First time sex question?(please be mature about this)?!


Question: First time sex question!?(please be mature about this)!?
Im worried,my boyfriend wants to have sex but i have some concerns,i think i might be ready,i just have some questions:
1!.)what happens to the female body after the first time!?
2!.)how bad does it hurt!?
3!.)what does it feel like!?
4!.)What can i do to prevent "messes" on the bed!?
5!.)should i be on the bottom or the top!?
6!.)how do i keep him satisfied!?
7!.)what should i do if im on top/bottom!?what movements do i make!?
8!.)is it uncomfortable to make moan noises!?or should i have music playing!?
9!.)What was it like your first time!?
10!.)What do i do afterwards to numb the pain!?
11!.)How many times does it take to be amune to the pain of sex!?

Please give MANY details,im kind of nervous & any extra advice!.thank you so much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
1!. The only physical difference after having sex the first time is that your hymen is broken!. That's all :] Psychologically, it's different for everyone, depending on whether or not you're ready to have sex and how it went!.

2!. The level of pain varies with each woman!. For example, it didn't hurt for me at *all*!. Some women say that the day afterwards they cramp, etc!. It's all very relative!. Also, if he's nice, it won't hurt as much!. Make sure YOU are ready, and you should be okay!.

3!. Sex feels amazing, but that doesn't mean you should rush out and have it!. Do it when you're ready, and you'll love it!. Don't be pressured into it!.

4!. If you're extremely worried about a mess, put a towel down underneath you/your hips!. I've never personally heard of there actually being a big mess though, but that again, is relative!.

5!. Being on bottom or top is a choice you need to make!. Explore and decide what feels good to you and your partner!.

6!. This sounds a bit harsh but really, if you're satisfied, he will most likely be satisfied!. Make sure you're enjoying yourself, and he will enjoy himself too!. Sex is about giving to each other, not just giving and receiving nothing in return!.

7!. Again, experiment!. Sex is all about experimentation!. Nobody starts out knowing exactly what to do and how to have sex like a porn star!.

8!. Moan if you feel like it!. Play music if you feel like it!. Do both if you feel like it!. Some women are very load, some never make any noise!.

9!. My first time was really, really boring and a let down!. I was having sex because he wanted me to, not because I wanted to!. It was just boring, it didn't feel good because I wasn't into it!. I wanted to make him happy but forgot about my own experience!. Don't be pressured into it!.

10!. If you're hurting after you loose your virginity, treat it like you would cramps!. Put heat on it and take some Advil!.

11!. Sex should NOT, I repeat, should NOT hurt!. There should be no getting immune to it!. If he waits for you to be ready, and you are (make sure you're wet, etc!.) then it won't hurt!. If it does, both of you need to work on getting you there!. Work on the foreplay, etc!. If you're not ready you could be hurt in the following ways:
- Tears of the vaginal tissues/muscles; Typically very painful, but should only happen if you're either extremely dry, or he's being way too rough!.
- His penis hitting your cervix!. When a female becomes aroused her cervix moves up to allow more room for the penis!. If you're not adequately ready, his penis may "bump" your cervix, and you will know when it does!. Just tell him to slow down and be nice!.

Good luck, I hope you enjoy it! Don't let him pressure you into it!. If he loves you, he'll wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

theres a lining in your vagina that pops
it hurts a little the first time, but youll get used to it
its actually pleasurable
there wont be a mess its not so bad
being on the bottom or top is your preferncde
roll your hips against his
it was a little awkward the first time but dont worry about it it gets better with tim
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1!.)nothing unless u're pregnant
2!.)if u're well lubricated it shouldn't hurt much
3!.)feels like heaven ;)
4!.)lay a towel on the bed !?
5!.)try both and decide which one u like
6!.)try different things and see which one he likes
7!.)it'll happen naturally ;) let nature take it's course
8!.)it's ok to moan as long as u don't wake up the neighbours
9!.)heavenly ;)
10!.)err put ice over it !?
11!.)depends on ur bodyWww@Answer-Health@Com

It doesn't hurt unless you are uncomfortable about doing it!. Just relax and make sure you're ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!.)what happens to the female body after the first time!?
The opening of the vagina is wider, that should be the only change!.

2!.)how bad does it hurt!?
It hurts a lot, but it's manageable!.

3!.)what does it feel like!?
At first, you can feel it a lot at the opening, where it hurts!. If you're not fully aroused it can hurt inside too, but if you're physically ready, it feels like a vague pressure inside!. Eventually it feels great!.

4!.)What can i do to prevent "messes" on the bed!?
Put a towel or an old sheet underneath!.

5!.)should i be on the bottom or the top!?
If you're on top, you can control everything like the angle and the depth!. This might be easier, but if it hurts a lot, you might prefer to be on the bottom to make things easier!.

6!.)how do i keep him satisfied!?
I don't really know what you mean by this!. During sex, being eager to please, communicating well, and not being shy should keep him satisfied!.

7!.)what should i do if im on top/bottom!?what movements do i make!?
If you're on the top, you'll want to lean slightly forward at an angle and rest your hands on the bed, then move your hips up and down!. If you're on bottom you don't need to move really, but you can thrust your hips to add to it!.

8!.)is it uncomfortable to make moan noises!?or should i have music playing!?
Don't make fake noises, but if you feel the need to moan, it should be fine!. Having quiet music playing can make it more comfortable if you're worried about awkward silence!.

9!.)What was it like your first time!?
It hurt like hell, but it was a very nice emotional bonding experience!.

10!.)What do i do afterwards to numb the pain!?
Having an orgasm yourself might help, but most of the pain goes away after!. The best way to avoid pain is to be completely aroused before you start!. For me, this meant getting as close as possible to orgasm without actually coming!. Foreplay is very very important, and if you have to do it yourself then do it!.

11!.)How many times does it take to be amune to the pain of sex!?
It took me about 10-15 times, but that was before we figured out how to do it right like I said above!.

Sex is amazing when it's with someone you love and you're ready!. If you don't want to do it, then don't let anyone pressure you!. And ALWAYS use a condom!Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. your vagina will prob be abit sore!.!.!.depends on how big is he and how tight u r!. Also depends on whether u r well lubricated when u do it!. In most cases, ur hymen will be broken!. A little of blood!.!.!.but dun worry abt it

2!. refer to ans 1

3!. prob some pain for the 1st time, depending on the sizes and whether u are well lubricated as i said!. But if u get into the mood, and if he knows his stuff, den u will enjoy some nice sensation of sex!.

4!. Ask him to use a condom or shoot it out properly on ur body, mouth eetc!.

5!. It will be gd if u try various positions!. When u on top, u get to control!. Otherwise, he controls!.

6!. Learn thru experience on how to make a guy happy in sex!. Have a nice foreplay and once the mood is set, make passionate love!. Try to be comfortable, set the ambience with music, set proper lighting and begin with a nice kiss!.

7!. Bottom, just lay there and enjoy!. U may wanna hug him, or rub his genitals and body gently!. U may also try to reach to kiss him or say something nice while he is pumping u away!. eg "oh my god dear, u r so gd!. pls dun stop!.!.!.pls go faster!.!.!.i love u"

8!. moan all u want!. it makes the guy get more excited!. A little romantic music will be nice!.

9!. It was nervous, not knowing wat is to come!. But it gets great once the mood is set!.

10!. Just relax and let it heal naturally!. Avoid ur 2nd time too soon!.

11!. As long as his is not dat big and thick, a few times will do, once u can get into the mood and well lubricated!.!.!.u will start enjoying only!.!.!.without any painWww@Answer-Health@Com

Q1!.it probably stretches the vagina
Q2!.it depends on if you brooke ur hymen or how big it is
Q3!.it just feels like some thing moving inside of you
Q4!.put a towel on the bed
Q5!.wht ever suits u
Q6!.grind it
Q7!.on top grind it on bottom he has controll
Q8!.moan and groan if u want it makes u feel more comfortable
Q9!.I was forced
Q10!.idk
Q11!.idkWww@Answer-Health@Com

1!. nothing too serious, pretty much u may experience sum soreness the next day, your body wont really have any side effects besides sum discomfort after the first time
2!. not tooo bad, for me it was like after the first real thrust it didnt hurt too bad!.
3!. its completely different than n e foreplay u may have done!. even if you have done all of the above besides sex, nothing is the same!. Its so great how u can simultanously be pleased instead of one at a time!.
4!. well if you use a condom that will prevent most messes!. a very few percentage of women actually bleed, and that is usually after sex itself!. Its really nothing to worry about but i would simply do it on a bed preferably with darker sheets so if there is n e thing you can just wash it!. guys will understand any messes, its a part of sex!.
5!. i recommend being on the bottom!. you can tell him to slow down but he can slowly enter you and if you are on top its harder to slowly lower urself!.
6!. believe me the fact that this guy is actually having sex will satisfy him enough, but from my experience my guy is most satisfied when i tell him what feels good, just basically its good for them to hear a compliment and they will enjoy it more knowing u are getting sumthing out of it!. also once you have a sex routine (same positons, places to have sex) its good to switch it up, which is why cosmo was invented!.
7!. like i said take bottom, and that doesnt really require much movement!. after you get more experienced ull know what moves feel good, but for now he is doing most of the work!.
8!. no music first time, its a powerful way of connecting two people and music may make u feel more comfortable but hearing eachother is important!. You can make moaning noises but dont do n e thing too fake, if something feels good let him know, and after time youll feel more comfortable moaning, dont go for that porn star scream, hell know ur faking and he wont be able to tell what you like if you are constantly screaming!.
9!. Gotta tell you no ones first time is like it is in the movies!. especially if u are both inexperienced, u just dont know what to do with urself!. But i remember after the first few seconds the pain subsided a bit and i got pleasure out of seeing my guy enjoying myself!. Its like christmas, giving is half the fun haha!. But anyway, we only had one condom, and long story short had to go get another one!.!.!. in a drug store that night!. I like to consider the next night our real first time cuz it went so smoothly!. Basically the first time isnt gonna be perfect, but just the fact that u are doing sumthing so intimate with another person really brings u together!.
10!. just take a ibuprofen or tylenol, no magic drug, but the pain really wont be too bad!. dont freak urself out!.
11!. id say by #5 ud really start to enjoy it!. Because by 1-4 u still have sum pain but it gets better and better!.

Basically if you trust ur boyfriend and you feel a strong connection with him this is gonna be a good time!. Its like your first kiss, so new and exciting, u dont know wat to expect, and you have heard so many stories but this is urs!. It doesnt have to be a perfect setting just make it yours!. Also id recommend getting on the pill, i got it free at planned parenthood and it gave me ease of mind if n e thing happened to the condom!. Dont stress tho, it will be so much better if you relax, have fuuun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to be mature, your question makes it seem like you are way too young to be having sex!. If you get pregnant your life as you know it ENDS!. You will no longer be able to hang out with your friends because you'll be at home watching junior!. You will either drop out or if you graduate that is the highest level of education you will probably attain!. You won't be able to afford anything because your paycheck will be going for the babies needs!. Then of course there is always the STDs out there!. Do you really want herpes, clamidya or HIV!? Do yourself a favor and wait!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well first of all!.!.!.How old are you!? I was very very young my first time and also ended up a single teen mom!. My first concern would be looking into sexually transmitted diseases, and all the consequences of having sex!. Do you really feel ready!? I know you probably heard this tons just wanna get those questions out of the way first!.

Ok here it goes!.!.!.!.!.Every female has a little different experience!. i have friends that only started and never finished because of the pain then friends that didn't feel a thing!. (no it wasn because they were loose sluts) that's only a myth!. The vaginal canal is shaped differently for every women!. This is why some women have a hard time with tampons!. Not everyone has a cherry that pops and if it does you will only bleed slightly!. I suggest to have an old blanket or towell underneath you!. As far as your position do what feel right!. If your ok with being on top go with it!. Just dont be concered about only pleasing him!. Im sure he will understand you nervousness!. After the first time you may feel swelling but after 2 days you shouldnt hurt again during sex!. I know my first time we did it too long and i was pretty swollen!.

Please becarefull!.!.!.!.!.!.

Just remember this!.!.!.!. one out of every four teen has herpes!. Male are the carieres of many std viruses (over100)!.!.!. as they can spread it they will never have it or show visible proof!.

If you are older then 18 !.!.!.then i guess you already an adult and you know what your doing

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Having sex for the first time doesn't always hurt!. I never experienced the pain during my first time and so therefore I can't answer your questions about that!. As for the position, I would advise you to be on the bottom to begin!. That at least was a bit less nerve-wracking for me!. That way he's more in control, but speaking of which, if you feel like you want more control don't be afraid to let him know that you'd rather switch to the top!. Now, if you're on the bottom, just try to push your pelvic area into him as he thrusts!. If you're on top, you want to move up and down, not forward and backward!. Honey, I wouldn't worry too much about keeping him satisfied!. As long as he knows it's your first time, there shouldn't be too much pressure and he'll take it easy on you!. Gentle kisses throughout really helped me my first time!. It helps you feel more intimate and it relaxes you more!. It shouldn't be too messy as long as he's wearing a condom and such and I wouldn't worry too much about messes on the bed!. As for what it feels like, I can't exactly describe it!. It is the most intense and wonderful thing I've ever felt!. You will surely enjoy it!. Oh, one more thing, I personally find that music takes away from the experience, especially when it's your first time!. You want all of your focus to be on each other!. I have never found the whole moaning thing to be a big deal!. Just remember, don't fake them!. Let it all come naturally!. Try not to stress too much and enjoy yourself!. And remember to be safe! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok, ignore that jerk
ill try to help

its gonna hurt at least a little, if ur really ready to do this, tell him that u want to make love, not just f*ck, if he loves u, just ask him to go slow, till u get used to it, trust me bottom would probably be easier for ur first time

as for messes, just lay a towel or something over the sheets!.!.!.

as for "keeping him satisfied" just let that come to u natural,
move ur hips, and ur stomach, wen he gives u a rythm of movement, wait til u pick it up, and move in time with him

sum like the music on, sum dont, ask him

most people says give ur body 3-4 times and ull be ammune to that pain!.!.!.!.

p!.s!.- sex isnt just screwing each other, u'll find that if the chemistry is rite, ull actually be able to talk during it, and tell each other wat u like, sounds wierd, maybe even akward, but its like kissing for the first time, its wierd cuz its new, but it gets better

p!.p!.s!.- fool around BEFORE he goes in, itll loosen ur body upWww@Answer-Health@Com

The first time I had sex SUCKED because I didn't love the guy!.
I'm just letting you know, MAKE SURE YOU LOVE HIM!!
Out of all the pain you endure, not loving him and giving him your virginity will hurt the most!.

For me, during sex, didn't hurt!. Just a hint, if you're on bottom, it kinda stung when I kept my legs straight!.!.!.wrap your legs around him!.
I got a terrible yeast infection afterwards!.!.!.But that's cause he was cheating on me with multiple women!. Use condoms!!!! Don't be stupid like me! I haven't had sex since then!. And another thing, if you're really nervous about it, get on the pill first!. He can wait :)
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