Girls i really need ur help?!
Question: Girls i really need ur help!?
please read all this i really need help and im in grade 7!.
okay its summer holiday and things are terrible!. This one kid talks about me soo much and so far i know that he told 3 people i started a rumor about them which isnt true aat all and they dont believe me and one said this :all you do is gossip about everybody else and then complain about how hard your life is: And I have never talked botut osmeone like ever and i dont complain how my lifes so hard im really sick like i lost 10 pounds havent left my house over a month and im not really eating much and im going to the docs and hospital alot and someone asks i heard ur sick so i tell them and they call all mad and everyones saying im faking it all whenr eally im going through suck a hard time(i get really bad sotmach achs like where im shaking and almost passing uot and stuff)please help me what do i tell the people when there talking bout me and what can i do to like myself more like to be happier!?!?thanx so muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
okay its summer holiday and things are terrible!. This one kid talks about me soo much and so far i know that he told 3 people i started a rumor about them which isnt true aat all and they dont believe me and one said this :all you do is gossip about everybody else and then complain about how hard your life is: And I have never talked botut osmeone like ever and i dont complain how my lifes so hard im really sick like i lost 10 pounds havent left my house over a month and im not really eating much and im going to the docs and hospital alot and someone asks i heard ur sick so i tell them and they call all mad and everyones saying im faking it all whenr eally im going through suck a hard time(i get really bad sotmach achs like where im shaking and almost passing uot and stuff)please help me what do i tell the people when there talking bout me and what can i do to like myself more like to be happier!?!?thanx so muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
To be happier i would hang out with you friends and try to forget about all that stuff!. have fun while you can!.
about that rumor problem, tell him/her how you feel and tell him/her to stop!. tell him/her the truth!. maybe get a friend to help you out!.
hope i helped !.!. <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
about that rumor problem, tell him/her how you feel and tell him/her to stop!. tell him/her the truth!. maybe get a friend to help you out!.
hope i helped !.!. <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay, so ur in 7th grade and you have a reputation of an annoying whiny prep, and you dont beleive it to be so, and your actually sick!?
well i say, you say stick it to everybody who doesnt believe you and hang out with people who'll actually listen to what you have to say!.
ps!. 7th grade sucks for just about everyone!. just relax and have fun!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i say, you say stick it to everybody who doesnt believe you and hang out with people who'll actually listen to what you have to say!.
ps!. 7th grade sucks for just about everyone!. just relax and have fun!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, the first thing you have to do is to stop caring about what other people think!. Don't listen to them!. If they call you names, just say "why thank you! that's the nicest thing anyone has said to me today" and walk away!. Of course, you aren't really thanking them, but it will be the last thing they are expecting you to say!. (I've been using that line since 1st grade and it works every time!.)
People pick on other people because they want to see their reactions!. Obviously, if they can upset you, then they win and they think they are better than you, but THEY'RE NOT! And don't let them bully you!. If they say you are starting rumors then just ignore them!. I moved a lot and was often "the new girl" and people thought it would be easy to pick on me and start rumors about me, but it never bothered me at all because I knew they weren't true and my real friends knew they weren't true either and eventually, the people who would say stuff about me just stopped because they weren't getting a reaction from me!.
I'm very sorry that you're sick and have to stay home, but please don't let these people rule or ruin your life!. They are not important!. If they are calling you at home, then get someone else to answer the phone for you and if it's someone you don't want to talk to, then say that!. If they have your cell number, then just don't answer the phone or block them!. If they are on your friends list on MySpace or stuff like that, then block them!.
You don't have to deal with them!. Trust me, the best thing is just to ignore them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
People pick on other people because they want to see their reactions!. Obviously, if they can upset you, then they win and they think they are better than you, but THEY'RE NOT! And don't let them bully you!. If they say you are starting rumors then just ignore them!. I moved a lot and was often "the new girl" and people thought it would be easy to pick on me and start rumors about me, but it never bothered me at all because I knew they weren't true and my real friends knew they weren't true either and eventually, the people who would say stuff about me just stopped because they weren't getting a reaction from me!.
I'm very sorry that you're sick and have to stay home, but please don't let these people rule or ruin your life!. They are not important!. If they are calling you at home, then get someone else to answer the phone for you and if it's someone you don't want to talk to, then say that!. If they have your cell number, then just don't answer the phone or block them!. If they are on your friends list on MySpace or stuff like that, then block them!.
You don't have to deal with them!. Trust me, the best thing is just to ignore them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best thing you can do to help yourself right now is take care of your health and try not to let these other kids bother you!. Kids with no medical problems find it hard to believe one of their peers can be sickly, mostly because they don't want to believe they themselves can ever get seriously ill!. I wish I had better advice but I have been sickly my entire life and went through what you are now as a kid!. Take care of you and don't stress!. (((HUGS)))Www@Answer-Health@Com