: Embarrassed in the bedroom!?
I'm 18 years old, 5'5 and 105 I've had issues with my looks all my life (BDD) but there's no real way to fix it!. I know I shouldn't be but I am embarrassed a lot of the times when in the bedroom!. I've never liked my body I am very insecure so having someone else look at me is just a way of making me feel uncomfortable!.
What I would want is some advice on how to stop being shy!. I do get fully naked in the bedroom but when a guy tries to undo my bra and take it off I always cover my boobs I just feel insecure, I feel like the guy is only thinking negative things about my body!.
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Answers:
I know exactly how you feel
Just try to be happy with what god and your parents gave you
Start looking at the positives
If the guy dosn't appreciate what you look like then he dosn't deserve to be looking at you
Keep your head up hunnyWww@Answer-Health@Com

AAGGGHHH!!!
i think all women hate their body, or at least a part of it, kinda like most guys are nervous the first time they show a girl there penis,
ive had the same issue

wen ur alone in ur house next time, lock the doors close ur windows, go around with ur daily activities COMPLETELY NAKED, do the dishes, watch TV, clean cook, do watever u do every other day

this sounds crazy, but ur first step in overcoming being shy, is to get comfy in ur own body

p!.s!.- if hes with u, he likes u and ur bodyWww@Answer-Health@Com

If the guy didnt like your body he wouldnt be with you!. I also dont like walking around naked or leaving the lights on alot !.!. but from experience !.!. the guy normally LOVES your body when you HATE it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you're insecure with your boyfriend/husband you need to talk more before having sex!. If it's just some random person then stop having sex with them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok if he thinks negative things about your body he wouldn't be taking your bra off lol just stick those boobies out and have fun! :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Guys are more than happy to look at any woman's body!. Unless you are horribly disfigured, just let it go and have fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well the bigger question here is, is why are you sharing your body with a guy when you can't accept it for yourself!? I don't mean to make that sound harsh, but I have always been told and feel now as well, that you must learn to love your body first, before anyone else will or can!. I read once in a magazine that the best way to go about that is to try walking around in your room naked for a few hours!. Even looking at your body in the mirror and find attributes on your body that you really like!. If you like your breasts, write that down in a journal and say why you like them!. If you like how shiny or long your hair is write that down!. And so on with other body parts!. Until you have a good listing of what you like and then figure out the best way to show off these attributes so you can consider yourself more attractive!. Hopefully that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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